Here's my assertion:
I think men and women are raped at approximately equal rates, give or take a few percentage points.
I can't quite prove it yet, but the data is suggestive. Let's go through it.
As you well know by now, the CDC reports that each year approximately as many men are raped as women if one uses a nonsexist definition of rape (unlike them) and include men forced to penetrate women.
Links here:
https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/ ... 2010-a.pdf
https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrht ... ss6308a1_e
https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/ ... rtBook.pdf
We've been over these studies multiple times on NSG. If you need an explanation of the numbers, I can provide links to my old posts and threads.
As you also well know, the only reason that that is not included as rape in the statistical findings is due to the efforts of Mary Koss and her ilk, starting with her 1993 "detecting the scope of rape" study.
http://www.avoiceformalestudents.com/wp ... agraph.pdf
Ok, why is this important? Because our memory sucks, and we tend to remember things in accordance with what society tells us to. Data telling us that men are never raped leads to the following:
http://eprints.lancs.ac.uk/84762/1/Revi ... s_rape.pdf
As such, in their experiences some of the men explicitly documented that they did not report their experience to the police or indeed to anyone else for fear of stigmatisation and disbelief:
...
It’s one thing to deal with the aftereffect of being raped, but it also was a secondary hit for me — oh, you’re a guy, how could you be raped by a woman, that makes no sense … I was afraid to talk to anybody about it because of the stigma I felt I would receive in talking about it (Anderson et al., N.D).
Men KNOW that no one will believe them if they've been raped. Some stay silent and just don't tell anyone for fear of being mocked, but others do this:
Finally, one compelled penetration victim noted how he did not truthfully disclose what had happened, instead framing his experience to others as one that involved consensual sex in order to maintain his masculinity:
At that point, I decided to own it. Because if I owned it, it wasn't embarrassing and it didn't strip me of my masculinity. I had never heard of this happening to anybody else, and researching it online made my problem seem more real to me, which was frightening. Panic flooded me and all I wanted to do was scrub my soul of everything that was demoralising and demasculinising about the experience. My interpretation became consensual sex, and I proclaimed that sex was awesome, even though I had no clue what it felt like at all. I bragged to my neighbors, who could hear her wailing through paper-thin walls. The more I bragged, the more the agony subsided
A re-framing of the event. Here's the thing: if you repeat a lie over and over again for a sufficient timeframe, it BECOMES the truth to you. Our memory is like a telephone game. Also despite being attributed to Joseph Goebbels, he probably never said it, except it's asserted often enough it might become true (which could be the joke).
https://news.northwestern.edu/stories/2 ... phone-game
We can see this effect when it comes to analyzing adult recollections of childhood sexual abuse:
https://www.jimhopper.com/pdf/Widom1997.pdf
It is interesting that less than 1/5 (16%) of men with documented cases of sexual abuse considered their early experiences to be sexual abuse, compared with 64% of the sexually abused women.
So these were men and women with documented cases of sexual abuse. Documented. 36% of women and 84% of men had mentally erased that it was abuse. Both men and women do this, incidentally, but men do at 233% the rate of women. (Normal caveats about small sample size, more research, etc)
What's interesting about that is that a study by David Finkelhor shows 1 in 5 girls and 1 in 20 boys is a victim of childhood sexual abuse.
http://victimsofcrime.org/media/reporti ... statistics
However, if you paste the "forgetting" section into that, you get (20%/64)*100 = 31.25% of girls, and (5%/16)*100 = 31.25% of boys.
And yes, that implies about 1/3 of children, of both genders, suffer sexual abuse. Proof? Not quite. Suggestive, however.
Combine that with the year by year study of adults and you wind up that there's suggestive evidence that men and women suffer sexual abuse at roughly equal rates as children, and suffer rape at roughly equal rates as adults. It's just men erase theirs.
Thoughts, NSG?