Asherahan wrote:United Muscovite Nations wrote:No, just date other women of your social status or lower. Most guys marry women of lower social status. It's unfortunate, but there's a lot of things that go into making someone low social status than you might expect and that influences who you can date (e.g. a woman I dated was a pre-med student from a family that was considerably wealthier than me, but had lower social status than her siblings because she was adopted and her real family was very poor).
My family has hundreds of thousands in debt in both the banks and government and my house is gonna be taken in summer what kind of woman is gonna be lower in the status spectrum than me.
By the logic you espouse I should just kill myself because in all terms I am fucking BONED.
Whatever I do no matter what I am screwed in every sense of the word. I can never ever rise is economic or social status.
Oh there are plenty of women who are probably worse off financially.
Work to get job (admittedly really hard right now but hopefully this coronavirus mess gets resolved), move to an area with lower living costs that still offers a job, (yes those areas do not have as good of jobs but you are not looking for your dream job, just one that pays the local living costs), live frugally, no tobacco, alcohol, etc. It is not easy, not guaranteed, the American Dream was outsourced but you can still usually get by outside of California and NYC.
But honestly the best way to increase your status is join the military.
I know this makes people angry but, you get paid. You get housing, you get healthcare, you get education benefits. And it increases your social status simply by being a soldier or veteran, which have inherent social status.
I know people will go ballistic over this, but it is the truth.




