Xeng He wrote:Galloism wrote:So men work 62 hours per week to support the household while women work 61 hours per week to support the household? They need an extra hour to do every week so they spend one hour per week filing for divorce?
I can see why women would want to be doing more paid work considering that paid is what has opportunities for advancement. You'd also have to see how it came about that women mostly stepped out of the workforce. Were these conversations they had, or automatic? Whose needs were more respected in the conversation, etc.
Ultimately we need more stay-at-home dad representation, that doesn't demean them.
We do, to your latter point.
One thing that happens a lot (and may be a major factor) is that men are punished much more harshly for taking time off work for family than women are. Also, men are typically older in the relationship (women tend to prefer older more established men, men tend to prefer younger more attractive women), and age and earnings are very positively correlated.
Therefore, for each family, the most rational thing is to sacrifice the earnings of the lower earning spouse - which is typically the woman.
I’m not sure how you fix that, tbh.