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by Sarzonia » Wed Sep 11, 2019 6:52 am
by Yuyencia » Wed Sep 11, 2019 6:54 am
by Merther » Wed Sep 11, 2019 6:54 am
Merther is not a nation, but the name of a lifeless planet located within a fictionnal planetary system : Cyrthe. To know more about it, click here and don't forget to read the spoilers !
And yes, when I type it's me, the player, typing. I didn't know I had to precise that.
by Ifreann » Wed Sep 11, 2019 6:57 am
Slavakino wrote:Cappuccina wrote:Adolescents should probably be focusing on more important things than "sexual identity", like school perhaps. There's plenty of time later in life for that "finding yourself" nonsense.
Although we may not see eye to eye for this politics but I completely agree. They should be productive first then worry about other crap later.
by Cekoviu » Wed Sep 11, 2019 7:01 am
Dejanic wrote:I'm more concerned that a 15 year old child already has an extensive dating history; perhaps they should concentrate on their school work?
by Arkhane » Wed Sep 11, 2019 7:03 am
by Cekoviu » Wed Sep 11, 2019 7:07 am
Merther wrote:I voted yes.
Because I don't care what gender you claim to be, I think there's only two genders, Female and Male. So non-binary gender people have to accept that some people out there consider that there's just two genders, and there's no point of putting political pressure on any kid, because their parents at home might just be telling them that there's two genders and that's how it is. That's the way it is and you should leave it at that.
Parents raise their kids. Not gay pride activists.
Arkhane wrote:All these stargender, greygender, gender-fluid non-binary poly-bi-neutrois aromantic 40/60 "genders" are the products of first world boredom and/or the need to feel special/seek attention.
by Ifreann » Wed Sep 11, 2019 7:13 am
Arkhane wrote:The thing is, why do you need to identify to begin with?
The point of social justice is to create a world without labels,
the term became a negative by-word when it did anything but and created a lot of unnecessary labels. At 15 you either haven't developed yet or you're heterosexual or homosexual or bisexual, and your sexuality and preference can change as you grow. You might even lose interest in it all-together.
All these stargender, greygender, gender-fluid non-binary poly-bi-neutrois aromantic 40/60 "genders" are the products of first world boredom and/or the need to feel special/seek attention.
by Arkhane » Wed Sep 11, 2019 7:18 am
Ifreann wrote:Arkhane wrote:The thing is, why do you need to identify to begin with?
No one needs to if they'd rather not. It's useful to have a word for things if you want to talk about them, but it's entirely workable for people to describe their gender or sexuality with longer sentences than "I am [whatever]".The point of social justice is to create a world without labels,
No it isn't.the term became a negative by-word when it did anything but and created a lot of unnecessary labels. At 15 you either haven't developed yet or you're heterosexual or homosexual or bisexual, and your sexuality and preference can change as you grow. You might even lose interest in it all-together.
All these stargender, greygender, gender-fluid non-binary poly-bi-neutrois aromantic 40/60 "genders" are the products of first world boredom and/or the need to feel special/seek attention.
Or they're attempts by people to coin terms for complicated sets of feelings.
by SD_Film Artists » Wed Sep 11, 2019 7:28 am
by Page » Wed Sep 11, 2019 7:44 am
Dejanic wrote:I'm more concerned that a 15 year old child already has an extensive dating history; perhaps they should concentrate on their school work?
by Ifreann » Wed Sep 11, 2019 7:49 am
Arkhane wrote:Ifreann wrote:No one needs to if they'd rather not. It's useful to have a word for things if you want to talk about them, but it's entirely workable for people to describe their gender or sexuality with longer sentences than "I am [whatever]".
No it isn't.
Or they're attempts by people to coin terms for complicated sets of feelings.
Feelings are not gender,
and if your personality mainly consists of you describing your sexuality,
you're probably a very boring person with no other significant traits to begin with. I am not a gay X, I'm an X who just happens to be gay.
by Arkhane » Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:03 am
Ifreann wrote:
But gender is feelings. One feels like a man, or a woman, or both, or neither, etc.and if your personality mainly consists of you describing your sexuality,
I never suggested that anyone's personality mainly consists of their sexuality, but sometimes that is the most pertinent aspect of one's identity to talk about. Like, there's a lot more to people than their name, but often when you meet a new person that's the first thing they tell you about themselves.you're probably a very boring person with no other significant traits to begin with. I am not a gay X, I'm an X who just happens to be gay.
