I think it means that you're saying that self-harm and suicidal ideation don't count, or something, unless they are caused by something you personally think is valid.
Which is just completely stupid.
The girls are independent entities. They aren't just some robots that he flicked the 'self harm and suicide' switches on.
They chose those courses of action of their own free will. Is their reasoning sound? Was their situation really that intolerable? Or... Were they being overdramatic teenagers, or given neither appears to be permanently injured, were they attempting to drive a wedge between their mother and him so as to remove the stricter of the two guardians or lessen their punishments.
It's ridiculous how desperate you have become in your defence of a clearly garbage human being.







