Upper Nan wrote:What does this have to do with anything? My comment wasn't a statement on whether or not this happens (I have no doubt it does), just that it isn't comparable to actual discrimination.
And your basis for dismissing the comparison was that "jerk" or "dates a jerk" aren't protected classes (although when most of the people complaining about this reach voting age the latter could become one) but the discrimination isn't against the sexual orientation but against a decision made.
As well, as others have pointed out a gay wedding constitutes expressing a point; legitimizing the gay wedding. I don't agree with people who want to "de-legitimize" it, but is it really okay to coerce them into being involved? This isn't like serving minorities food or lodging; those can become desperately needed under circumstances and the harm done by allowing a town to denying it en masse outweighs the freedom not to do so.
There is a message sent by videography for gay weddings, and that is "I am contributing to this wedding by providing my services." When it comes to relationships, freedom is something people prioritize much more. It's why "no is a complete sentence" even in contexts where there are a variety of very good reasons one could express politely. Why then, does no not also mean no when it comes to the right to refuse to document it?
If one were to say the same for an interracial wedding or anything else, I would hope society has the sense to err on the side of freedom here.
Upper Nan wrote:What criticism? They didn't criticize anything, they denied them a service based on their sexual orientation--which is discrimination against protected class.
My bad, force of habit.
Nonetheless, they didn't discriminate based on their sexual orientation, just on acting on it. Just as if someone is attracted to jerks, denying them a cake for marrying one doesn't make it discrimination.
Upper Nan wrote:If their only reason to deny was because you're disabled, yes.
What if certain actions or behaviours of mine were caused by my disability and they disliked those actions or behaviours enough to refuse service then? Would they have the right to?
In all honesty, I have bigger fish to fry due to said disability (won't identify it for obvious reasons) and if society respects the taxpayer's right not to subsidize the medical supplies I so desperately need, I would hope it respects the right of the individual business owner not to provide a service I might possibly someday slightly want.