I want to ask a question that I'm sure some of you have asked before, and it's based partially on experience. For some context, I've known several people with high functioning autism in my life and their experiences have made me feel a certain type of way about the condition. One person in particular who has had a rough time due to autism is my friend Peter, who I have known for a long time. Peter was diagnosed at age 4 with asperger's syndrome and in school had an IEP. The guy also had to attend a monthly "social skills" session where they gathered together kids with autism to teach them lame shit like "how to play with a friend." At age 17, after a particularly bad quarrel in Peter's broken (more like devastated) home, his mother threw him out onto the streets to fend for himself. He had only started his first job at Arby's a couple weeks prior and had next to no money, nowhere to go and only his phone and the clothes he was wearing. That and a phone charger was all he had. Literally nothing else. He spent six months homeless and eventually moved into a friend's house. Life wasn't easy at that time but nothing could compare to what happened the following year. Peter's mother went to court and got what was known as a guardianship contract with the state, claiming that Peter was autistic, could not care for himself and needed to be made a ward of the state for the rest of his life. He was taken by his mother from his friend's home to a group home and was not told where he was going until it was too late. For the last three years now, he has languished in a grouphome with an ex convict, a guy with down syndrome and "someone who screams."
There are many things that piss me off with this situation. For starters, his mom not only kicked him out, but then took the only thing he had left away from him, which was his freedom. Her claim that he is unable to care for himself is also ridiculous since Peter has aspergers and is basically a normal guy like you or me (well, except he's a shit rapper). But because of the label ascribed to him, he was shut away in a group home, potentially forever. This story comes after years of watching people I know be humiliated and treated in a patronizing manner by school officials and sometimes their own families because of their autism. Even when they can take care of themselves and live an otherwise normal life, they're treated like children by certain people. So I can't help but wonder if our society hasn't really educated itself on autism at all. Autism is a spectrum but the way people react to anyone who qas diagnosed, you would think every autistic person is rainman. Should we take a more hands off approach to those with high functioning autism? Is it possible that our current approach has done more harm than good? Have you as an individual been diagnosed with autism and what have your experiences been? How would you deal with mild autism/aspergers syndrome if you ran society?