And if a member of the opposite sex was flirting with you, would you tell them that you're gay and they're wasting their time, or would you spend hours trying to fully encapsulate your whole being, describing every element of your identity, your religious beliefs, ethnic heritage back ten generations, political beliefs, educational background, a full history of everywhere you've ever lived, your hobbies and pastimes, etc, etc, "who happens to be gay"?
by Ifreann » Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:21 am
Arkhane wrote:Ifreann wrote:But gender is feelings. One feels like a man, or a woman, or both, or neither, etc.
I never suggested that anyone's personality mainly consists of their sexuality, but sometimes that is the most pertinent aspect of one's identity to talk about. Like, there's a lot more to people than their name, but often when you meet a new person that's the first thing they tell you about themselves.
And if a member of the opposite sex was flirting with you, would you tell them that you're gay and they're wasting their time, or would you spend hours trying to fully encapsulate your whole being, describing every element of your identity, your religious beliefs, ethnic heritage back ten generations, political beliefs, educational background, a full history of everywhere you've ever lived, your hobbies and pastimes, etc, etc, "who happens to be gay"?
No I don't think so, feeling like a dog doesn't make you one, your personal definition of gender is invalid.
Also when I'm dating someone I'm not going to go and "spend hours encapsulating my whole being and describing every element of my identity etc." If the one I'm dating does that, I'm going to save myself and leave their narcissistic ass, as for me I prefer to let them figure me out and find my quirks as it comes, that's my way of finding out whether they're actually interested in me whether through friendship or romance.
My sexuality and preferences are just like my skin color and race, there is no need to specify and point them out.
by Arkhane » Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:40 am
Ifreann wrote:Arkhane wrote:
No I don't think so, feeling like a dog doesn't make you one, your personal definition of gender is invalid.
Species and gender are different things. They don't have to work the same way.Also when I'm dating someone I'm not going to go and "spend hours encapsulating my whole being and describing every element of my identity etc." If the one I'm dating does that, I'm going to save myself and leave their narcissistic ass, as for me I prefer to let them figure me out and find my quirks as it comes, that's my way of finding out whether they're actually interested in me whether through friendship or romance.
I didn't say anything about dating. I asked if you would just tell someone that you are gay, in a situation where that is relevant. You seemed to think that someone describing their sexuality meant that they must have no other personality, and I am trying to explain to you that that is not true.My sexuality and preferences are just like my skin color and race, there is no need to specify and point them out.
Well, no, that's not true. You can tell a person's skin colour by looking at them, usually. You can't tell their sexuality.
by Ifreann » Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:55 am
Arkhane wrote:Ifreann wrote:Species and gender are different things. They don't have to work the same way.
I didn't say anything about dating. I asked if you would just tell someone that you are gay, in a situation where that is relevant. You seemed to think that someone describing their sexuality meant that they must have no other personality, and I am trying to explain to you that that is not true.
Well, no, that's not true. You can tell a person's skin colour by looking at them, usually. You can't tell their sexuality.
Both of them are based on biological traits, saying you feel like a woman does not mean you are one. Gender, by definition is not a feeling, but a set of roles and expectations based primarily on biological, secondarily on cultural and societal differences.
And yes, I would simply tell them I am gay, there is no need to go into any long-winded, self-affirming validations to make sure I am self-realized, and anyone who feels the need to constantly reassure themselves and assert their identity has a weird fixation or some form insecurity.
I am equating my gender with race and skin color not because of their physical characteristics, but their relevance to how I interact with people, I ensure as much as possible to treat everyone the same, regardless of their gender or skin color.
by Earthbound Immortal Squad » Wed Sep 11, 2019 9:10 am
by Arkhane » Wed Sep 11, 2019 9:11 am
Ifreann wrote:Arkhane wrote:
Both of them are based on biological traits, saying you feel like a woman does not mean you are one. Gender, by definition is not a feeling, but a set of roles and expectations based primarily on biological, secondarily on cultural and societal differences.
