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by Royal Frankia » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:34 am
by Royal Frankia » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:35 am
Ifreann wrote:Inflicting physical pain on people in an effort to correct their behaviour doesn't sound like a useful course of action.
by A-Series-Of-Tubes » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:37 am
Ifreann wrote:Inflicting physical pain on people in an effort to correct their behaviour doesn't sound like a useful course of action.
by Royal Frankia » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:38 am
by Daarwyrth » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:38 am
Royal Frankia wrote:I've lived through parents not being able to fully discipline a child and seen the consequences. I've dealt with social workers who've tried to plan the lives of everyone else while ignoring an abusive child that can legit throw their parents up against the wall or break their wrists.
I would say the scientific community might be wrong on this as it was wrong on gender or eugenics. Also, there is the lack of observing societies in which said discipline takes place or how much was say prevented
Slapping your child's hand to stop them from touching a redhot burner isn't abuse, it's neglect by the parent if they allow their child to burn the everliving crap out of their hand.
by Kilobugya » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:42 am
Royal Frankia wrote:Also, there is the lack of observing societies in which said discipline takes place or how much was say prevented
Royal Frankia wrote:Slapping your child's hand to stop them from touching a redhot burner isn't abuse, it's neglect by the parent if they allow their child to burn the everliving crap out of their hand.
by Royal Frankia » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:46 am
Kilobugya wrote:Royal Frankia wrote:Also, there is the lack of observing societies in which said discipline takes place or how much was say prevented
Well, nordic societies have a very strong "no hitting children" policy, and they tend to also rank very well on not having to resort much to prison and punishments for adults. Even more evidence your way.Royal Frankia wrote:Slapping your child's hand to stop them from touching a redhot burner isn't abuse, it's neglect by the parent if they allow their child to burn the everliving crap out of their hand.
That's a false dichotomy. It's not like either you slap the hand, or you let the child burn. You can grab (without hurting him) the child's wrist or harm or even the whole child and prevent him from burning himself, then explain to him why he shouldn't do that, in a way appropriate for the child's age and personality. Slapping the child's hand might prevent the child from getting burned this one time, but it'll not prevent the child from being burned the next time he gets close to something redhot, quite the opposite, he'll quickly look around, see you're not here to slap him, and do it even more.
by A-Series-Of-Tubes » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:47 am
Royal Frankia wrote:I've lived through parents not being able to fully discipline a child and seen the consequences. I've dealt with social workers who've tried to plan the lives of everyone else while ignoring an abusive child that can legit throw their parents up against the wall or break their wrists.
I would say the scientific community might be wrong on this as it was wrong on gender or eugenics. Also, there is the lack of observing societies in which said discipline takes place or how much was say prevented
Slapping your child's hand to stop them from touching a redhot burner isn't abuse, it's neglect by the parent if they allow their child to burn the everliving crap out of their hand.
by Royal Frankia » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:48 am
Daarwyrth wrote:Royal Frankia wrote:I've lived through parents not being able to fully discipline a child and seen the consequences. I've dealt with social workers who've tried to plan the lives of everyone else while ignoring an abusive child that can legit throw their parents up against the wall or break their wrists.
I would say the scientific community might be wrong on this as it was wrong on gender or eugenics. Also, there is the lack of observing societies in which said discipline takes place or how much was say prevented
Slapping your child's hand to stop them from touching a redhot burner isn't abuse, it's neglect by the parent if they allow their child to burn the everliving crap out of their hand.
It seems you keep forgetting most people have a voice, brain and reason. You can literally explain and teach a child, without violence, that they cannot touch a burning stove. You literally can prevent a child from doing that by using your voice, brain and reason. It requires a level of maturity on the parent's part.
You're continuing to wreck your own credibility and the credibility of your "arguments".
by Daarwyrth » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:49 am
Royal Frankia wrote:Issue is that patients are not there all the time due to the need for them to work themselves to death to raise a child. The lack of a parent in the lives of a child can lead to depression and other things down the line that add up for society.
Royal Frankia wrote:Daarwyrth wrote:It seems you keep forgetting most people have a voice, brain and reason. You can literally explain and teach a child, without violence, that they cannot touch a burning stove. You literally can prevent a child from doing that by using your voice, brain and reason. It requires a level of maturity on the parent's part.
You're continuing to wreck your own credibility and the credibility of your "arguments".
You forget that a toddler is not the at the same mental stage as a 15 year old. What I have an issue with is calling preventive action by a parent abuse, which in turn has consequences for everyone else in that household.
by Kilobugya » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:52 am
Royal Frankia wrote:Nordic societies have a strong welfare tradition which reduces the need for prisons.
Royal Frankia wrote:In that situation, letting your child burn themselves is neglect by the parent.
by The New California Republic » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:54 am
by Zul-ar » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:54 am
Royal Frankia wrote:Correction is required for the youth, particularly if they get into the habit of disrespecting their elders/authorities.
