What do you look for in a "romantic" relationship

[Sapporo Hyperspace Riftgate Laboratory]

Right... I could be with someone from any race, as long as they share interests with me and they don't ever dare to cheat. Someone that I could forget that she was a girl and a person that I could treat how I treat my bros. Well, at least she gets called tovarisch instead of comrade. LUCKILY, I found a person that is 10/10 in every field. I came because of her looks and stayed because of her personality.

[Saiwania]

Why don’t you uhhhh go post this on Match or something, instead of on an online political forum. Shoot, this sounds more like a post from the sketchy side of Craigslist than anything. Either way, nobody on NS exists to affirm or to enable your burning desire to get a poor, foreign, middle-aged baby-momma.

The other person I likely won't care about. Its whatever that can feed my craving for more power or control that I'm after, just as other people have wanted to boss me around for too long. Once I can't get more from someone, I'm ready to ditch them for another that has more prospects for that. It's possible I could be won over I suppose, but I don't know what anyone would have to do to for that to ever happen.

Almost middle aged is more accurate. A woman who is post menopause or is barren is likely of no use to me. If they're too young though (but past 18 of course), they have too many options to where they don't have to resort to someone like me if they're more desperate or thirsty for a man.

[Cekoviu]

It's not brilliant, it's manipulative and disgusting.

I was of the same mindset, but as often happens- you come around to understand that everything in this world is about leverage.

If you don't have enough of that in your life, people are able to screw you over more or deny you opportunities and various other things. You get tired of it, and want to get into doing that yourself. If you normally don't ever have leverage, you've got to put yourself into situations where you'll have more of an advantage. You have to make your own power plays until you reach the heights you want.

You could also just use stilts if you want to be taller?

In other news, I have a coffee/lunch date. I was smitten as soon as she mentioned Macedonian phalanxes and Cato the Elder.

Is this the Roman emperor girl or a different person?

[Phoenicaea]

i..freckles (taches de rosseur), and a closer education at mine.

[United Muscovite Nations]

I was of the same mindset, but as often happens- you come around to understand that everything in this world is about leverage.

If you don't have enough of that in your life, people are able to screw you over more or deny you opportunities and various other things. You get tired of it, and want to get into doing that yourself. If you normally don't ever have leverage, you've got to put yourself into situations where you'll have more of an advantage. You have to make your own power plays until you reach the heights you want.

You could also just use stilts if you want to be taller?

In other news, I have a coffee/lunch date. I was smitten as soon as she mentioned Macedonian phalanxes and Cato the Elder.

Is this the Roman emperor girl or a different person?

Yes, it is.

[Thepeopl]

Why don’t you uhhhh go post this on Match or something, instead of on an online political forum. Shoot, this sounds more like a post from the sketchy side of Craigslist than anything. Either way, nobody on NS exists to affirm or to enable your burning desire to get a poor, foreign, middle-aged baby-momma.

The other person I likely won't care about. Its whatever that can feed my craving for more power or control that I'm after, just as other people have wanted to boss me around for too long. Once I can't get more from someone, I'm ready to ditch them for another that has more prospects for that. It's possible I could be won over I suppose, but I don't know what anyone would have to do to for that to ever happen.

Almost middle aged is more accurate. A woman who is post menopause or is barren is likely of no use to me. If they're too young though (but past 18 of course), they have too many options to where they don't have to resort to someone like me if they're more desperate or thirsty for a man.

Ever considered SM? Roleplaying?

[Earthbound Immortal Squad]

I think it would be really cool to date someone that is not addicted to TV and does not try to make everything sexual 24/7.

Though being addicted to a tv would be annoying for me their phone would be far far worse since at least you can't take you TV everywhere you go (yet...). With a phone there are so many people who will get on their phone and pay no attention to the people around them for me that is an instant no go. As for the sexual part I can imagine 24/7 being overkill and I would probably hate that.


