Sexual Orientation Thread

[Rojava Free State]

What continues to hurt me is the shallowness of many so called friends as well as girlfriends. I value people deeply and see the potential in them and they just turn their backs

There's also that, because I'm aversive and repulsed by sex, the thought of my friend sexually desiring me is very disturbing to me and her efforts at flirting cause very conflicted emotions.

I tell myself I can just say fuck it and hit it and Quit it, but at days end I still desire a more meaningful relationship and it seems like only I want that.

[United Muscovite Nations]

There's also that, because I'm aversive and repulsed by sex, the thought of my friend sexually desiring me is very disturbing to me and her efforts at flirting cause very conflicted emotions.

I tell myself I can just say fuck it and hit it and Quit it, but at days end I still desire a more meaningful relationship and it seems like only I want that.

I don't like sex and would even say I'm disgusted by it, so that's not really an option for me.

[Ayytaly]

I'm sexually repulsed by porn stars nowadays

[New haven america]

I'm repulsed by everything except my designated crying corner.

[Rojava Free State]

I'm sexually repulsed by porn stars nowadays

The only people who think porn is a realistic representation of sex are probably virgins. It's literally a person's most explicit and hardcore fantasies made into a video and they're so exaggerated.

[Cekoviu]

I'm sexually repulsed by porn stars nowadays

The only people who think porn is a realistic representation of sex are probably virgins. It's literally a person's most explicit and hardcore fantasies made into a video and they're so exaggerated.

There only exists easily accessible porn that accurately portrays somebody's most explicit and hardcore fantasies if they don't have very specific/hardcore fantasies tbh. That's not to say that it's realistic, but that's pretty hyperbolic.

[Ethel mermania]

I'm sexually repulsed by porn stars nowadays

Depends on the porn star.

[The Emerald Legion]

If I had to actually describe my orientation it would be complicated.

Namely, Heterosexual 100%. But also so paranoid about other human beings that I might as well be Asexual, because romantic/sexual relationships are a weakness.

[Big Jim P]

I sexually identify as a mistake.

You need a puppet named Oopssniffage.

[Pax Nerdvana]

I'm straight. Still don't have a girlfriend...

Don’t worry I’m gay, still don’t have a boyfriend.

I guess we're all bound to find someone eventually. I hope.

I'm pretty neurotic too, it comes with the personality disorder. But it just hurts a lot when you find out someone you're in love with is only interested in sex.

What continues to hurt me is the shallowness of many so called friends as well as girlfriends. I value people deeply and see the potential in them and they just turn their backs

I can agree with that. I want someone who I can trust, and form a deep, stable relationship with. I'm not necessarily the most physically attractive guy (to be fair, I'm not sure what people who aren't my family think, so I dunno) , which makes me feel a potential girlfriend's personality and mind are far more important then looks. Or at least that's what my brain says. I like to believe beauty is more then skin deep.

[Rojava Free State]

Don’t worry I’m gay, still don’t have a boyfriend.

I guess we're all bound to find someone eventually. I hope.

What continues to hurt me is the shallowness of many so called friends as well as girlfriends. I value people deeply and see the potential in them and they just turn their backs

I can agree with that. I want someone who I can trust, and form a deep, stable relationship with. I'm not necessarily the most physically attractive guy (to be fair, I'm not sure what people who aren't my family think, so I dunno) , which makes me feel a potential girlfriend's personality and mind are far more important then looks. Or at least that's what my brain says. I like to believe beauty is more then skin deep.

Believe me it is, because I'm physically attractive but only manage to get girls, and not keep them.

Also I have crippling depression

[Ethel mermania]

I guess we're all bound to find someone eventually. I hope.
I can agree with that. I want someone who I can trust, and form a deep, stable relationship with. I'm not necessarily the most physically attractive guy (to be fair, I'm not sure what people who aren't my family think, so I dunno) , which makes me feel a potential girlfriend's personality and mind are far more important then looks. Or at least that's what my brain says. I like to believe beauty is more then skin deep.

