United Muscovite Nations wrote:Kernen wrote:This unfortunately conflates sexual appetite with partners. A sexually voracious person may not need to have more than a few partners despite their high sex drive. Alternatively, they may flit about. The theory has too many confounding variables to operate even as a rule of thumb.
That is true, but it's also true that someone who has a large numbers of sexual partners is necessarily going to have a high sex drive (note: I am only counting consensual partners, as I do not consider rape or sexual assault to be sex in any emotionally meaningful sense).
I can't agree. There are people who have many partners because their relationships fail for nonsexual reasons. Their sex drive is not particularly high. Indeed, the more partners you have, often the less sex you have compared to people in stable relationships.
If you go around having one night stands, it usually takes you a lot longer to hit the same number of sexual encounters as it does when you have a comfortable and sexually active relationship.