Dating is at a Record Low: Another Dating Thread

[Antityranicals]

You're thinking of heroism all wrong. The benefit to the man is that the woman benefits. That's all there is to it. And the woman doesn't have any obligation. It's that simple. As a man, I can't think of much of anything I'd rather do that make one woman happy for her entire life. Why does there need to be any more incentive than that?

That:
1. Won’t work any better than just asking someone out
2. Will make you put more stress into stuff than you actually need to
It will not affect women, and it will be taxing for men.

1. Heroism can start by simply asking someone out.
2. Why does putting in extra work and thought mean stress? If towards a noble goal, I've found work eliminates stress. Sure, it will be taxing for men, but I don't think that it wouldn't affect a woman if she were to have a man who would be willing to weep with her, laugh with her, and just generally be there whenever she needs him. What better purpose could a man have to live for, anyway?

[Neko-koku]

So be it.

What you described is basically what is normal in some parts of Sub-Saharan Africa and some parts of Southeast Asia even today. Look up matrilocal and matrilineal societies and you will see that they are very familiar.

Women should choose men based on what they can do and not how they can look

Actually every one ought to work like that

Work like what?

In these matrilocal and matrilineal societies men tend to fight, not work. They don't stay with one wife either. Sex happens whenever a guy travels to a gal's village. Children happen and the gal raises them up alone (or with her brothers and sisters) while the guy goes on to screw another gal.

[Balican]

Women under feminism chose to think with open legs, and choose men who contribute to society the least because "he's cute." Women are the gatekeepers of reproduction, but with their current mentality, as well as a bunch of sexually-frustrated scientists from Japan developing gynoids for an equally angry consumer demographic, women have facilitated their eventual phase-out for the next 50 years.

Enlighten me on how I think with “open legs”.

I don't think he was talking about you considering that you are anti hedonism and post-modernism in your sig.

[Scomagia]

I don't date because I'm not running the risk of a woman accusing me of sexual assault even if I never touched her once. I'll ruin my own life, thank you very much.

Absurd fear, my friend. That is a very unlikely thing.

[Rojava Free State]

Women should choose men based on what they can do and not how they can look

Actually every one ought to work like that

Work like what?

In these matrilocal and matrilineal societies men tend to fight, not work. They don't stay with one wife either. Sex happens whenever a guy travels to a gal's village. Children happen and the gal raises them up alone (or with her brothers and sisters) while the guy goes on to screw another gal.

That's not right

[Neko-koku]

I don't date because I'm not running the risk of a woman accusing me of sexual assault even if I never touched her once. I'll ruin my own life, thank you very much.

Absurd fear, my friend. That is a very unlikely thing.

Haha.

[Antityranicals]

Women should choose men based on what they can do and not how they can look

Actually every one ought to work like that

Work like what?

In these matrilocal and matrilineal societies men tend to fight, not work. They don't stay with one wife either. Sex happens whenever a guy travels to a gal's village. Children happen and the gal raises them up alone (or with her brothers and sisters) while the guy goes on to screw another gal.

That sounds like a great explanation of why none of those societies ended up reaching any real progress.

[Neko-koku]

Work like what?

In these matrilocal and matrilineal societies men tend to fight, not work. They don't stay with one wife either. Sex happens whenever a guy travels to a gal's village. Children happen and the gal raises them up alone (or with her brothers and sisters) while the guy goes on to screw another gal.

That's not right

That's not right? That's how all humans used to live. Originally we were all from Africa.

[Jean-Paul Sartre]

That:
1. Won’t work any better than just asking someone out
2. Will make you put more stress into stuff than you actually need to
It will not affect women, and it will be taxing for men.

1. Heroism can start by simply asking someone out.
2. Why does putting in extra work and thought mean stress? If towards a noble goal, I've found work eliminates stress. Sure, it will be taxing for men, but I don't think that it wouldn't affect a woman if she were to have a man who would be willing to weep with her, laugh with her, and just generally be there whenever she needs him. What better purpose could a man have to live for, anyway?

That’s not a hero, that’s a human who puts effort into dating. But women should put in the effort too. Men need support as well, especially in today’s society. Any human being should be empathetic to their SO. That’s just common sense.

[Torisakia]

I don't date because I'm not running the risk of a woman accusing me of sexual assault even if I never touched her once. I'll ruin my own life, thank you very much.

Absurd fear, my friend. That is a very unlikely thing.

Maybe so. But it still too likely to risk.

[Bombadil]

Slightly related to social media in terms of the idealised life people present but I also think a lot of people's expectations are too high these days. Both in terms of looks and also any inconvenience or hassle being really too much of a bother.

I'm a victim myself, the tiniest thing will bug me and grow in my mind until I break up with someone, so I go through waves of dating people and then thinking 'I really can't handle the process anymore..'

Just as examples, things that have bugged me have included:

Wearing the same type of dress all the time
Posing their heads in a certain way in every damn photo
Looking too much like another friend from certain angles
Pronouncing Caribbean as Curry Bean

These and other things..

[Neko-koku]

Work like what?

In these matrilocal and matrilineal societies men tend to fight, not work. They don't stay with one wife either. Sex happens whenever a guy travels to a gal's village. Children happen and the gal raises them up alone (or with her brothers and sisters) while the guy goes on to screw another gal.

That sounds like a great explanation of why none of those societies ended up reaching any real progress.

Yep.

