Senkaku wrote:LimaUniformNovemberAlpha wrote:
"Not every guy who makes a woman feel uncomfortable did it because he's an asshole." (1min in)
"This is what women want; but only from the men they want it from. Problem is, we don't know which one we are." (2min in)[/i]
These are both really good points, and I agree on your uncomfortableness regarding his criticism of the "ask them out once" rule- but I just don't think society, as polarized as it is, is really ready to try and find a nuanced middle ground here (or anywhere) right now. The battle lines have been drawn up on each side, and trying to examine the actual complexities of the subject is going to become even harder. We're just not equipped to have that kind of conversation.
So just let people be needlessly demonized while we wait?
And what precisely would we be waiting for?