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Postby Sky Reavers » Wed Jan 13, 2021 8:21 am

Champagne Socialist Sharifistan wrote:Why do you assume I got off to it? Some men care about women. Some men want to protect women. It’s the same reason you might think someone’s scum for hitting a girl. It’s called chivalry.


But seriously, I approve chivalry and I like the idea of punching some scumbag for hitting and abusing girl. But punchin' someone, cause he said "Nice ass" is a lil' bit too much. I'd rather ignore that. Maybe he is just a drunken idiot. Besides, what if he turns out to be better fighter, maybe even some MMA star, and he kicks your ass straight to the hospital? Lady Fortune is just like that.

So be careful around your parts and may ya' never have to fight for real.
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Postby Champagne Socialist Sharifistan » Wed Jan 13, 2021 8:43 am

Sky Reavers wrote:
Champagne Socialist Sharifistan wrote:Why do you assume I got off to it? Some men care about women. Some men want to protect women. It’s the same reason you might think someone’s scum for hitting a girl. It’s called chivalry.


But seriously, I approve chivalry and I like the idea of punching some scumbag for hitting and abusing girl. But punchin' someone, cause he said "Nice ass" is a lil' bit too much. I'd rather ignore that. Maybe he is just a drunken idiot. Besides, what if he turns out to be better fighter, maybe even some MMA star, and he kicks your ass straight to the hospital? Lady Fortune is just like that.

So be careful around your parts and may ya' never have to fight for real.

Many girls would consider saying “nice ass” to be really humiliating. Do you really think a girl who wears a hijab or who blushes when a girl is flirtatious in a nice way would consider that not a big deal?
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Postby Sky Reavers » Wed Jan 13, 2021 8:47 am

Champagne Socialist Sharifistan wrote:Many girls would consider saying “nice ass” to be really humiliating. Do you really think a girl who wears a hijab or who blushes when a girl is flirtatious in a nice way would consider that not a big deal?


Some would, sone wouldn't. Different people. Different cultures. Islamic norms are not one size fits all. Besides, topic is about polyandry. So let us stay on the course, tovarisch.
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Postby Champagne Socialist Sharifistan » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:12 am

Soon I will make a thread “is chivalry good?”
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Postby Stellar Colonies » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:21 am

Champagne Socialist Sharifistan wrote:Soon I will make a thread “is chivalry good?”

By 'chivalry', do you mean the way people in general tend to view it today (men doing things for women because they're women), or historical knightly chivalry regarding combat and such?
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Postby Esheaun Stroakuss » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:21 am

Champagne Socialist Sharifistan wrote:Soon I will make a thread “is chivalry good?”


Chivalry is not inherently bad, just outdated.
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Postby Insaanistan » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:25 am

Esheaun Stroakuss wrote:
Champagne Socialist Sharifistan wrote:Soon I will make a thread “is chivalry good?”


Chivalry is not inherently bad, just outdated.

Eh. Not really.
For example, I’ve made it clear to my closest female friends that I intend to protect them (including from other guys) at all costs. The two general responses I get are “thank you” or “right back atcha”.
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Champagne Socialist Sharifistan wrote:
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This is insanely draconian.

How? I’d rather be pickpocketed than receive unwanted sexual attention from another male and I’m sure the girl I love would rather suffer a thousand punches than one sexual comment from some stranger.

i'd rather have someone catcall me than steal from me and no girl i know would rather be punched a thousand times than have a stranger make a sexual remark about her. draconian laws against sexual harassment and false accusations of adultery would help no one.
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Postby Champagne Socialist Sharifistan » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:26 am

Stellar Colonies wrote:
Champagne Socialist Sharifistan wrote:Soon I will make a thread “is chivalry good?”

By 'chivalry', do you mean the way people in general tend to view it today (men doing things for women because they're women), or historical knightly chivalry regarding combat and such?

The thread will be about the former but they’re linked and always have been. Fighting against invaders is one way to protect women.
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Postby Esheaun Stroakuss » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:28 am

Insaanistan wrote:
Esheaun Stroakuss wrote:
Chivalry is not inherently bad, just outdated.

Eh. Not really.
For example, I’ve made it clear to my closest female friends that I intend to protect them (including from other guys) at all costs. The two general responses I get are “thank you” or “right back atcha”.


I would make my intentions clear if I was with male or female friends.
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Postby The Untied State » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:28 am

Champagne Socialist Sharifistan wrote:
Adamede wrote:I’m saying you can’t throw people in jail, or whip them or whatever it is that you get off too, for catcalling.

Not really.

Why do you assume I got off to it? Some men care about women. Some men want to protect women. It’s the same reason you might think someone’s scum for hitting a girl. It’s called chivalry.

men who don't think sexual harassment deserves a public flogging still care about women. hitting anyone is bad regardless of their gender. it's not chivalry, it's just being a decent person.
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Postby Esheaun Stroakuss » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:29 am

I’m sure the girl I love would rather suffer a thousand punches than one sexual comment from some stranger.


What the actual fuck.
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Postby The Untied State » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:30 am

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I’m sure the girl I love would rather suffer a thousand punches than one sexual comment from some stranger.


