I don't know your age exactly, but it seems very likely to me that your "biological clock" has gone off, and what's lack from your life is children. (I can imagine other posters mentally screaming "noooo, Saiwania and children in the same house, worst idea ever Hobos"). But parenthood does sometimes reform a person's character, as the realize that responsibility was what they lacked all along. It dawns on them that freedom is boring and unsatisfying, without also some responsibility. If that doesn't ring any bells, how about a lurking sense of vulnerability? A realization that your life is short and precious?
It is a huge step for anyone to become a parent, even if they have stable employment and accommodation, or even some accumulated wealth. If they can't live up to the responsibility, they should leave but if that leaves someone else a single parent, leaving is very irresponsible in itself. The way out of this dilemma (other than not getting into it in the first place) is to find a single mother of one or two small children (a baby even) and try to make yourself welcome in her house. Be friendly and a good listener, be eager but not pushy for sex, help out in small manly ways whenever you see the opportunity. If the day never comes when she says "I'd like you to move in" then so be it. And if after weeks of trying you can't get along with her kid/kids, then also the plan should change to just being a friend (with or without benefits). What you're aiming for isn't a happy family: that's probably never going to happen, it's just a living situation where you're sure everyone is better off with you there, than if you left.
If you're checking out a young single mother and she's so nice and self-supporting and comely that you can't believe she's interested in you, she's probably out of your league. Too good to be true = too good to last. She will determine your problems and (probably suddenly) boot you out. Which would be terrible for you, but possibly also for one or more of her kids. I presume you want a white partner and white children, but don't even try unless you can see she has some problem keeping her from getting the partner of her choice. The problem might be obvious (she's fat, or badly educated, or has chronic health problems) or it may be something she can hide. But -- if it's not rude -- you've got some problems too, and at this stage you don't deserve a sweet-tempered, bubbly young lady, and don't think that you having money she needs will make that work. Be honest with yourself about where you are on the male dating ladder, and try for a white woman (with one or more small children) at about the same level on the female ladder. Try not to consider her children in that: to many men, children hanging around makes a woman much less attractive as a sexual partner, but single mothers are quite wary of men who seem more interested in the children than in them. For one obvious reason, but also that the children might like YOU better than her at some time in the future. You need a woman you could live with happily (enough, not first love or anything), even if there were not children. If you believe in dating, that would make it easier to form first impressions. Though personally dating has never been anything but a disaster for me, I've always met my partners as friends, introduced by other friends, and never been concerned by the suspicion of some match-making going on. I have zero sense of my own in telling if someone is "right for me" ... so, just saying, there are alternatives to dating if you're no good at it.
If it doesn't work out for you, then I'm sorry. But at least I didn't suggest you meet a nice white woman and make her pregnant. That's all-in: you'll never get out without a big hole in your heart where the kid used to be.