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The Derpy Democratic Republic Of Herp
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Civil Rights Lovefest

Postby The Derpy Democratic Republic Of Herp » Sun Apr 01, 2018 5:30 pm

Stattr wrote:
The Derpy Democratic Republic Of Herp wrote:I know how you feel.

I felt that way too.

Don't do it. You would be hurting everyone around you.

Please, don't do it.

is it always about everyone else hm? I can't do what I want because of everyone else...I've lose my home, boyfriend and job in less than a week this month and now I have until May 4th to find a new place and get a job and in the meantime I'm this couples slave because she's a controlling wreck and I can't do anything I'd rather be DEAD than deal with being used because she can't work out and lose 300lbs of being an asshole.

You just need need to take it one day at a time.

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Auremena
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Ex-Nation

Postby Auremena » Sun Apr 01, 2018 5:31 pm

Stattr wrote:
The Derpy Democratic Republic Of Herp wrote:I know how you feel.

I felt that way too.

Don't do it. You would be hurting everyone around you.

Please, don't do it.
is it always about everyone else hm? I can't do what I want because of everyone else...I've lose my home, boyfriend and job in less than a week this month and now I have until May 4th to find a new place and get a job and in the meantime I'm this couples slave because she's a controlling wreck and I can't do anything I'd rather be DEAD than deal with being used because she can't work out and lose 300lbs of being an asshole.
Okay I really know this feel. I've experienced something pretty similar really recently, and it hasn't turned out well. But really, all you can do is persevere. And know there's resources out there for help. I've met some great people while trying to get back on my feet that really helped. But mostly I've met shitty people who harrass me and make me want to die.
I'm losing the point of the message here... But the tl;dr: sometimes no matter how hard you try, you've got to deal with things by just going with the flow. Let the floodwaters carry you into the ocean, where life can begin anew.
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Ex-Nation

Postby Stattr » Sun Apr 01, 2018 5:32 pm

The Derpy Democratic Republic Of Herp wrote:
Stattr wrote:is it always about everyone else hm? I can't do what I want because of everyone else...I've lose my home, boyfriend and job in less than a week this month and now I have until May 4th to find a new place and get a job and in the meantime I'm this couples slave because she's a controlling wreck and I can't do anything I'd rather be DEAD than deal with being used because she can't work out and lose 300lbs of being an asshole.

You just need need to take it one day at a time.

Auremena wrote:
Stattr wrote:is it always about everyone else hm? I can't do what I want because of everyone else...I've lose my home, boyfriend and job in less than a week this month and now I have until May 4th to find a new place and get a job and in the meantime I'm this couples slave because she's a controlling wreck and I can't do anything I'd rather be DEAD than deal with being used because she can't work out and lose 300lbs of being an asshole.
Okay I really know this feel. I've experienced something pretty similar really recently, and it hasn't turned out well. But really, all you can do is persevere. And know there's resources out there for help. I've met some great people while trying to get back on my feet that really helped. But mostly I've met shitty people who harrass me and make me want to die.
I'm losing the point of the message here... But the tl;dr: sometimes no matter how hard you try, you've got to deal with things by just going with the flow. Let the floodwaters carry you into the ocean, where life can begin anew.

Why is it so hard then, when you finally build yourself up you get knocked down and stomped on and kicked around. Why...
"The world is full of stupid people, get used to it."
Pasong Tirad wrote:Heresy. The earth is flat. It's evening everywhere. Stattr needs to be guillotined.

Hlad:And after that?
Ethel: She is moving in with you, you will equip a throne room for her, and bring her rose petals everyday. You shall dress in a french maid's outfit, and only speak english with a bad french accent.
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Civil Rights Lovefest

Postby Mushet » Sun Apr 01, 2018 5:32 pm

Stattr wrote:
The Derpy Democratic Republic Of Herp wrote:I know how you feel.

I felt that way too.

Don't do it. You would be hurting everyone around you.

Please, don't do it.

is it always about everyone else hm? I can't do what I want because of everyone else...I've lose my home, boyfriend and job in less than a week this month and now I have until May 4th to find a new place and get a job and in the meantime I'm this couples slave because she's a controlling wreck and I can't do anything I'd rather be DEAD than deal with being used because she can't work out and lose 300lbs of being an asshole.

Please use the professional resources, they're better than what anyone here will tell you.

People value you, that's important. And you got plenty of people on NS to attest to the suicidal thoughts subsiding and things getting better.
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Auremena
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Ex-Nation

Postby Auremena » Sun Apr 01, 2018 5:36 pm

Stattr wrote:
The Derpy Democratic Republic Of Herp wrote:You just need need to take it one day at a time.

