Dumb Ideologies wrote:Delta-9 Tetrahydrocannabinol wrote:I would love to ask the Lefties on NS this question. Those things “highly intersectional identities” that have a hard time find accepting from the communities they belong to for various reasons turning to political and philosophical individualism as a source of defending their validity? I’ve found that political and philosophical individualism to be the best solution for those with “highly intersectional identities”.
For example, I face mass rejection from my LGBT community due to my body size, my personal appearance, my politics and many other things. So, rather than what I did before, become an anti-LGBT bigot, I adopted a more individualist perspective on life and politics.
I've never resorted to a pure individualist politics because the relativism makes it empty of substantive content and ultimately collapses into having no strong convictions and getting dragged along with whatever the nearest person with principles says.
But I've struggled with this broad issue myself quite extensively over the years, so I have given the issue some thought.
We live in a world where we're encouraged constantly to be "true to ourselves", but in which politics is increasingly shrill, cliquey and locked away into closed bubbles unreceptive to outside thought. The problem is one of contrary and irreconcilable expectations. There are broadly four options if you find yourself with a set of beliefs that don't quite fit the moulds, whiich I've listed broadly in order of my personal "journey":
1) Attempt to make yourself fit as best as possible into the one group you find most appealing and do your best to hide and deny any contrary loyalties or expressions. The path of least resistance, but one which will likely cause you some disquiet.
2) Actively challenge the established order in the groups and fight your corner, knowing that whole the group may reject you at large, a subsection may accept you, allowing you to interact with them on a more authentic basis. This might require trying several groups and going through substantial and repeated rejection.
3) Maintain memberships of a mulitude of groups, pretending as best as possible to fit all of them while you're with them. In which manner, your entire self is reflected in aggregate but not simultaneously. Again, can often feel fake, or like you're "wearing too many hats".
4) Withdraw from active membership of political/identity social groups and fulfil social needs via an easier method such as online forums etc. where the relative distance makes disagreement and rejection less distressing. The lack of a face-to-face regular connection can be difficult here, particularly if you're also lacking in close family ties.
As I say, I'm currently on 4, having being repeatedly dumped by all the social groups I nurtured during my university years for political reasons, finding the local LGBT community rather seedy and excessively prideful, and being too left-wing and queer for national-conservative politics and too culturally conservative and nationalist for the liberal internationalist left.
Society is not obliged to accept anyone, and if you do not have the charisma and force of personality to make people want to accept you regardless then there is no shame in keeping yourself to yourself. It's not necessarily a fault on your behalf, or even on the people who reject you - everyone has and is entitled to their ideological red lines - it's just a feature of the natural in/out, them/us, community and "other" dynamic of group formation and the political times we live in.
Your piece is very good, except for the start. How is individualism relativistic and priciple-less?