Obviously that term doesn't appear in the Bible.
So as I said, those passages don't say that marriage is important, just that it must be ordered a certain way.
That's some awfully sexist shit.
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by Ifreann » Wed May 20, 2020 5:59 am

by Geneviev » Wed May 20, 2020 7:24 am
Ifreann wrote:Geneviev wrote:That's the general idea.
So as I said, those passages don't say that marriage is important, just that it must be ordered a certain way.Geneviev wrote:It is generally more efficient that way. And usually one side is more qualified than the other to have authority. There can be exceptions, but that is usually what happens.
That's some awfully sexist shit.

by Ifreann » Wed May 20, 2020 7:30 am
It doesn't have to be sexist.

by Geneviev » Wed May 20, 2020 7:32 am
Ifreann wrote:Geneviev wrote:It's important because of the way that it is ordered.
So it's not the Bible saying that marriage is an important Christian ideal, it's just you.It doesn't have to be sexist.
You just pointed to Bible passages saying that the husband has to have authority over the wife and you justified that by saying that one side is generally more qualified to have authority, i.e. that men are more qualified to have authority than women. That's sexist.

by Neutraligon » Wed May 20, 2020 7:35 am
Geneviev wrote:Ifreann wrote:So it's not the Bible saying that marriage is an important Christian ideal, it's just you.
You just pointed to Bible passages saying that the husband has to have authority over the wife and you justified that by saying that one side is generally more qualified to have authority, i.e. that men are more qualified to have authority than women. That's sexist.
It's usually true, but there are exceptions. I wouldn't support ignoring those exceptions.

by Ifreann » Wed May 20, 2020 7:38 am
Geneviev wrote:Ifreann wrote:So it's not the Bible saying that marriage is an important Christian ideal, it's just you.
You just pointed to Bible passages saying that the husband has to have authority over the wife and you justified that by saying that one side is generally more qualified to have authority, i.e. that men are more qualified to have authority than women. That's sexist.
It's usually true, but there are exceptions. I wouldn't support ignoring those exceptions.

by Geneviev » Wed May 20, 2020 7:39 am

by Neutraligon » Wed May 20, 2020 7:40 am

by Neutraligon » Wed May 20, 2020 7:44 am

by Geneviev » Wed May 20, 2020 7:50 am

by Geneviev » Wed May 20, 2020 7:57 am

by Daves Computer » Wed May 20, 2020 8:08 am
Geneviev wrote:Ifreann wrote:It is sexist to believe that men should have dominance over women, even if you believe there are some exceptions.
It's not sexist because you're considering factors other than gender. It would be sexist to say that all men should always have authority over all women because that is only based on gender and it's wrong.

by Neutraligon » Wed May 20, 2020 8:15 am
Geneviev wrote:Ifreann wrote:You're wrong, it is sexist to believe that men should have dominance over women, even if you believe there are some exceptions.
It's not judging people just by their gender, because there are exceptions.Neutraligon wrote:So did your idea of the husband having authority over the wife. It also lead to rape.
He shouldn't have that authority if he will abuse it.

by Tarmac Riders » Wed May 20, 2020 8:19 am

by Ifreann » Wed May 20, 2020 8:25 am
Geneviev wrote:Ifreann wrote:It is sexist to believe that men should have dominance over women, even if you believe there are some exceptions.
It's not sexist because you're considering factors other than gender. It would be sexist to say that all men should always have authority over all women because that is only based on gender and it's wrong.

by Geneviev » Wed May 20, 2020 8:34 am

by Neutraligon » Wed May 20, 2020 8:55 am
Geneviev wrote:Daves Computer wrote:What sort of factors are the exception?
If a man will abuse his authority, if a woman is a more competent leader, things like that.Neutraligon wrote:Still waiting for that evidence, since, it has been that way for a long time so it cannot be wrong is not evidence.
There's evidence that they are different to fulfill different roles.

by Daves Computer » Wed May 20, 2020 8:59 am

by Geneviev » Wed May 20, 2020 9:10 am
Neutraligon wrote:Geneviev wrote:If a man will abuse his authority, if a woman is a more competent leader, things like that.
There's evidence that they are different to fulfill different roles.
Did you actually read the article? Oh and what you linked had nothing to do with authority
Daves Computer wrote:Geneviev wrote:If a man will abuse his authority, if a woman is a more competent leader, things like that.
The authority he was never given? Or if a women is more competent? How about considering a leader a leader not by their gender by default but by FIRST considering their level of competence? It's ridiculous to consider gender first.

by Nakena » Wed May 20, 2020 9:11 am
Geneviev wrote:I did read it, but not recently. I might have remembered it incorrectly. But what I remember is that there are usually personality differences between genders, and men tend to have traits that are necessary for leadership.

by Daves Computer » Wed May 20, 2020 9:15 am
Geneviev wrote:Neutraligon wrote:Did you actually read the article? Oh and what you linked had nothing to do with authority
I did read it, but not recently. I might have remembered it incorrectly. But what I remember is that there are usually personality differences between genders, and men tend to have traits that are necessary for leadership.Daves Computer wrote:
The authority he was never given? Or if a women is more competent? How about considering a leader a leader not by their gender by default but by FIRST considering their level of competence? It's ridiculous to consider gender first.
They should be considered together. Gender is irrelevant if someone is not a leader. It's just that men are generally more likely to be leaders, but if it's not true for an individual, then they shouldn't have that authority.
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