When the weather is humid and warm a gal can feed her kiddies. What is a husband good for? Hence the northern family never evolved until northerners brought it there..which in the case of SEA and non-Muslim Sub-Saharan Africa that's usually when colonization happened. Even 100-200 years of northernization can not make the novel social institution stay.

[Rojava Free State]

What better purpose could a man have to live for, anyway?

Storming area 51 for starters

[Christian Confederation]

Popular girls/ Chearledears- mostly white, most have a black athletic BF, with a few white athletic Bf's in the middle.

"Good" Christian kids- most act good around adults and are your generic drinking smoking teens, a few actually are good and stay out of trouble/ off the dateing scene or just went to Christian School.

Gays (very few)- stay to themselves, can be hostile to non Gays.

Blacks - mostly stick amongst themselves, some mixture.

Latinos- mostly stick to themselves with a few exceptions.

Racists- low in #'s stick to themselves.

Smart kids- stick to themselves with few exceptions.

Musilums- 10-20 a few families, most run the local gas stations. (My buddy Osmond is crazy Rich thanks to gas and his dad's rice factory in pacastain.

* Im in the mid uper class popular crowd but we all dip into other sub groups.
South GA HS, Go hornets

[Bienenhalde]

Men have forgotten how to be men. Men don't strive to be heroes anymore. Girls want heroes, and rightfully so. It is the duty of all men to defeat the mediocrity within them, and be everything that a girl ever dreamed of. It's hard as hell, but it's what men ought to do. Today, I don't think most male humans really deserve the title of "man." In the minds of many, masculinity doesn't mean greatness and heroism, it means perversion and lust. Thus one group of men run towards this evil in the pursuit of manliness, while another group run away from real manliness in disgust of this evil. It's rather sad, and we live in a society who sorts men into one of these two groups. I challenge all men to break free of this, and to be real men.

You may have some legitimate points here, but I disagree with equating greatness with masculinity. Women and effeminate men can be great, too.

[Bear Stearns]

Women under feminism chose to think with open legs, and choose men who contribute to society the least because "he's cute." Women are the gatekeepers of reproduction, but with their current mentality, as well as a bunch of sexually-frustrated scientists from Japan developing gynoids for an equally angry consumer demographic, women have facilitated their eventual phase-out for the next 50 years.

So be it.

What you described is basically what is normal in some parts of Sub-Saharan Africa and some parts of Southeast Asia even today. Look up matrilocal and matrilineal societies and you will see that they are very familiar.

The West is not matrilineal and it would basically be impossible to make it so without massive disruption.

[Kombinita Socialisma Demokratio]

Why does it matter if population growth slows or stops? The age-based Ponzi schemes need modified to not be Ponzi schemes anyway.

[Rojava Free State]

That's not right

That's not right? That's how all humans used to live. Originally we were all from Africa.

Hey, you yourself said these societies are dysfunctional as a result so clearly it isn't right

[Scomagia]

Absurd fear, my friend. That is a very unlikely thing.

Haha.

Evidence to tbe contrary?

[Bear Stearns]

Popular girls/ Chearledears- mostly white, most have a black athletic BF, with a few white athletic Bf's in the middle.

"Good" Christian kids- most act good around adults and are your generic drinking smoking teens, a few actually are good and stay out of trouble/ off the dateing scene or just went to Christian School.

Gays (very few)- stay to themselves, can be hostile to non Gays.

Blacks - mostly stick amongst themselves, some mixture.

Latinos- mostly stick to themselves with a few exceptions.

Racists- low in #'s stick to themselves.

Smart kids- stick to themselves with few exceptions.

* Im in the mid uper class popular crowd but we all dip into other sub groups.

lmao sounds like a late 90s teen comedy

[Jean-Paul Sartre]

Enlighten me on how I think with “open legs”.

I don't think he was talking about you considering that you are anti hedonism and post-modernism in your sig.

Fair enough. Still, I’m wary of anyone who says women “post-feminism”. The reason being, I’m not to be expected to “stay in the kitchen”, and many who say that want me squarely there.

[Scomagia]

Absurd fear, my friend. That is a very unlikely thing.

Maybe so. But it still too likely to risk.

You take bigger risks every day.

[Ayytaly]

So be it.

What you described is basically what is normal in some parts of Sub-Saharan Africa and some parts of Southeast Asia even today. Look up matrilocal and matrilineal societies and you will see that they are very familiar.

Women should choose men based on what they can do and not how they can look

Actually every one ought to work like that

Didn't you just say you "contribute" to society by impregnating every woman you meet? I guess I know who is causing my tax money to go to cover for brats that aren't my own.

[Neko-koku]

So be it.

What you described is basically what is normal in some parts of Sub-Saharan Africa and some parts of Southeast Asia even today. Look up matrilocal and matrilineal societies and you will see that they are very familiar.

The West is not matrilineal and it would basically be impossible to make it so without massive disruption.

I know, nor is NE Asia. I don't want to import this obsolete social institution either.

[Bear Stearns]

So be it.

What you described is basically what is normal in some parts of Sub-Saharan Africa and some parts of Southeast Asia even today. Look up matrilocal and matrilineal societies and you will see that they are very familiar.

Women should choose men based on what they can do and not how they can look

Actually every one ought to work like that

We are sort of evolved to favor certain physical appearances (whether its facial structure, hip/rear size, muscle definition, etc.)