The Free Joy State wrote:United Muscovite Nations wrote:Nonsense, there may be unconscious preferences, but throughout history, many people engaged in sexual intercourse with people regardless of their sexuality, and even until recently, most "homosexuals" engaged in intercourse and marriage regularly with non-homosexuals. We merely come to identify our preferences with exclusive ideas of sexuality that exist in society, which explains why many "straight" people have homosexual experiences and vice-versa.
A person who's gay and having sex with a member of the opposite sex is not straight.
They will still have the same desires. It's still innate. Repressed desires are still desires. For most of history, people had no choice. They could be jailed and -- further back than that -- killed if anyone found out.
That doesn't mean they weren't LGBT.
Of course, I suppose, if you're only going for the appearance, regardless of how miserable people are.
I would personally rather see people happy, in fulfilling relationships than locked in show-marriages, constantly living a lie.
People say that trapping people in loveless marriages like that somehow brings "social cohesion". I have no idea what cohesion unhappiness brings.