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by El-Amin Caliphate » Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:32 pm
Kubumba Tribe wrote:http://www.islamicperspectives.com/quran-4-34.htm:
"If even suspension of sexual relations fails to work, then it is suggested that men use dharb. This word has almost universally been translated here as "beating". Such a translation is supported by some passages in the Qur'an where the word does mean smiting or striking (2:60, 61, 73, 8:12, 50, 7:160 etc). But in many other Qur'anic passages there are other meanings of the word. Thus the word can mean constructing or coining something such as coining mathal or similitude (14:24, 16:75-76, 30:28, 36:27 etc). The word is also used to separate two things. In 20:77 it is used of the splitting of the sea to make a way for the children of Israel to escape and in 57:13 it is used of making a wall to separate the two groups of people in the hereafter. Leaving, withdrawing or taking away is the meaning in 43:5. In 13:17 the word is used of separating truth and falsehood. The word can also mean campaigning or traveling in the land, e.g., for the purpose of trade (2:273, 73:20)."
So 4:34 may or may not mean "beat your wives (lightly)". Also, there's a lot of Hadith verses about Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) decrying wife beating. But there's also some where he (SAWS) said "don't be harsh when beating", and it shouldn't be a 'beating' in the first place.
Allah’s statement,
وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ
“…beat them…”
means, if advice and ignoring her in the bed do not produce the desired results, you are allowed to discipline the wife, without severe beating.
Muslim recorded that Jabir said that during the Farewell Hajj, the Prophet sallallahu aalyhi wa sallam said;
وَاتَّقُوا اللهَ فِي النِّسَاءِ، فَإِنَّهُنَّ عِنْدَكُمْ عَوَانٍ، وَلَكُمْ عَلَيْهِنَّ أَنْ لَا يُوطِئْنَ فُرُشَكُمْ أَحَدًا تَكْرَهُونَهُ،فَإِنْ فَعَلْنَ ذَلِكَ فَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ ضَرْبًا غَيْرَ مُبَرِحٍ، وَلَهُنَّ عَلَيْكُمْ رِزْقُهُنَّ وَكِسْوَتُهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوف
“Fear Allah regarding women, for they are your assistants. You have the right on them that they do not allow any person whom you dislike to step on your mat. However, if they do that, you are allowed to discipline them lightly. They have a right on you that you provide them with their provision and clothes, in a reasonable manner.”
Ibn Abbas and several others said that the Ayah refers to a beating that is not violent. Al-Hasan Al-Basri said that it means, a beating that is not severe.
Mujahidah wrote:Kubumba Tribe wrote:-snip-
I think it is perfectly sensible to translate 'dharb' in the sense of separation, rather than beating. The culture of the Arabian peninsula prior to Islam was one in which women were mightily mistreated, and Islam very clearly sought to change that (hence why the consent of a woman to marriage is so important). Condoning beatings - which were a part of the previously mentioned mistreatment - would not fit with the rest of the religion. Separating (I don't mean this in the colloquial sense as a synonym for divorce) oneself from a spouse you are arguing with, however, is a perfectly sensible and non-abusive measure.
https://americanvision.org/948/theonomy-vs-theocracy/ wrote:God’s law cannot govern a nation where God’s law does not rule in the hearts of the people
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by The Parkus Empire » Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:39 pm
Mujahidah wrote:The Parkus Empire wrote:I personally don't think seperation or refusing sex to a spouse to coerce them is a good idea.
This belongs in the IDT, but you wouldn't see it if I quoted it over there, so I'll just reply here.
I wouldn't say its coercion. If a couple are having such a disagreement as to invoke anger, I would say temporary separation is rather healthy. Anger isn't conducive to conflict resolution and separation can let tempers cool.

