State of Turelisa wrote:Oh do calm down, dear, and go to bed.
I'm not upset sweetie, you shouldn't get upset like that.
Talking down to people is generally assholeish, please stop.
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by Ethel mermania » Fri May 15, 2020 6:20 pm
State of Turelisa wrote:Oh do calm down, dear, and go to bed.
by Agarntrop » Fri May 15, 2020 6:24 pm
Albrenia wrote:Green October Z wrote:
May I ask why you have that mindset?
Upbringing, maybe? Might be I just consider men to be more dangerous than women in a general sense, so a hit from a man is more likely to cause serious harm or death than from a woman.
Use of weapons obviously changes this, and a woman going at a guy with a knife or gun would be the same as a guy doing the same.
by Green October Z » Fri May 15, 2020 6:57 pm
by VVerkia » Fri May 15, 2020 7:16 pm
Green October Z wrote:Relationship abuse. It's horrible and we all know it is. However, many people do not see the double standards in society's perceptions of it.
For example, if most of you were walking through a park and saw a man yelling at and hitting a woman, you would be furious and may even intervene. But what would you do if the one being yelled at and hit was a guy and the aggressor a woman? Would you perhaps assume that he did something to deserve it? Would you assume he could just take the hits no problem because he is a male and supposed to be stronger than the female? Or would you perhaps laugh thinking that the woman is joking around?
If you said no to any of the above, you are a minority in terms of your perceptions of abuse. Most people I know would have said yes to at least one of those things. And what of emotional abuse? Is it also possible that females can more easily get away with emotional abuse as well? Are guys just supposed to me emotionless and "take it like men?" What are your thoughts on this?
I myself believe that there is strong double standard here that seriously needs to be addressed by both society and the legal system. A couple years ago one of my friends was in a relationship with a pretty unstable woman that treated him like shit. One night she got extremely mad and beat the crap out of him, forcing him to go to the hospital with a broken finger and two broken ribs. Yet, not only was he laughed at by some jerks in his family, but even the police didn't take him seriously and the woman got off with not even a warning. If it was the other way around, it is fairly certain that she would have been taken seriously, been pitied, and he'd be in jail. Seriously messed up.
by Stellar Colonies » Fri May 15, 2020 7:21 pm
Agarntrop wrote:Albrenia wrote:
Upbringing, maybe? Might be I just consider men to be more dangerous than women in a general sense, so a hit from a man is more likely to cause serious harm or death than from a woman.
Use of weapons obviously changes this, and a woman going at a guy with a knife or gun would be the same as a guy doing the same.
Men are also, scientifically, generally much physically stronger post-puberty.
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by Thepeopl » Sat May 16, 2020 2:26 am
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by The Alma Mater » Sat May 16, 2020 5:23 am
Brunswick-upon-Raritan wrote:If we're going to treat men and women as physically equal, doesn't that mean there should be no gender separation in sports?
by Agarntrop » Sat May 16, 2020 5:28 am
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by Green October Z » Sun May 17, 2020 4:04 pm
Alart wrote:I agree. There is a large double standard when it comes to relationship abuse and it only makes the problem far worse than it already is.
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by VVerkia » Sat May 23, 2020 5:09 pm
Katganistan wrote:Many, many years ago I had a friend who was very free with hitting people, especially men, and most especially men she was dating.
One day she punched a male friend of mine in the arm apropos of nothing. She had done this many times, and he was tired of it. So he grabbed her by the shoulder, turned her, and slapped her once, hard, across the ass like an errant toddler.
When she said, all outraged to me, "HE HIT ME!" she did not like my reply, "Only because you hit him first."
There are women who think they have free rein to hit men but scream abuse if they defend themselves. Assault is assault no matter who perpetrates it.
When it became clear to this friend that not only was I not going to support her but that I would essentially tell her it was her own fault when she got hit back, and that if she really wanted to get the authorities involved I would be more than happy to make a statement that did not omit any details, wonder of wonders -- she stopped hitting the guys in the group.
I don't care who you are -- you lift a hand to someone else when you're not defending yourself or another person, you get what you deserve if they retaliate, and I sure as hell am not going to bear false witness just because of the genders involved.
by Neutraligon » Sat May 23, 2020 5:11 pm
VVerkia wrote:Katganistan wrote:Many, many years ago I had a friend who was very free with hitting people, especially men, and most especially men she was dating.
One day she punched a male friend of mine in the arm apropos of nothing. She had done this many times, and he was tired of it. So he grabbed her by the shoulder, turned her, and slapped her once, hard, across the ass like an errant toddler.
When she said, all outraged to me, "HE HIT ME!" she did not like my reply, "Only because you hit him first."
There are women who think they have free rein to hit men but scream abuse if they defend themselves. Assault is assault no matter who perpetrates it.
When it became clear to this friend that not only was I not going to support her but that I would essentially tell her it was her own fault when she got hit back, and that if she really wanted to get the authorities involved I would be more than happy to make a statement that did not omit any details, wonder of wonders -- she stopped hitting the guys in the group.