Auremena wrote:Okay I really know this feel. I've experienced something pretty similar really recently, and it hasn't turned out well. But really, all you can do is persevere. And know there's resources out there for help. I've met some great people while trying to get back on my feet that really helped. But mostly I've met shitty people who harrass me and make me want to die.
I'm losing the point of the message here... But the tl;dr: sometimes no matter how hard you try, you've got to deal with things by just going with the flow. Let the floodwaters carry you into the ocean, where life can begin anew.
Why is it so hard then, when you finally build yourself up you get knocked down and stomped on and kicked around. Why...
I don't know, Jon. I don't know.
I'm there too. I don't really know what to feel besides hatred towards myself for putting me in this spot. Gotta stick to your own moral compass, not let anyone boss you around.
I gave up housing, food, and hygiene because I couldn't deal with the way someone was treating my friend. Had something good going, was in a better place, but it got to a point I couldn't stand it. And I think I'm better off emotionally now even though I may be suffering physically. So, determine what's important to you, and latch onto it.
NS's aviation and train sabelotodo.
Post-left anarchist and sad about it.
Killdash, Firsthome, Coffee Cakes, SSC, GCoCS, Snowy, Val, Aeqy, and Replevion are my bitches.
Foot worshipper: Lutvikkia. Dakky's mom, I had her with Nana.
The female Jim Morrison; not as talented, but just as attractive and self destructive. The one true heir to the throne of the Lizard King.
Some poetry I write sometimes
Tearing the MBTA a new one since 2014. The MTA too since 2016. Cover the world in trains 2030
COYS!

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Democratic Socialists

Postby Hurdergaryp » Sun Apr 01, 2018 5:40 pm

Stattr wrote:Why is it so hard then, when you finally build yourself up you get knocked down and stomped on and kicked around. Why...

I do not have an answer to that. If only we happened to be on the same continent... I could have provided you with shelter. Not that it would be much, mind you. My appartment is pretty much a one person affair.


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Ex-Nation

Postby Stattr » Sun Apr 01, 2018 5:42 pm

Hurdergaryp wrote:
Stattr wrote:Why is it so hard then, when you finally build yourself up you get knocked down and stomped on and kicked around. Why...

I do not have an answer to that. If only we happened to be on the same continent... I could have provided you with shelter. Not that it would be much, mind you. My appartment is pretty much a one person affair.

So is my car. I can stay in my dads work parking lot.

Thanks you guys.
"The world is full of stupid people, get used to it."
Pasong Tirad wrote:Heresy. The earth is flat. It's evening everywhere. Stattr needs to be guillotined.

Hlad:And after that?
Ethel: She is moving in with you, you will equip a throne room for her, and bring her rose petals everyday. You shall dress in a french maid's outfit, and only speak english with a bad french accent.
Drown wrote:
The balkens wrote:Why hello fellow privileged manape.

A cordial salutations towards a fellow scholar of the mythical 'White Privilege'

I am a 100% authentic D&D nerd. I love me some Barbs <3

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Auremena
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Ex-Nation

Postby Auremena » Sun Apr 01, 2018 5:44 pm

Stattr wrote:
Hurdergaryp wrote:I do not have an answer to that. If only we happened to be on the same continent... I could have provided you with shelter. Not that it would be much, mind you. My appartment is pretty much a one person affair.
So is my car. I can stay in my dads work parking lot.

Thanks you guys.
One way streets are your friends.
It's not so bad. I've made it work. Just have problems with keeping my phone charged sometimes...
Also...
NS's aviation and train sabelotodo.
Post-left anarchist and sad about it.
Killdash, Firsthome, Coffee Cakes, SSC, GCoCS, Snowy, Val, Aeqy, and Replevion are my bitches.
Foot worshipper: Lutvikkia. Dakky's mom, I had her with Nana.
The female Jim Morrison; not as talented, but just as attractive and self destructive. The one true heir to the throne of the Lizard King.
Some poetry I write sometimes
Tearing the MBTA a new one since 2014. The MTA too since 2016. Cover the world in trains 2030
COYS!

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Katten en Kittens van de Wereld
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Scandinavian Liberal Paradise

Postby Katten en Kittens van de Wereld » Sun Apr 01, 2018 6:33 pm

Now Ethel mermania won't be so lonely with me around.
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Auremena
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Postby Auremena » Sun Apr 01, 2018 6:52 pm

Katten en Kittens van de Wereld wrote:Now Ethel mermania won't be so lonely with me around.
But I am a cat as well...
NS's aviation and train sabelotodo.
Post-left anarchist and sad about it.
Killdash, Firsthome, Coffee Cakes, SSC, GCoCS, Snowy, Val, Aeqy, and Replevion are my bitches.
Foot worshipper: Lutvikkia. Dakky's mom, I had her with Nana.
The female Jim Morrison; not as talented, but just as attractive and self destructive. The one true heir to the throne of the Lizard King.
Some poetry I write sometimes
Tearing the MBTA a new one since 2014. The MTA too since 2016. Cover the world in trains 2030
COYS!