Believe me it is, because I'm physically attractive but only manage to get girls, and not keep them.

Also I have crippling depression

Women can deal with that, it's the chaos and the other stuff you mentioned earlier that drives them away.

[Rojava Free State]

Believe me it is, because I'm physically attractive but only manage to get girls, and not keep them.

Also I have crippling depression

Women can deal with that, it's the chaos and the other stuff you mentioned earlier that drives them away.

I'm pretty sure it's my personality with some of them. As my one ex girlfriend said, "yes everyone will leave you and its because of your fucking attitude." Another one accused me of being too attached to her. One cheated on me so I broke it off, another few moved away. It's actually variety of reasons

[Kannap]

I'm straight. Still don't have a girlfriend...

Don’t worry I’m gay, still don’t have a boyfriend.

Also gay, also don't have a boyfriend. Shit sucks fam.

[Ethel mermania]

Women can deal with that, it's the chaos and the other stuff you mentioned earlier that drives them away.

I'm pretty sure it's my personality with some of them. As my one ex girlfriend said, "yes everyone will leave you and its because of your fucking attitude." Another one accused me of being too attached to her. One cheated on me so I broke it off, another few moved away. It's actually variety of reasons

I am not saying women dont come with a host of their own issues... but what you mentioned before turn into dealbreakers, but on the bright side they can all be worked on. when you dont know your issues or admit to them that nothing gets better.

[Pax Nerdvana]

I guess we're all bound to find someone eventually. I hope.
I can agree with that. I want someone who I can trust, and form a deep, stable relationship with. I'm not necessarily the most physically attractive guy (to be fair, I'm not sure what people who aren't my family think, so I dunno) , which makes me feel a potential girlfriend's personality and mind are far more important then looks. Or at least that's what my brain says. I like to believe beauty is more then skin deep.

Believe me it is, because I'm physically attractive but only manage to get girls, and not keep them.

Also I have crippling depression

That really sucks. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm willing to listen.

On a semi-related note, I still get nervous talking to girls, no matter what they look like or who they are.

[Radiatia]

I'm demisexual, which apparently is now known as Grey Asexual - today being the first time I've heard the latter term.

It's not really something I discuss openly or even consider part of my identity. It just is: I used to be heterosexual, now it's been over half a decade since I felt any feelings of sexual attraction to anyone.

In the past I tried joining online communities to talk about it with others but generally found communities dedicated to questions of sexual orientation to be so toxic and hostile (despite their repeated claims of open-mindedness) that I decided I'd rather just go it alone.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

I'm demisexual, which apparently is now known as Grey Asexual - today being the first time I've heard the latter term.

It's not really something I discuss openly or even consider part of my identity. It just is: I used to be heterosexual, now it's been over half a decade since I felt any feelings of sexual attraction to anyone.

In the past I tried joining online communities to talk about it with others but generally found communities dedicated to questions of sexual orientation to be so toxic and hostile (despite their repeated claims of open-mindedness) that I decided I'd rather just go it alone.

Correct me if I’m wrong but, being demisexual implies that you can get to feel sexual attraction only to people you’ve developed a sentimental/romantic attraction to first, right?

[Phoenicaea]

^hey, if you don’t wish that for some lenghty years it is fine, not a syndrome. we are not breeding animals, you can’t keep with desire without pause.

[West Leas Oros 2]

Don’t worry I’m gay, still don’t have a boyfriend.

Also gay, also don't have a boyfriend. Shit sucks fam.

The four of us should start a club! We can all be alone, together!

[Nakena]

Also gay, also don't have a boyfriend. Shit sucks fam.

The four of us should start a club! We can all be alone, together!

At least we got the internet. So we're never really alone.

[Pax Nerdvana]

Also gay, also don't have a boyfriend. Shit sucks fam.

The four of us should start a club! We can all be alone, together!

A Singles Support Group?

[Green October Z]

Gray ace here, or grace as I like to call myself.

[Jade Nguyen]

I am an ace

[Ethel mermania]

I am an ace

So you can never be part of an inside straight?