The Twilight Embassy wrote:Women are not "taxed" more for the "same" product; they are punished for not choosing the better, more feminine, product. I would very much love to see the folks arguing that "the women tax is female privilege and therefore proof patriarchy isn't real uwu" try to get a job someplace as a woman that doesn't fit society's narrow and paradoxical standards of beauty. No makeup or too much makeup, too thin or too fat or too "Hollywood Pudgy", simultaneously "too woke" and too problematic, too pale yet not caucasian enough, etc.
I work in just such a place. And the last place I worked was such a place. And the place before that. The one before that had weight standards, but they applied to both men and women, because it was hard to do your job of chasing down criminals if you weren't at least marginally fit.
Men are not being punished through stigmatization for seeking higher social status through femininity; they are being punished through stigmatization for seeking higher social status "the wrong way" (through femininity rather than through white supremacy, rape culture, and being a horrible person in general).
Rather, they're punished for seeking higher social status without personally sacrificing for society by inventing something or becoming a business titan or something like that. They are "cheating", as you would refer to it, by trying to seek social status that women get by default, instead of social status they have to earn by contributing to society.
The fascist status quo society we live in wants men to be powerful and in-charge but also ugly, miserable, disposable, jaded, masculine and evil. It wants women to fit narrow, unrealistic, paradoxical standards of not just beauty but of femininity, optimism, morality and enlightenment that makes them "better and more worthy of life then everyone else." Everyone who can't meet either standard (people of color, poor people) are exterminated/enslaved, and people who don't want to meet the standard set out for them (children, feminine men and masculine women, transgender people in general but especially trans women) are considered acceptable targets to be beaten and r*ped into submission, with higher social status rewarded to the white man or white woman that commits the atrocity.
Notably, transgender women are more acceptable targets because the people who hate them view them as aberrant men, and men are more acceptable targets for violence. Transgender men on the other hand are viewed by people who hate them as women, and women are less acceptable targets for violence.
While men and women both can and do suffer violence, men suffer a lot more, and transwomen are viewed as men by such persons while transmen are viewed as women, hence the disparate treatment of violence.