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Postby Auzkhia » Mon May 27, 2019 1:06 pm

Cekoviu wrote:
Auzkhia wrote:I guess it's still a good sign of the times that we can have it commercialized. But as a leftist, I can't help to be a bit cynical about rainbow capitalism. If they really cared, they'd do more than just sell us rainbow #equality t-shirts.

A clothing company's job is simply to sell T-shirts and other clothes. I don't expect them to be out advocating for LGBTQ rights, though I'd welcome it if they did.

It's more like making clothing a more inclusive experience, and less cisnormative.
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Postby The Rich Port » Mon May 27, 2019 1:54 pm

A friend of mine is unfortunately very poor, and wishes to undergo transition.

Apparently it can get very expensive, since they require medical supervision for hormone therapy.

I find it really messed up that she has zero avenues.

Anybody have any tips?
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Postby Cekoviu » Mon May 27, 2019 2:01 pm

The Rich Port wrote:A friend of mine is unfortunately very poor, and wishes to undergo transition.

Apparently it can get very expensive, since they require medical supervision for hormone therapy.

I find it really messed up that she has zero avenues.

Anybody have any tips?

That really sucks for her. Does she have any kind of health insurance?
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Postby Arcturus Novus » Mon May 27, 2019 2:02 pm

The Rich Port wrote:A friend of mine is unfortunately very poor, and wishes to undergo transition.

Apparently it can get very expensive, since they require medical supervision for hormone therapy.

I find it really messed up that she has zero avenues.

Anybody have any tips?

How do they feel about GoFundMe or some such crowdfunding initiative?
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Postby Leonixion » Mon May 27, 2019 3:14 pm

Can I disagree with transgenderism here? Like the idea that you can't change gender or I should start a new page?

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Postby Vassenor » Mon May 27, 2019 3:15 pm

Leonixion wrote:Can I disagree with transgenderism here? Like the idea that you can't change gender or I should start a new page?


You can, but keep in mind you will be expected to debate that point and defend it using actual evidence.
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Postby Novus America » Mon May 27, 2019 3:15 pm

The Rich Port wrote:A friend of mine is unfortunately very poor, and wishes to undergo transition.

Apparently it can get very expensive, since they require medical supervision for hormone therapy.

I find it really messed up that she has zero avenues.

Anybody have any tips?


Where does your friend live? That matters a lot.
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Postby Kowani » Mon May 27, 2019 3:16 pm

Leonixion wrote:Can I disagree with transgenderism here? Like the idea that you can't change gender or I should start a new page?

You can, but be careful how you express it.
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Postby Leonixion » Mon May 27, 2019 3:17 pm

Vassenor wrote:You can, but keep in mind you will be expected to debate that point and defend it using actual evidence.

Well, the main issue is surrounding the "self-identification" part and I don't see clear arguments and evidence on any side.

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Postby United Muscovite Nations » Mon May 27, 2019 3:18 pm

Leonixion wrote:Can I disagree with transgenderism here? Like the idea that you can't change gender or I should start a new page?

The thing about this thread is that it's mostly used for trans people to discuss their issues rather than to discuss the issue of transsexuality itself.
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Postby Vassenor » Mon May 27, 2019 3:18 pm

Leonixion wrote:
Vassenor wrote:You can, but keep in mind you will be expected to debate that point and defend it using actual evidence.

Well, the main issue is surrounding the "self-identification" part and I don't see clear arguments and evidence on any side.


Depends on what you define as a "clear argument".
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Postby New haven america » Mon May 27, 2019 3:19 pm

Leonixion wrote:
Vassenor wrote:You can, but keep in mind you will be expected to debate that point and defend it using actual evidence.

Well, the main issue is surrounding the "self-identification" part and I don't see clear arguments and evidence on any side.

Do you believe yourself to be male?

No, not "Do you have the parts", do you think of yourself as a male?
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Postby The Emerald Legion » Mon May 27, 2019 3:20 pm

New haven america wrote:
Leonixion wrote:Well, the main issue is surrounding the "self-identification" part and I don't see clear arguments and evidence on any side.

Do you believe yourself to be male?

No, "Not do you have the parts", do you think of yourself as a male?



Which brings up the question of what Male is.
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Postby The Rich Port » Mon May 27, 2019 3:21 pm

Novus America wrote:
The Rich Port wrote:A friend of mine is unfortunately very poor, and wishes to undergo transition.

Apparently it can get very expensive, since they require medical supervision for hormone therapy.

I find it really messed up that she has zero avenues.

Anybody have any tips?


Where does your friend live? That matters a lot.


On health insurance: she does not, can't afford it, she's a dishwasher working full time. She has a grandmother to take care of.

On GoFundMe, she hadn't considered it, she might do that.

On where she lives, she lives in Texas.

Leonixion wrote:Can I disagree with transgenderism here? Like the idea that you can't change gender or I should start a new page?


Do you have an actual reason why you disagree with it or is it just guessing at things, like so many people that "disagree" like to do?
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Postby Leonixion » Mon May 27, 2019 3:23 pm

New haven america wrote:Do you believe yourself to be male?