Royal Frankia wrote:A paddling at age 9 is preferable and cheaper than say the cost of housing that 18 year old in prison.
In the models adjusted for sociodemographic variables, harsh physical punishment was associated with an increased likelihood of most lifetime mental disorders, including major depression, dysthymia, mania, any mood disorder, specific phobia, any anxiety disorder, and any alcohol and drug abuse or dependence
Royal Frankia wrote:You have to realize that when parents are working themselves to death just to have kids they can't watch everything their kids do.
Royal Frankia wrote:Heck, what happens when their brat at 18 is disrespectful in court and gets slapped with contempt of court?
Royal Frankia wrote:What you're calling for is more intervention later when that child is an adult than say shaping that child before that child reaches adulthood.
Royal Frankia wrote:Correction is needed, would you consider slapping a child's hand before it touches a hot burner to be abuse?
Royal Frankia wrote:The child, in the event of being punished in such fashion, learns that there are consequences for their behavior.
Royal Frankia wrote:If they cannot understand at that stage, they can feel. Depriving children of discipline is as abusive as depriving them of food or water knowing the long-term consequences.
Royal Frankia wrote:What happens when the brat at 18 takes a swing at a cop?
Royal Frankia wrote:Heck, are you willing to throw parents in jail for doing what they ought to do by disciplining their child if they act out?
Royal Frankia wrote:Correction, in this sense, does not promote violence.
Royal Frankia wrote:It teaches that there are consequences for their actions, which is vital for the future of the child.
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by Ifreann » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:57 am
by A-Series-Of-Tubes » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:58 am
Daarwyrth wrote:Royal Frankia wrote:I've lived through parents not being able to fully discipline a child and seen the consequences. I've dealt with social workers who've tried to plan the lives of everyone else while ignoring an abusive child that can legit throw their parents up against the wall or break their wrists.
I would say the scientific community might be wrong on this as it was wrong on gender or eugenics. Also, there is the lack of observing societies in which said discipline takes place or how much was say prevented
Slapping your child's hand to stop them from touching a redhot burner isn't abuse, it's neglect by the parent if they allow their child to burn the everliving crap out of their hand.
It seems you keep forgetting most people have a voice, brain and reason. You can literally explain and teach a child, without violence, that they cannot touch a burning stove. You literally can prevent a child from doing that by using your voice, brain and reason. It requires a level of maturity on the parent's part.
You're continuing to wreck your own credibility and the credibility of your "arguments".
by Kilobugya » Fri Mar 05, 2021 7:59 am
Royal Frankia wrote:You forget that a toddler is not the at the same mental stage as a 15 year old.
Royal Frankia wrote:What I have an issue with is calling preventive action by a parent abuse
by Kilobugya » Fri Mar 05, 2021 8:00 am
Ifreann wrote:The fuck does requisitioning resources from society by force mean?
by Wink Wonk We Like Stonks » Fri Mar 05, 2021 8:01 am
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by Wink Wonk We Like Stonks » Fri Mar 05, 2021 8:03 am
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by The New California Republic » Fri Mar 05, 2021 8:04 am
by Daarwyrth » Fri Mar 05, 2021 8:11 am
by Kilobugya » Fri Mar 05, 2021 8:12 am
Daarwyrth wrote:Oh no! God forbid taxes are used to actually help people and create a society wherein everyone can thrive together, instead of the rich getting everything they need while the poor suffer! /S
by Agarntrop » Fri Mar 05, 2021 8:13 am
by Zul-ar » Fri Mar 05, 2021 8:19 am
Myself as well. The woman I knew was lazy and old-fashioned. When her daughter misbehaved, she'd hit her. Her daughter got used to it and would misbehave when her mother wasn't looking. When she didn't get her way with other kids, she'd follow her mother's example and hit them. Her mother never properly explained to her why what she did was wrong, so she never felt the need to stop. Her mother blamed the daughter's personality problems on her inherent qualities, instead of addressing her own failed parenting. Her child is out of control now and never listens to her.Royal Frankia wrote:I've lived through parents not being able to fully discipline a child and seen the consequences.
If their kid got to that point, then they were doing something wrong all along. How is continuing to hit them solving the problem? Put the kid in a special facility for out of control kids or something. Also, we're obviously not talking about using violence in self-defense here, we're talking about punishment.Royal Frankia wrote:I've dealt with social workers who've tried to plan the lives of everyone else while ignoring an abusive child that can legit throw their parents up against the wall or break their wrists.
There's no evidence to support that claim.Royal Frankia wrote:I would say the scientific community might be wrong on this as it was wrong on gender or eugenics.
No idea what you mean hereRoyal Frankia wrote:Also, there is the lack of observing societies in which said discipline takes place or how much was say prevented
Royal Frankia wrote:Slapping your child's hand to stop them from touching a redhot burner isn't abuse, it's neglect by the parent if they allow their child to burn the everliving crap out of their hand.
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