I don't care who you are -- you lift a hand to someone else when you're not defending yourself or another person, you get what you deserve if they retaliate, and I sure as hell am not going to bear false witness just because of the genders involved.
I see that kind of behaviour in anime or films and i am strongly against it. sex, gender etc. doesn't matter in terms of hurting other peoples.
by Kowani » Sat May 23, 2020 6:05 pm
VVerkia wrote:Katganistan wrote:Many, many years ago I had a friend who was very free with hitting people, especially men, and most especially men she was dating.
One day she punched a male friend of mine in the arm apropos of nothing. She had done this many times, and he was tired of it. So he grabbed her by the shoulder, turned her, and slapped her once, hard, across the ass like an errant toddler.
When she said, all outraged to me, "HE HIT ME!" she did not like my reply, "Only because you hit him first."
There are women who think they have free rein to hit men but scream abuse if they defend themselves. Assault is assault no matter who perpetrates it.
When it became clear to this friend that not only was I not going to support her but that I would essentially tell her it was her own fault when she got hit back, and that if she really wanted to get the authorities involved I would be more than happy to make a statement that did not omit any details, wonder of wonders -- she stopped hitting the guys in the group.
I don't care who you are -- you lift a hand to someone else when you're not defending yourself or another person, you get what you deserve if they retaliate, and I sure as hell am not going to bear false witness just because of the genders involved.
I see that kind of behaviour in anime or films and i am strongly against it. sex, gender etc. doesn't matter in terms of hurting other peoples.
by Galloism » Sat May 23, 2020 6:18 pm
Katganistan wrote:Many, many years ago I had a friend who was very free with hitting people, especially men, and most especially men she was dating.
One day she punched a male friend of mine in the arm apropos of nothing. She had done this many times, and he was tired of it. So he grabbed her by the shoulder, turned her, and slapped her once, hard, across the ass like an errant toddler.
When she said, all outraged to me, "HE HIT ME!" she did not like my reply, "Only because you hit him first."
There are women who think they have free rein to hit men but scream abuse if they defend themselves. Assault is assault no matter who perpetrates it.
When it became clear to this friend that not only was I not going to support her but that I would essentially tell her it was her own fault when she got hit back, and that if she really wanted to get the authorities involved I would be more than happy to make a statement that did not omit any details, wonder of wonders -- she stopped hitting the guys in the group.
I don't care who you are -- you lift a hand to someone else when you're not defending yourself or another person, you get what you deserve if they retaliate, and I sure as hell am not going to bear false witness just because of the genders involved.
by VVerkia » Sat May 23, 2020 6:31 pm
Kowani wrote:Ah, yes, the tsundere archetype.
You know. Pattern of "school queen" or "boss" who literally mock others all the time and when someone hit them in return, they call cops, adults, teachers, parents, lawyers to protect themselves. Peoples who desire to rule another no mater of cost.There are women who think they have free rein to hit men but scream abuse if they defend themselves. Assault is assault no matter who perpetrates it.
by New haven america » Sat May 23, 2020 6:45 pm
VVerkia wrote:Katganistan wrote:Many, many years ago I had a friend who was very free with hitting people, especially men, and most especially men she was dating.
One day she punched a male friend of mine in the arm apropos of nothing. She had done this many times, and he was tired of it. So he grabbed her by the shoulder, turned her, and slapped her once, hard, across the ass like an errant toddler.
When she said, all outraged to me, "HE HIT ME!" she did not like my reply, "Only because you hit him first."
There are women who think they have free rein to hit men but scream abuse if they defend themselves. Assault is assault no matter who perpetrates it.
When it became clear to this friend that not only was I not going to support her but that I would essentially tell her it was her own fault when she got hit back, and that if she really wanted to get the authorities involved I would be more than happy to make a statement that did not omit any details, wonder of wonders -- she stopped hitting the guys in the group.
I don't care who you are -- you lift a hand to someone else when you're not defending yourself or another person, you get what you deserve if they retaliate, and I sure as hell am not going to bear false witness just because of the genders involved.
I see that kind of behaviour in anime or films and i am strongly against it. sex, gender etc. doesn't matter in terms of hurting other peoples.
by Rojava Free State » Sat May 23, 2020 7:39 pm
Rojava Free State wrote:Listen yall. I'm only gonna say it once but I want you to remember it. This ain't a world fit for good men. It seems like you gotta be monstrous just to make it. Gotta have a little bit of darkness within you just to survive. You gotta stoop low everyday it seems like. Stoop all the way down to the devil in these times. And then one day you look in the mirror and you realize that you ain't you anymore. You're just another monster, and thanks to your actions, someone else will eventually become as warped and twisted as you. Never forget that the best of us are just the best of a bad lot. Being at the top of a pile of feces doesn't make you anything but shit like the rest. Never forget that.
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