Marado wrote:
Number two was a bit off. It's not very common, anyways.
Less than 50% of men have sexual relationships with other men, true or false?
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by Des-Bal » Tue Apr 04, 2017 5:48 am
Marado wrote:
Number two was a bit off. It's not very common, anyways.
Cekoviu wrote:DES-BAL: Introverted, blunt, focused, utilitarian. Hard to read; not verbose online or likely in real life. Places little emphasis on interpersonal relationships, particularly with online strangers for whom the investment would outweigh the returns.
Desired perception: Logical, intellectual
Public perception: Neutral-positive - blunt, cold, logical, skilled at debating
Mindset: Logos
by Forsher » Tue Apr 04, 2017 6:05 am
by Jello Biafra » Tue Apr 04, 2017 6:41 am
Des-Bal wrote:Jello Biafra wrote:Kind of stuck in the middle of the article was the quote "“Not every woman has been harmed by a man she trusted, but every woman KNOWS someone who has,”
Is it typical that when men are the victims of violence from men, they trust these men?
1. It's entirely possible that in the history of the world some man involved with drugs has not been robbed or beaten by someone they considered a friend but I can't attest to ever hearing of it.
2. What are we calling trust? If we're talking about the context of sexual relationships then no, because most men don't have sexual relationships with other men and you're picking at a point that doesn't amount to much.
by Galloism » Tue Apr 04, 2017 7:13 am
Jello Biafra wrote:Tahar Joblis wrote:Why are women so afraid of male anger? asks the article.
The subtitle ends with it's become woven into our DNA. The argument, naturally, has nothing to do with some sort of biologically inherited factor predisposing women to be frightened when men are angry, but claims it is personally and/or culturally obtained by the experience of angry men becoming violent towards women ...
... completely ignoring the fact that angry men become violent towards men significantly more often.
If ... and that's a big if that the article doesn't even consider ... women are more often afraid of angry men than other men are ... then it doesn't have to do with greater experience, either on a personal level or some kind of class-collective level, of male violence.
It either really is related to hard-wired factors (which is not crazy - rats are more scared of male humans than female humans, the subtitle could easily be the most accurate part of the article) or is related to other social-cultural factors, like the fact that the article's author is a feminist and therefore her associates and related Twitter communications network disproportionately subscribe to an ideology that pushes negative stereotyping of men.
Kind of stuck in the middle of the article was the quote "“Not every woman has been harmed by a man she trusted, but every woman KNOWS someone who has,”
Is it typical that when men are the victims of violence from men, they trust these men?
by Des-Bal » Tue Apr 04, 2017 7:28 am
Jello Biafra wrote:A family member or close friend would presumably be someone a person trusts.
Cekoviu wrote:DES-BAL: Introverted, blunt, focused, utilitarian. Hard to read; not verbose online or likely in real life. Places little emphasis on interpersonal relationships, particularly with online strangers for whom the investment would outweigh the returns.
Desired perception: Logical, intellectual
Public perception: Neutral-positive - blunt, cold, logical, skilled at debating
Mindset: Logos
by Jello Biafra » Tue Apr 04, 2017 7:40 am
Galloism wrote:Uh...
Probably, yeah. Also men they don't trust, but given men are an order of magnitude more likely to experience being a victim of violence in general, that's not unexpected.
Des-Bal wrote:Jello Biafra wrote:A family member or close friend would presumably be someone a person trusts.
I'd say yes. Even when you allow for the fact that there's a big class of relationships that most men just don't have with other men I'd wager that just about every man knows someone whose been hurt by a man they trusted but who knows how much of that is just because men are overwhelmingly more likely to be victims of violence.
by Des-Bal » Tue Apr 04, 2017 7:46 am
Jello Biafra wrote:Would either of you personally say that you know a man who's been physically hurt by a man he trusted?
Cekoviu wrote:DES-BAL: Introverted, blunt, focused, utilitarian. Hard to read; not verbose online or likely in real life. Places little emphasis on interpersonal relationships, particularly with online strangers for whom the investment would outweigh the returns.
Desired perception: Logical, intellectual
Public perception: Neutral-positive - blunt, cold, logical, skilled at debating
Mindset: Logos
by Marado » Tue Apr 04, 2017 8:24 am
Jello Biafra wrote:Galloism wrote:Uh...
Probably, yeah. Also men they don't trust, but given men are an order of magnitude more likely to experience being a victim of violence in general, that's not unexpected.Des-Bal wrote:
I'd say yes. Even when you allow for the fact that there's a big class of relationships that most men just don't have with other men I'd wager that just about every man knows someone whose been hurt by a man they trusted but who knows how much of that is just because men are overwhelmingly more likely to be victims of violence.
Would either of you say that you personally know a man who's been physically hurt by a man he trusted?
by Galloism » Tue Apr 04, 2017 8:27 am
Jello Biafra wrote:Galloism wrote:Uh...
Probably, yeah. Also men they don't trust, but given men are an order of magnitude more likely to experience being a victim of violence in general, that's not unexpected.Des-Bal wrote:
I'd say yes. Even when you allow for the fact that there's a big class of relationships that most men just don't have with other men I'd wager that just about every man knows someone whose been hurt by a man they trusted but who knows how much of that is just because men are overwhelmingly more likely to be victims of violence.