As for me personally I want someone who takes themselves seriously but also can have a good laugh. Just kidding for me the most important things would be good manners and someone who actually respects and understands who I really am, if those are true I think I can forgive most of the other negative qualities about them.

[Cekoviu]

You could also just use stilts if you want to be taller?

Is this the Roman emperor girl or a different person?

Yes, it is.

Nice. Good luck!

[USS Monitor]

I think it would be really cool to date someone that is not addicted to TV and does not try to make everything sexual 24/7.

Though being addicted to a tv would be annoying for me their phone would be far far worse since at least you can't take you TV everywhere you go (yet...).

That's part of the problem with TV addicts. They want to stay home all the time.

[Earthbound Immortal Squad]

Though being addicted to a tv would be annoying for me their phone would be far far worse since at least you can't take you TV everywhere you go (yet...).

That's part of the problem with TV addicts. They want to stay home all the time.

You could try cutting the power

[The Blaatschapen]

Though being addicted to a tv would be annoying for me their phone would be far far worse since at least you can't take you TV everywhere you go (yet...).

That's part of the problem with TV addicts. They want to stay home all the time.

How do you even meet a TV addict, if they are staying home all the time?

[Saiwania]

Ever considered SM? Roleplaying?

That is nasty and crude physical stuff. Mind games are more what I have in mind, that I want to master. People do that with me, so I got to partake in some of that myself. When you do, you understand why people do what they do. From your perspective it is negative, but from theirs- they're only acting within their self interests. You can't let yourself be too easily set up for disappointment. You have to screw someone else over before they betray you, if you figure out that is their aim of course.

Life can be played like Chess where certain pieces (people) have to be sacrificed to get yourself into the better situational advantage.

[Thepeopl]

Ever considered SM? Roleplaying?

That is nasty and crude physical stuff. Mind games are more what I have in mind, that I want to master. People do that with me, so I got to partake in some of that myself. When you do, you understand why people do what they do. From your perspective it is negative, but from theirs- they're only acting within their self interests. You can't let yourself be too easily set up for disappointment. You have to screw someone else over before they betray you, if you figure out that is their aim of course.

Life can be played like Chess where certain pieces (people) have to be sacrificed to get yourself into the better situational advantage.

Rp and SM can be physical. But most part it is mental.
If you are the dominant (master) you can feel powerful.
But, the submissive (slave) has to set the boundaries and have a save word. So actually the sub has all the power and de dom is in service of the sub.

Life can be played like Chess, true.
But you could also just change your response to ppl / happenings. If you don't behave as they expect you to, you have the upper hand as well.

You could try mindfulness or compassion.

[USS Monitor]

That's part of the problem with TV addicts. They want to stay home all the time.

How do you even meet a TV addict, if they are staying home all the time?

Online dating. Or sometimes they'll get off the couch long enough to look for a date, then once you get settled into the relationship and they feel like they no longer need to put on an act, they stop going anywhere.

[Thepeopl]

How do you even meet a TV addict, if they are staying home all the time?

Online dating. Or sometimes they'll get off the couch long enough to look for a date, then once you get settled into the relationship and they feel like they no longer need to put on an act, they stop going anywhere.

And here I was secretly hoping you'd be a genuine burglar

[The Blaatschapen]

Ever considered SM? Roleplaying?

That is nasty and crude physical stuff. Mind games are more what I have in mind, that I want to master. People do that with me, so I got to partake in some of that myself. When you do, you understand why people do what they do. From your perspective it is negative, but from theirs- they're only acting within their self interests. You can't let yourself be too easily set up for disappointment. You have to screw someone else over before they betray you, if you figure out that is their aim of course.

Life can be played like Chess where certain pieces (people) have to be sacrificed to get yourself into the better situational advantage.

So you are looking for a chess...mistress?

[The Blaatschapen]

Online dating. Or sometimes they'll get off the couch long enough to look for a date, then once you get settled into the relationship and they feel like they no longer need to put on an act, they stop going anywhere.

