Katganistan wrote:USS Monitor wrote:https://goodmenproject.com/newsroom/are-men-legally-required-to-ask-their-spouses-permission-for-a-vasectomy/
Tl;dr: legally men don't need the consent of the wife. But a lot of doctors do demand it.
Then change doctors. It's not their decision to make on a non-medical issue.
"Just find a different doctor" doesn't really work for most people, especially when most or all doctors in the area do the same thing.