No, "Not do you have the parts", do you think of yourself as a male?


Yes. But I don't get the point. It's like asking me if I think of myself as a 20 something man while being one.
Being male is the name given to having these parts and yeah, in society having different parts lead you to have different roles (even though it doesn't have that much of an impact nowadays).
Pretty much like being a child, an adult or an old person means different roles.

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Postby New haven america » Mon May 27, 2019 3:25 pm

Leonixion wrote:
New haven america wrote:Do you believe yourself to be male?

No, "Not do you have the parts", do you think of yourself as a male?


Yes. But I don't get the point. It's like asking me if I think of myself as a 20 something man while being one.
Being male is the name given to having these parts and yeah, in society having different parts lead you to have different roles (even though it doesn't have that much of an impact nowadays).
Pretty much like being a child, an adult or an old person means different roles.

Ok, cool.

Now, would you believe me if I told you there were people with male parts who don't think of themselves as male? in the same way you think of yourself as a male, they view themselves as female.
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Postby Novus America » Mon May 27, 2019 3:26 pm

The Rich Port wrote:
Novus America wrote:
Where does your friend live? That matters a lot.


On health insurance: she does not, can't afford it, she's a dishwasher working full time. She has a grandmother to take care of.

On GoFundMe, she hadn't considered it, she might do that.

On where she lives, she lives in Texas.

Leonixion wrote:Can I disagree with transgenderism here? Like the idea that you can't change gender or I should start a new page?


Do you have an actual reason why you disagree with it or is it just guessing at things, like so many people that "disagree" like to do?


Well she should contact Texas Health and Human Services.
https://www.benefits.gov/benefit/1640
https://hhs.texas.gov/services/health/medicaid-chip
Admittedly Texas is probably not the best state on these matters.
Still she should apply.

Also should look at non profit health cooperatives and other groups.
Resources are often available, but it often takes a lot of research to find them.
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Postby Leonixion » Mon May 27, 2019 3:26 pm

The Rich Port wrote:
Leonixion wrote:Can I disagree with transgenderism here? Like the idea that you can't change gender or I should start a new page?


Do you have an actual reason why you disagree with it or is it just guessing at things, like so many people that "disagree" like to do?

I disagree with the idea (for me gender is given at birth and depends on your natural physical appearance) and the implications it has (competition for example).

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Postby Vassenor » Mon May 27, 2019 3:26 pm

Leonixion wrote:
The Rich Port wrote:

Do you have an actual reason why you disagree with it or is it just guessing at things, like so many people that "disagree" like to do?

I disagree with the idea (for me gender is given at birth and depends on your natural physical appearance) and the implications it has (competition for example).


So how do you handle intersex individuals?
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Postby Leonixion » Mon May 27, 2019 3:27 pm

New haven america wrote:Ok, cool.

Now, would you believe me if I told you there were people with male parts who don't think of themselves as male? in the same way you think of yourself as a male, they view themselves as female.

Hmmm no. Since having a penis is contrary to being a woman.

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Postby New haven america » Mon May 27, 2019 3:27 pm

Leonixion wrote:
The Rich Port wrote:

Do you have an actual reason why you disagree with it or is it just guessing at things, like so many people that "disagree" like to do?

I disagree with the idea (for me gender is given at birth and depends on your natural physical appearance) and the implications it has (competition for example).

So what about intersex people?

They're actually quite common as well.
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Postby Neutraligon » Mon May 27, 2019 3:28 pm

Leonixion wrote:
New haven america wrote:Do you believe yourself to be male?

No, "Not do you have the parts", do you think of yourself as a male?


Yes. But I don't get the point. It's like asking me if I think of myself as a 20 something man while being one.
Being male is the name given to having these parts and yeah, in society having different parts lead you to have different roles (even though it doesn't have that much of an impact nowadays).
Pretty much like being a child, an adult or an old person means different roles.

Intersex people exist. Also, the brain is a biological organ that develops at different rates to the sexual organs, it would hardly be a surprise for the brain to differ in some circumstances. There are studies that indicate that those who are binary trans (ie mtf and ftm) have brain compositions different from the gender they are assigned at birth (like having more gray matter in mtf). https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgend ... ssexuality You can start there.
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Postby New haven america » Mon May 27, 2019 3:28 pm

Leonixion wrote:
New haven america wrote:Ok, cool.

Now, would you believe me if I told you there were people with male parts who don't think of themselves as male? in the same way you think of yourself as a male, they view themselves as female.

Hmmm no. Since having a penis is contrary to being a woman.

Ok, I'll ask again.

Do you think of yourself as a male? Not "Do you have the parts", do you believe yourself to be a male?
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Postby The South Falls » Mon May 27, 2019 3:30 pm

It's, of course, true that intersex people exist. That I will say.
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Postby Prindialicstanes » Mon May 27, 2019 3:36 pm

New haven america wrote:So what about intersex people?

They're actually quite common as well.

I'm okay with a third or neutral gender for intersex people. If genetic screenings show that the baby will probably evolve toward a more definitive appearance (male or female looking), they should have the choice to be that gender or keep the third/neutral option.
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