What the actual fuck.

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Postby Stellar Colonies » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:31 am

(Polyandry thread)

Champagne Socialist Sharifistan wrote:
Stellar Colonies wrote:By 'chivalry', do you mean the way people in general tend to view it today (men doing things for women because they're women), or historical knightly chivalry regarding combat and such?

The thread will be about the former but they’re linked and always have been. Fighting against invaders is one way to protect women.

Ah. Well, I know how I'll respond to that...
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Postby Insaanistan » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:35 am

Esheaun Stroakuss wrote:
I’m sure the girl I love would rather suffer a thousand punches than one sexual comment from some stranger.


What the actual fuck.

As someone with African family members, I can confirm that there are actually quite few women who feel that way.
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Postby Adamede » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:38 am

Champagne Socialist Sharifistan wrote:
Sky Reavers wrote:
But seriously, I approve chivalry and I like the idea of punching some scumbag for hitting and abusing girl. But punchin' someone, cause he said "Nice ass" is a lil' bit too much. I'd rather ignore that. Maybe he is just a drunken idiot. Besides, what if he turns out to be better fighter, maybe even some MMA star, and he kicks your ass straight to the hospital? Lady Fortune is just like that.

So be careful around your parts and may ya' never have to fight for real.

Many girls would consider saying “nice ass” to be really humiliating. Do you really think a girl who wears a hijab or who blushes when a girl is flirtatious in a nice way would consider that not a big deal?

Does it really fucking matter? Cat calling shouldn’t be a fucking crime.

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Postby The Untied State » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:40 am

Adamede wrote:
Champagne Socialist Sharifistan wrote:Many girls would consider saying “nice ass” to be really humiliating. Do you really think a girl who wears a hijab or who blushes when a girl is flirtatious in a nice way would consider that not a big deal?

Does it really fucking matter? Cat calling shouldn’t be a fucking crime.

it's like making smoking a crime, it's bad but making it illegal won't do shit about it
so basically 2020 election happens, there's a civil bloodbath, and the political system is overhauled as the nation tries to find unity and a new identity in a new age of political violence, alaska, hawaii, and puerto rico left the union, proportional representation enabled an increasingly individualized and oddly specific political climate, and lib-left lib-right solidarity is the favored form of compromise, now with a new flag!

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Postby Insaanistan » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:40 am

Asked my best friend this (she’s Latina and bi, dunno if that has any cultural/societal impact on her views).

She says chivalry is a little bad because it often heavily implied women were weak.
She also says she’d rather take the punches than the comment.
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Postby Sky Reavers » Wed Jan 13, 2021 9:50 am

Insaanistan wrote:She says chivalry is a little bad because it often heavily implied women were weak.
She also says she’d rather take the punches than the comment.


Well sure, women have the strength and can do it, but it's always good to have someone who aids and covers you in a hard situation!
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Postby Adamede » Wed Jan 13, 2021 10:23 am

Sky Reavers wrote:
Insaanistan wrote:She says chivalry is a little bad because it often heavily implied women were weak.
She also says she’d rather take the punches than the comment.


Well sure, women have the strength and can do it, but it's always good to have someone who aids and covers you in a hard situation!

So then why is it that chivalry only ever seems to apply to coming to the aid of women?

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Postby Elwher » Wed Jan 13, 2021 10:57 am

Adamede wrote:
Sky Reavers wrote:
Well sure, women have the strength and can do it, but it's always good to have someone who aids and covers you in a hard situation!

So then why is it that chivalry only ever seems to apply to coming to the aid of women?


Historically, a large part of it was the defense of those less powerful than oneself. That included women, the elderly, children, and non-combatants in general.
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Postby Champagne Socialist Sharifistan » Wed Jan 13, 2021 12:14 pm

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Adamede wrote:Does it really fucking matter? Cat calling shouldn’t be a fucking crime.

it's like making smoking a crime, it's bad but making it illegal won't do shit about it

Why would someone cat call in public if it’s illegal?
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Postby Jedi Council » Wed Jan 13, 2021 12:39 pm

Champagne Socialist Sharifistan wrote:
The Untied State wrote:it's like making smoking a crime, it's bad but making it illegal won't do shit about it

Why would someone cat call in public if it’s illegal?

People do illegal things all the time.

Making it a crime is just idiotic, it wouldn't stop it in any way shape or form.
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Postby Esalia » Wed Jan 13, 2021 12:41 pm

Champagne Socialist Sharifistan wrote:
The Untied State wrote:it's like making smoking a crime, it's bad but making it illegal won't do shit about it

Why would someone cat call in public if it’s illegal?


Why do we have murder if it's illegal?
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Postby Adamede » Wed Jan 13, 2021 4:29 pm

Insaanistan wrote:
Esheaun Stroakuss wrote:
Chivalry is not inherently bad, just outdated.

Eh. Not really.
For example, I’ve made it clear to my closest female friends that I intend to protect them (including from other guys) at all costs. The two general responses I get are “thank you” or “right back atcha”.

That’s not what chivalry is. Chivalry is a medieval Western European warrior code.

And to think it is goes to show how outdated the concept is.

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