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Katten en Kittens van de Wereld
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Scandinavian Liberal Paradise

Postby Katten en Kittens van de Wereld » Sun Apr 01, 2018 6:54 pm

Auremena wrote:
Katten en Kittens van de Wereld wrote:Now Ethel mermania won't be so lonely with me around.
But I am a cat as well...


Well, the more, the merrier!
IC: Meoowwww! Mew! Purr... (If ALL the humans are wiped out by the nuclear war, and only the cats survived the ordeal…)

Our Leader, The Orange Tabby, will guide us through this dog world!

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Pax Nerdvana
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Capitalizt

Postby Pax Nerdvana » Sun Apr 01, 2018 6:55 pm

Katten en Kittens van de Wereld wrote:Now Ethel mermania won't be so lonely with me around.

That's nice.
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Ammunition supply-chain (6.5x55 Swede and .303 British, although available, isn't exactly everywhere)
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Postby Auremena » Sun Apr 01, 2018 6:58 pm

Katten en Kittens van de Wereld wrote:
Auremena wrote:But I am a cat as well...
Well, the more, the merrier!
Miau miau
NS's aviation and train sabelotodo.
Post-left anarchist and sad about it.
Killdash, Firsthome, Coffee Cakes, SSC, GCoCS, Snowy, Val, Aeqy, and Replevion are my bitches.
Foot worshipper: Lutvikkia. Dakky's mom, I had her with Nana.
The female Jim Morrison; not as talented, but just as attractive and self destructive. The one true heir to the throne of the Lizard King.
Some poetry I write sometimes
Tearing the MBTA a new one since 2014. The MTA too since 2016. Cover the world in trains 2030
COYS!

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Capitalizt

Postby Pax Nerdvana » Sun Apr 01, 2018 7:00 pm

Katten en Kittens van de Wereld wrote:
Auremena wrote:But I am a cat as well...


Well, the more, the merrier!

The Moor the merrier in ancient Spain.
The Internet killed gun control.
Profile
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We Will Not Comply
They can’t stop the Signal
"The universe did never make sense; I suspect it was built on government contract."
-Robert Heinlein

"Affordability
Suitability (.22LR for squirrels, bigger .22s for long range little things, and big-bore for legal hunting reasons, etc)
Ammunition supply-chain (6.5x55 Swede and .303 British, although available, isn't exactly everywhere)
If it's ugly, uncomfortable, and can't shoot straight, but it accomplishes the above, then it's either a Mosin or a Hi-Point."
-Hurtful Thoughts on stuff you want in a gun

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Ex-Nation

Postby Auremena » Sun Apr 01, 2018 7:01 pm

Pax Nerdvana wrote:
Katten en Kittens van de Wereld wrote:Well, the more, the merrier!
The Moor the merrier in ancient Spain.
Ehh more like medieval Spain. Ancient Spain was like pre-Carthage and Rome.
NS's aviation and train sabelotodo.
Post-left anarchist and sad about it.
Killdash, Firsthome, Coffee Cakes, SSC, GCoCS, Snowy, Val, Aeqy, and Replevion are my bitches.
Foot worshipper: Lutvikkia. Dakky's mom, I had her with Nana.
The female Jim Morrison; not as talented, but just as attractive and self destructive. The one true heir to the throne of the Lizard King.
Some poetry I write sometimes
Tearing the MBTA a new one since 2014. The MTA too since 2016. Cover the world in trains 2030
COYS!

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Psychotic Dictatorship

Postby Greater Arab State » Sun Apr 01, 2018 7:02 pm

Sorry about this but if anyone's interested me and some other people have set up a 1956 Election RP. Sorry for this disturbance again.
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Pax Nerdvana
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Capitalizt

Postby Pax Nerdvana » Sun Apr 01, 2018 7:02 pm

Auremena wrote:
Pax Nerdvana wrote:The Moor the merrier in ancient Spain.
Ehh more like medieval Spain. Ancient Spain was like pre-Carthage and Rome.

Medieval! That's the word I was looking for.
The Internet killed gun control.
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We Will Not Comply
They can’t stop the Signal
"The universe did never make sense; I suspect it was built on government contract."
-Robert Heinlein

"Affordability
Suitability (.22LR for squirrels, bigger .22s for long range little things, and big-bore for legal hunting reasons, etc)
Ammunition supply-chain (6.5x55 Swede and .303 British, although available, isn't exactly everywhere)
If it's ugly, uncomfortable, and can't shoot straight, but it accomplishes the above, then it's either a Mosin or a Hi-Point."
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Auremena
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Ex-Nation

Postby Auremena » Sun Apr 01, 2018 7:09 pm

Pax Nerdvana wrote:
Auremena wrote:Ehh more like medieval Spain. Ancient Spain was like pre-Carthage and Rome.
Medieval! That's the word I was looking for.
Gotta get yo reconquista on.
NS's aviation and train sabelotodo.
Post-left anarchist and sad about it.
Killdash, Firsthome, Coffee Cakes, SSC, GCoCS, Snowy, Val, Aeqy, and Replevion are my bitches.
Foot worshipper: Lutvikkia. Dakky's mom, I had her with Nana.
The female Jim Morrison; not as talented, but just as attractive and self destructive. The one true heir to the throne of the Lizard King.
Some poetry I write sometimes
Tearing the MBTA a new one since 2014. The MTA too since 2016. Cover the world in trains 2030
COYS!

