That's roughly where I grew up. It's not like the most inclusive place but I don't exactly feel like I'm going to be hate crimed on a daily basis.
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by Auzkhia » Thu Mar 04, 2021 9:37 am
by San Lumen » Thu Mar 04, 2021 9:41 am
Auzkhia wrote:Stagnant Axon Terminal wrote:That's roughly where I grew up. It's not like the most inclusive place but I don't exactly feel like I'm going to be hate crimed on a daily basis.
I like to think Philadelphia is a queer and trans haven, but like even hate crimes can happen there. And if you go out to rural areas, there's some hateful enclaves. My college was north of Harrisburg in one of the most Republican counties in Pennsylvania, and I would feel so weird off campus especially far from the town even the shops I had to be careful. It was not the best place to start my transition.
by Auzkhia » Thu Mar 04, 2021 9:43 am
San Lumen wrote:Auzkhia wrote:I like to think Philadelphia is a queer and trans haven, but like even hate crimes can happen there. And if you go out to rural areas, there's some hateful enclaves. My college was north of Harrisburg in one of the most Republican counties in Pennsylvania, and I would feel so weird off campus especially far from the town even the shops I had to be careful. It was not the best place to start my transition.
Hate crimes and bigotry can happen anywhere. I've had people look at me crosseyed for holding hands with a guy in NYC.
by San Lumen » Thu Mar 04, 2021 9:50 am
Auzkhia wrote:San Lumen wrote:
Hate crimes and bigotry can happen anywhere. I've had people look at me crosseyed for holding hands with a guy in NYC.
Being white for me definitely has saved my skin, especially with cops and most bigots. Like, most trans murders I hear about are about Black trans women. Usually irl I get stared or people who act passive aggressive, really only the drunks ask the rude questions about me being trans. I think I get way more harassment online than offline.
by Auzkhia » Thu Mar 04, 2021 9:56 am
San Lumen wrote:Auzkhia wrote:Being white for me definitely has saved my skin, especially with cops and most bigots. Like, most trans murders I hear about are about Black trans women. Usually irl I get stared or people who act passive aggressive, really only the drunks ask the rude questions about me being trans. I think I get way more harassment online than offline.
NYC is definitely more tolerant than the small town I grew up in which is why I want to return to the city soon.
by San Lumen » Thu Mar 04, 2021 9:57 am
Auzkhia wrote:San Lumen wrote:
NYC is definitely more tolerant than the small town I grew up in which is why I want to return to the city soon.
I live in the suburbs rather than Philly itself, but I went there for a few pride events, including outfest, and of course the Planned Parenthood in center city's gayborhood is where I started HRT, even if for one appt I had to drive 3 hours from my college, but it's much less further to drive from home, and now I don't even go there in person because it's still telehealth.
I'm glad it's a bit easier for trans people to get the care they need, it's not perfect, especially with surgeries rather than HRT, but informed consent is how most medications work anyway.
by Zul-ar » Thu Mar 04, 2021 9:59 am
San Lumen wrote:Auzkhia wrote:I live in the suburbs rather than Philly itself, but I went there for a few pride events, including outfest, and of course the Planned Parenthood in center city's gayborhood is where I started HRT, even if for one appt I had to drive 3 hours from my college, but it's much less further to drive from home, and now I don't even go there in person because it's still telehealth.
I'm glad it's a bit easier for trans people to get the care they need, it's not perfect, especially with surgeries rather than HRT, but informed consent is how most medications work anyway.
Im more of a city person. Don;t care for suburbs.
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by Auzkhia » Thu Mar 04, 2021 10:08 am
San Lumen wrote:Auzkhia wrote:I live in the suburbs rather than Philly itself, but I went there for a few pride events, including outfest, and of course the Planned Parenthood in center city's gayborhood is where I started HRT, even if for one appt I had to drive 3 hours from my college, but it's much less further to drive from home, and now I don't even go there in person because it's still telehealth.
I'm glad it's a bit easier for trans people to get the care they need, it's not perfect, especially with surgeries rather than HRT, but informed consent is how most medications work anyway.
Im more of a city person. Don;t care for suburbs.
by Nakena » Thu Mar 04, 2021 10:13 am
Auzkhia wrote:I feel like i have a particular living space taste, especially as a polyamorous person who wants to live with at least my fiancée and girlfriend, maybe have other girlfriends and metamours.
by Zordennox » Thu Mar 04, 2021 10:14 am
by San Lumen » Thu Mar 04, 2021 10:16 am
Auzkhia wrote:San Lumen wrote:
Im more of a city person. Don;t care for suburbs.
I like the cities near me but like I don't wanna be too cramped or crowded. I don't like the house I am in now though it is quiet and nobody bothers you, it's almost rural tbh.
Still, small city or suburban town seems to be a best both worlds, and not a McMansion farm. My partners would need the public transportation too. I like driving but hate city parking.
I feel like i have a particular living space taste, especially as a polyamorous person who wants to live with at least my fiancée and girlfriend, maybe have other girlfriends and metamours.
by Nakena » Thu Mar 04, 2021 10:16 am
Zordennox wrote:Less straight sex + more gay sex = population decline
by Zul-ar » Thu Mar 04, 2021 10:20 am
Zordennox wrote:Less straight sex + more gay sex = population decline
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by Kowani » Thu Mar 04, 2021 10:22 am
by Nakena » Thu Mar 04, 2021 10:24 am
Zul-ar wrote:Zordennox wrote:Less straight sex + more gay sex = population decline
1. There is not nearly enough exclusively gay sex happening for that to happen
2. Gay people can have biological children. IVF and sperm donors exist.
3. Humanity is not at a lack of people.
4. The article says nothing about an increase of exclusively gay sex, only more people identifying as LGBT
5. Bisexuals also have heterosexual sex
6. Seriously, did you not think about what you were typing at all?
by Zul-ar » Thu Mar 04, 2021 10:26 am
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by Zul-ar » Thu Mar 04, 2021 10:30 am
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by Kowani » Thu Mar 04, 2021 10:36 am
by Cultural Posadism » Thu Mar 04, 2021 10:37 am
Zordennox wrote:Less straight sex + more gay sex = population decline
by My Political Fantasy » Thu Mar 04, 2021 10:44 am
Zordennox wrote:Less straight sex + more gay sex = population decline
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