Nevada Communes wrote:Albrenia wrote:Sorry if this is a stupid question, but isn't it a little unfair to expect people (in this case men) to educate themselves and change an alleged part of their culture of which they mostly have no idea?
Well, from the feminist perspective, isn't it a little unfair that women are still subdued even when society should be working in productive ways to help them receive full and equal treatment?
Say you were being bullied at school. Would it be a little unfair to expect the school administrator or your friends to educate themselves on what's happening to you, instead of dismissing your complaints as nonsense? Though it may seem like a burden regarding a fight you don't care about, in the feminist perspective, this repression constitutes their entire daily lives so you have to consider this with perspective.
Donut section wrote:Men have "privilege". So they don't get any consideration.
As I said, it's so that feminists can claim anything they want, because they are always the victim.
Nice Strawman, but patently untrue. While it is true feminist theory ascribes privilege to men, most feminists schools of though do in fact also regard men as facing unfortunate and collateral damage - some believe even on par with that women face. This is due to the development of toxic masculinity, emotional suppression, and the cultivation of unrealistic conceptions of manhood and success that most people simply cannot achieve.
Feminists tend not to be blatant misanthropes. Many are - especially radfems - but this is specifically why they and others refer to them as 'rad'fems.
Feminists, generally, have followed this line of approach.
Proto-feminists such as Wollstonecroft argued that with the industrial Revolution, dividing work between male and female was ultimately going to wither because machines made the former roles increasingly obsolete. Therefore, women who demonstrated the capability of taking on formerly male only occupations ought to be able to do so. This idea gathers a following during the 19th Century among men and women alike, though they are in the minority.
1st Wave Feminists wanted a moral revolution. They fought not only for votes but also for limitation of birth control, reduction of alcohol addiction, and in Canada at least for assimilation into the dominant values on the part of immigrant women. They sought to limit immigration into the West on the basis of race and culture. They generally obtained, with the support of feminist friendly governments, greater property ,social and occupational rights over roughly a 60 year period.
2nd Wave Feminists exploded in resentment following WWII as they challenged ordinary occupations along with Judeo-Christian morality. Where formerly women had gone en masse into male dominated professions only in extreme circumstances either based on class, war or economic necessity, now feminist leaders wanted to have women break into male dominated professions in ordinary peaceful circumstances. They also wanted to undermine family tradition by making it acceptable for women to be publicly known to be having sex out of wedlock, be unmarried with children. This paired up with the libertine Hippie, Beatnik and LGBT movements.
In all the three movements above, the women dominating them and who can be used as strong examples were pioneers, trailblazers, and challengers.
In the 3rd Wave, however, now that the gates are open, the desire is clearly to have feminine values dominate all societies. All ills of society are blamed on patriarchy, and thus on men by proxy. I have never seen even one feminist leader advocate that women should do a better job of moral conduct. It is presumed that women are doing the best they can and simply need to be empowered and freed from patriarchy, while men aid and abet patriarchy. It is men, for example, who are urged to educate themselves about sexual harassment and the glass ceiling.
When people insist that feminists do not see patriarchy as a form of evil, ,and that feminists do not hate men, my response is: nonsense. Of course feminists see patriarchy as evil, and men as evil by proxy. Consider:
1. Patriarchy is presented as the reason for any number of evils exist, from global warming to climate change to pollution to econmic corruption to war to sexual misconduct to domestic violence. Many feminists have insisted that women have had almost nothing to do with power structures that are the cause of such things. Feminists never have anything good to say about history or traditional culture or religion; at best these things have nuggets of goodness in them that feminists claim for their own values.
2. Masculinity is consistently described by feminists as inherently bad. Some feminists do this by trying to get rid of the notion fo gender altogether; others try to do this by describing a form of 'toxic masculinity', attributing wickedness to all things that are traditionally masculine across all civilizations, while lauding as virtuous all things feminine.
3. Feminists frequently publish articles and give lectures, and try to promote policy that demands that male behaviour be curbed and controlled while denouncing any attempt to even discuss curbing female behaviour as evil.
Radical Feminists tend to be honest about all this. I find that other feminists do not want to accept that they see men as the enemy.