Feelings are biological.And yes, I would simply tell them I am gay, there is no need to go into any long-winded, self-affirming validations to make sure I am self-realized, and anyone who feels the need to constantly reassure themselves and assert their identity has a weird fixation or some form insecurity.
First you tell me that people who describe their sexuality are boring and have no personality, now you tell me that people who describe their whole personality have weird fixations or some kind of insecurity. I'm starting to think that you just like diagnosing other people with personality problems.I am equating my gender with race and skin color not because of their physical characteristics, but their relevance to how I interact with people, I ensure as much as possible to treat everyone the same, regardless of their gender or skin color.
Your gender and sexuality are very relevant to how you interact with people.
by Dumb Ideologies » Wed Sep 11, 2019 9:16 am
by Ifreann » Wed Sep 11, 2019 9:29 am
Arkhane wrote:Ifreann wrote:Feelings are biological.
First you tell me that people who describe their sexuality are boring and have no personality, now you tell me that people who describe their whole personality have weird fixations or some kind of insecurity. I'm starting to think that you just like diagnosing other people with personality problems.
Your gender and sexuality are very relevant to how you interact with people.
Feelings are a part of biology, the CHANGES THEY CAN EXERT over our other biological aspects and physical traits HOWEVER is only very MINIMAL, that's why people who wish to transition need some help with hormones and surgery in order for them to FEEL more like the gender they identify as.
I didn't realize that A. considering people who over-define their gender and identity as boring as well as B. thinking they might have some weird fixation and insecurity need to be mutually exclusive. You're assumptions are incorrect.
In some aspects yes, that's why I told you I TRY to treat both gender as equally as possible. In general, however, there is no relevance to be had. I don't need to make changes to my approach and attitude whenever I'm dealing with a man or a woman, unless there is a need to.
by Liriena » Wed Sep 11, 2019 9:38 am
I am: A pansexual, pantheist, green socialist An aspiring writer and journalist | Political compass stuff: Economic Left/Right: -8.13 Social Libertarian/Authoritarian: -8.92 For: Grassroots democracy, workers' self-management, humanitarianism, pacifism, pluralism, environmentalism, interculturalism, indigenous rights, minority rights, LGBT+ rights, feminism, optimism Against: Nationalism, authoritarianism, fascism, conservatism, populism, violence, ethnocentrism, racism, sexism, religious bigotry, anti-LGBT+ bigotry, death penalty, neoliberalism, tribalism, cynicism ⚧Copy and paste this in your sig if you passed biology and know gender and sex aren't the same thing.⚧ |
by Ifreann » Wed Sep 11, 2019 9:40 am
Liriena wrote:I can't speak for teenagers in the Anglosphere, but anecdotal evidence on my end of the world suggests that teenagers here are taking a more post-modern, deconstructed approach, just experimenting without putting any labels on their feelings or experiences, but keeping an open mind towards people who do embrace a specific identity.
by Liriena » Wed Sep 11, 2019 9:41 am
Ifreann wrote:Liriena wrote:I can't speak for teenagers in the Anglosphere, but anecdotal evidence on my end of the world suggests that teenagers here are taking a more post-modern, deconstructed approach, just experimenting without putting any labels on their feelings or experiences, but keeping an open mind towards people who do embrace a specific identity.
Children holding hands with boys AND girls?! Sounds like post-modern neo-Marxism is destroying Argentina.
I am: A pansexual, pantheist, green socialist An aspiring writer and journalist | Political compass stuff: Economic Left/Right: -8.13 Social Libertarian/Authoritarian: -8.92 For: Grassroots democracy, workers' self-management, humanitarianism, pacifism, pluralism, environmentalism, interculturalism, indigenous rights, minority rights, LGBT+ rights, feminism, optimism Against: Nationalism, authoritarianism, fascism, conservatism, populism, violence, ethnocentrism, racism, sexism, religious bigotry, anti-LGBT+ bigotry, death penalty, neoliberalism, tribalism, cynicism ⚧Copy and paste this in your sig if you passed biology and know gender and sex aren't the same thing.⚧ |
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