Here.
Thermodolia wrote:Look dude sex is extremely important in a relationship. If I'm not sexually compatible with someone it's generally not going to work out.
Not "If I'm not sexually compatible with someone, I'll need to become compatible.
If compatibility can be modified, it is, for general intents and purposes, simply preferences, which is my point.







When your sex education consists primarily of "Sex before marriage is bad don't do it," the whole "porn is also fake/exaggerated" memo is missed entirely. I suspect if someone were kept sheltered from the tropes about wrestling and told "Fighting is bad don't do it" and for some reason they needed to find out how to fight they would similarly take WWE at face value as realistic.