And here I was secretly hoping you'd be a genuine burglar

Another good story ruined by the truth

[Cekoviu]

That is nasty and crude physical stuff. Mind games are more what I have in mind, that I want to master. People do that with me, so I got to partake in some of that myself. When you do, you understand why people do what they do. From your perspective it is negative, but from theirs- they're only acting within their self interests. You can't let yourself be too easily set up for disappointment. You have to screw someone else over before they betray you, if you figure out that is their aim of course.

Life can be played like Chess where certain pieces (people) have to be sacrificed to get yourself into the better situational advantage.

So you are looking for a chess...mistress?

They do say that opposites attract.

[United Muscovite Nations]

That is nasty and crude physical stuff. Mind games are more what I have in mind, that I want to master. People do that with me, so I got to partake in some of that myself. When you do, you understand why people do what they do. From your perspective it is negative, but from theirs- they're only acting within their self interests. You can't let yourself be too easily set up for disappointment. You have to screw someone else over before they betray you, if you figure out that is their aim of course.

Life can be played like Chess where certain pieces (people) have to be sacrificed to get yourself into the better situational advantage.

So you are looking for a chess...mistress?

Idk if this has happened to anyone else, but Chessmistress hit on me on a thread after seeing a picture of me and that really weirded me out because I thought she hated men.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

So you are looking for a chess...mistress?

Idk if this has happened to anyone else, but Chessmistress hit on me on a thread after seeing a picture of me and that really weirded me out because I thought she hated men.

I thought she did too. Isn’t she supposedly with another woman?

[United Muscovite Nations]

Idk if this has happened to anyone else, but Chessmistress hit on me on a thread after seeing a picture of me and that really weirded me out because I thought she hated men.

I thought she did too. Isn’t she supposedly with another woman?

I have no idea.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

I thought she did too. Isn’t she supposedly with another woman?

I have no idea.

Bizarro world. I thought she despised men.

[Saiwania]

So you are looking for a chess...mistress?

There is no way I could go for a Feminist because chances are, such a woman could take too much control and run circles around me. I can't go for a lady that is beating me at my own game. If you're of Omega status in terms of sexual marketplace value, you have to go for the lower hanging fruit that nobody else wants either.

Nothing wrong with my looks, it is mainly all personality for me. Am too slanted towards introversion and it takes real effort for me to put on a persona for extroversion. But you do improve your game overtime if you play the game enough to begin with and don't care about rejection or a bad reputation. When I think about it, I'm not in good standing to begin with. That is why I'm not yet Alpha or at least Beta in status.

[Heloin]

So you are looking for a chess...mistress?

There is no way I could go for a Feminist because chances are, such a woman could take too much control and run circles around me. I can't go for a lady that is beating me at my own game. If you're of Omega status in terms of sexual marketplace value, you have to go for the lower hanging fruit that nobody else wants either.

Nothing wrong with my looks, it is mainly all personality for me. Am too slanted towards introversion and it takes real effort for me to put on a persona for extroversion. But you do improve your game overtime if you play the game enough to begin with and don't care about rejection or a bad reputation. When I think about it, I'm not in good standing to begin with. That is why I'm not yet Alpha or at least Beta in status.

I don't think you being introverted is the personality flaw people disagree with.

[The Blaatschapen]

There is no way I could go for a Feminist because chances are, such a woman could take too much control and run circles around me. I can't go for a lady that is beating me at my own game. If you're of Omega status in terms of sexual marketplace value, you have to go for the lower hanging fruit that nobody else wants either.

Nothing wrong with my looks, it is mainly all personality for me. Am too slanted towards introversion and it takes real effort for me to put on a persona for extroversion. But you do improve your game overtime if you play the game enough to begin with and don't care about rejection or a bad reputation. When I think about it, I'm not in good standing to begin with. That is why I'm not yet Alpha or at least Beta in status.

I don't think you being introverted is the personality flaw people disagree with.

I don't think introversion is a personality flaw.