Would either of you say that you personally know a man who's been physically hurt by a man he trusted?
by Marado » Tue Apr 04, 2017 8:50 am
Corsahnim wrote:Isn't feminism supposed to stand for the EQUAL RIGHTS AND OPPORTUNITIES of both MEN AND WOMEN in society, rather than empowering one gender and forgetting the other, regardless of the advantages and disadvantages that such equality would have for either gender?
by Galloism » Tue Apr 04, 2017 8:55 am
Marado wrote:Corsahnim wrote:Isn't feminism supposed to stand for the EQUAL RIGHTS AND OPPORTUNITIES of both MEN AND WOMEN in society, rather than empowering one gender and forgetting the other, regardless of the advantages and disadvantages that such equality would have for either gender?
That's the fundamental aspect of it, for sure.
by Luminesa » Tue Apr 04, 2017 10:08 am
Jello Biafra wrote:Galloism wrote:Uh...
Probably, yeah. Also men they don't trust, but given men are an order of magnitude more likely to experience being a victim of violence in general, that's not unexpected.Des-Bal wrote:
I'd say yes. Even when you allow for the fact that there's a big class of relationships that most men just don't have with other men I'd wager that just about every man knows someone whose been hurt by a man they trusted but who knows how much of that is just because men are overwhelmingly more likely to be victims of violence.
Would either of you say that you personally know a man who's been physically hurt by a man he trusted?
by Galloism » Tue Apr 04, 2017 10:13 am
by New Edom » Tue Apr 04, 2017 10:30 am
Jello Biafra wrote:Tahar Joblis wrote:Why are women so afraid of male anger? asks the article.
The subtitle ends with it's become woven into our DNA. The argument, naturally, has nothing to do with some sort of biologically inherited factor predisposing women to be frightened when men are angry, but claims it is personally and/or culturally obtained by the experience of angry men becoming violent towards women ...
... completely ignoring the fact that angry men become violent towards men significantly more often.
If ... and that's a big if that the article doesn't even consider ... women are more often afraid of angry men than other men are ... then it doesn't have to do with greater experience, either on a personal level or some kind of class-collective level, of male violence.
It either really is related to hard-wired factors (which is not crazy - rats are more scared of male humans than female humans, the subtitle could easily be the most accurate part of the article) or is related to other social-cultural factors, like the fact that the article's author is a feminist and therefore her associates and related Twitter communications network disproportionately subscribe to an ideology that pushes negative stereotyping of men.
Kind of stuck in the middle of the article was the quote "“Not every woman has been harmed by a man she trusted, but every woman KNOWS someone who has,”
Is it typical that when men are the victims of violence from men, they trust these men?
by New Edom » Tue Apr 04, 2017 12:37 pm
by Jello Biafra » Tue Apr 04, 2017 6:27 pm
by Jello Biafra » Tue Apr 04, 2017 6:29 pm
New Edom wrote:You didn't see my resposne to TJ? What I pointed out is that as women have entered public life, they had to deal with the fact that men deal with issues differently from women, but it's like they can't get a clue, and like the men who are protective towards women cannot either.
All the things women worry about--being demeaned, being victimized, etc, men worry about too. The difference is that men are always taught that they need to be resourceful about it, and that they need to build laws that make things fair. That's about it. So for example a small man being bullied by a bigger man? The little guy is supposed to overcome that. This is why we have heroes like Luke Skywalker, Marty McFly, Peter Parker and of course the stories of David vs. Goliath and the Greek hero Theseus. Even if a guy isn't as tough as his neighbors, he should find some way--quickness, cleverness, etc--to overcome it.
By contrast, any woman, however athletic, who is attacked or threatened by a man is a victim according to feminism. This is really evoking women's privilege of being protected by her society. In the West that principle (contrary to feminist lies) is held sacred. So the fear she talks about is nonsense--men generally feel EXACTLY the same fears but have been educated from a young age to deal with it. However this woman, like many other feminists, wants to be treated chivalrously AND have total equality.
I reject her view entirely. Women in the West either need to grow the hell up or go back in the kitchen.
by New Edom » Tue Apr 04, 2017 6:50 pm
Jello Biafra wrote:New Edom wrote:You didn't see my resposne to TJ? What I pointed out is that as women have entered public life, they had to deal with the fact that men deal with issues differently from women, but it's like they can't get a clue, and like the men who are protective towards women cannot either.
All the things women worry about--being demeaned, being victimized, etc, men worry about too. The difference is that men are always taught that they need to be resourceful about it, and that they need to build laws that make things fair. That's about it. So for example a small man being bullied by a bigger man? The little guy is supposed to overcome that. This is why we have heroes like Luke Skywalker, Marty McFly, Peter Parker and of course the stories of David vs. Goliath and the Greek hero Theseus. Even if a guy isn't as tough as his neighbors, he should find some way--quickness, cleverness, etc--to overcome it.
By contrast, any woman, however athletic, who is attacked or threatened by a man is a victim according to feminism. This is really evoking women's privilege of being protected by her society. In the West that principle (contrary to feminist lies) is held sacred. So the fear she talks about is nonsense--men generally feel EXACTLY the same fears but have been educated from a young age to deal with it. However this woman, like many other feminists, wants to be treated chivalrously AND have total equality.
I reject her view entirely. Women in the West either need to grow the hell up or go back in the kitchen.
So it isn't reasonable to say that people should stop demeaning, victimizing, etc. other people altogether?
by Galloism » Tue Apr 04, 2017 7:37 pm
Jello Biafra wrote:Luminesa wrote:This happens all the time. Do you doubt that men can be hurt by other men the same way women can be hurt by men?
The male/male violence I'm most familiar with is gang violence or violence similar to that - peer/peer. Of course men can be hurt by other men, but what I've seen it mostly wasn't men that they trusted.
by Germanic Templars » Tue Apr 04, 2017 10:53 pm
Reatra wrote:So what's the thread's thoughts on socialism and the like?
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