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Pax Nerdvana
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Capitalizt

Postby Pax Nerdvana » Sun Apr 01, 2018 7:10 pm

Auremena wrote:
Pax Nerdvana wrote:Medieval! That's the word I was looking for.
Gotta get yo reconquista on.

That's a good one.
The Internet killed gun control.
Profile
Quotes
We Will Not Comply
They can’t stop the Signal
"The universe did never make sense; I suspect it was built on government contract."
-Robert Heinlein

"Affordability
Suitability (.22LR for squirrels, bigger .22s for long range little things, and big-bore for legal hunting reasons, etc)
Ammunition supply-chain (6.5x55 Swede and .303 British, although available, isn't exactly everywhere)
If it's ugly, uncomfortable, and can't shoot straight, but it accomplishes the above, then it's either a Mosin or a Hi-Point."
-Hurtful Thoughts on stuff you want in a gun

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Auremena
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Founded: Mar 04, 2010
Ex-Nation

Postby Auremena » Sun Apr 01, 2018 7:13 pm

Pax Nerdvana wrote:
Auremena wrote:Gotta get yo reconquista on.
That's a good one.
I'm fulla'em.
NS's aviation and train sabelotodo.
Post-left anarchist and sad about it.
Killdash, Firsthome, Coffee Cakes, SSC, GCoCS, Snowy, Val, Aeqy, and Replevion are my bitches.
Foot worshipper: Lutvikkia. Dakky's mom, I had her with Nana.
The female Jim Morrison; not as talented, but just as attractive and self destructive. The one true heir to the throne of the Lizard King.
Some poetry I write sometimes
Tearing the MBTA a new one since 2014. The MTA too since 2016. Cover the world in trains 2030
COYS!

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Inoffensive Centrist Democracy

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Ex-Nation

Postby Stattr » Sun Apr 01, 2018 8:26 pm

My night just got better after I saw NS: The gathering as I play magic and I already enjoy this.
"The world is full of stupid people, get used to it."
Pasong Tirad wrote:Heresy. The earth is flat. It's evening everywhere. Stattr needs to be guillotined.

Hlad:And after that?
Ethel: She is moving in with you, you will equip a throne room for her, and bring her rose petals everyday. You shall dress in a french maid's outfit, and only speak english with a bad french accent.
Drown wrote:
The balkens wrote:Why hello fellow privileged manape.

A cordial salutations towards a fellow scholar of the mythical 'White Privilege'

I am a 100% authentic D&D nerd. I love me some Barbs <3

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Founded: Nov 04, 2017
Ex-Nation

Postby Siberai » Sun Apr 01, 2018 8:27 pm

Stattr wrote:My night just got better after I saw NS: The gathering as I play magic and I already enjoy this.



I'll give you my epic for a hug
NS Name is not IC Name!
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Postby Stattr » Sun Apr 01, 2018 8:28 pm

Siberai wrote:
Stattr wrote:My night just got better after I saw NS: The gathering as I play magic and I already enjoy this.



I'll give you my epic for a hug

hugs are nice. :hug:

I am a very poor person atm. don't have enough for it.
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"The world is full of stupid people, get used to it."
Pasong Tirad wrote:Heresy. The earth is flat. It's evening everywhere. Stattr needs to be guillotined.

Hlad:And after that?
Ethel: She is moving in with you, you will equip a throne room for her, and bring her rose petals everyday. You shall dress in a french maid's outfit, and only speak english with a bad french accent.
Drown wrote:
The balkens wrote:Why hello fellow privileged manape.

A cordial salutations towards a fellow scholar of the mythical 'White Privilege'

I am a 100% authentic D&D nerd. I love me some Barbs <3

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Siberai
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Founded: Nov 04, 2017
Ex-Nation

Postby Siberai » Sun Apr 01, 2018 8:29 pm

Stattr wrote:
Siberai wrote:

I'll give you my epic for a hug

hugs are nice. :hug:



How much do you want it for
NS Name is not IC Name!
NS Stats are NOT used!
IC Name: Notovasian Tsardom
Siberai does NOT represent my views in the slightest.
I am a depressed gaybean

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