by Mujahidah » Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:39 pm
The Parkus Empire wrote:Mujahidah wrote:
This belongs in the IDT, but you wouldn't see it if I quoted it over there, so I'll just reply here.
I wouldn't say its coercion. If a couple are having such a disagreement as to invoke anger, I would say temporary separation is rather healthy. Anger isn't conducive to conflict resolution and separation can let tempers cool.
The best way to cool tempers is complete forgiveness.
The Parkus Empire wrote:To paraphrase my hero, Richard Nixon: she's pink right down to her hijab.
The Parkus Empire wrote:I misjudged you, you are much more smarter than I gave you credit for.
Northern Davincia wrote:Can we engrave this in a plaque?
The Parkus Empire wrote:I am not sure I'm entirely comfortable with a woman being this well informed, but I'll try not to judge.
The Parkus Empire wrote:Ah, m'lady, if I were a heathen I'd wed thee four times

by The Parkus Empire » Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:47 pm

by Mujahidah » Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:47 pm
The Parkus Empire wrote:Mujahidah wrote:
Sadly people who are angry aren't thinking quite clearly....
No, but I don't think (coming from my religious perspective) it's right to kick a spouse out in anger. I would say it is sin, because God forgives us for much, and we are in turn called to forgive. If you are praying several times a day and know it is wrong to pray without forgiving all done against you first, then how would you pray?
The Parkus Empire wrote:To paraphrase my hero, Richard Nixon: she's pink right down to her hijab.
The Parkus Empire wrote:I misjudged you, you are much more smarter than I gave you credit for.
Northern Davincia wrote:Can we engrave this in a plaque?
The Parkus Empire wrote:I am not sure I'm entirely comfortable with a woman being this well informed, but I'll try not to judge.
The Parkus Empire wrote:Ah, m'lady, if I were a heathen I'd wed thee four times

by El-Amin Caliphate » Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:48 pm
This does not mean that a man should resort to these three measures all at once, but that they may be employed if a wife adopts an attitude of obstinate defiance. So far as the actual application of these measures is concerned, there should, naturally, be some correspondence between the fault and the punishment that is administered. Moreover, it is obvious that wherever a light touch can prove effective.one should not resort to sterner measures. Whenever the Prophet (peace be on him) permitted a man to administer corporal punishment to his wife, he did so with reluctance, and continued to express his distaste for it. And even in cases where it is necessary, the Prophet (peace be on him) directed men not to hit across the face, nor to beat severely nor to use anything that might leave marks on the body. (See Ibn Majah, 'Nikah', 3 - Ed.)
https://americanvision.org/948/theonomy-vs-theocracy/ wrote:God’s law cannot govern a nation where God’s law does not rule in the hearts of the people
Plaetopia wrote:Partly Free / Hybrid regime (score 4-6) El-Amin Caliphate (5.33)

by The South Falls » Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:48 pm

by El-Amin Caliphate » Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:51 pm
The South Falls wrote:This thread is most likely filled with this type of preachiness, but people say that "all x are y" when they're angry. This manifests into all people who practice Islam are:
1. Terrorists
2. Bombmakers
3. Illegal Immigrants
4. People who should be banned.
They are people too. There are more white people that kill others in hate crimes, than Muslims killing people in acts of terrorism. The few incidents, and the number killed in those few, make Muslims seem demonic, so whites get on their case. blaming them for this nation's problems.
https://americanvision.org/948/theonomy-vs-theocracy/ wrote:God’s law cannot govern a nation where God’s law does not rule in the hearts of the people
Plaetopia wrote:Partly Free / Hybrid regime (score 4-6) El-Amin Caliphate (5.33)

by The Parkus Empire » Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:52 pm
Mujahidah wrote:The Parkus Empire wrote:No, but I don't think (coming from my religious perspective) it's right to kick a spouse out in anger. I would say it is sin, because God forgives us for much, and we are in turn called to forgive. If you are praying several times a day and know it is wrong to pray without forgiving all done against you first, then how would you pray?
Thats not what I meant by separation, exactly.

by The South Falls » Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:56 pm
El-Amin Caliphate wrote:The South Falls wrote:This thread is most likely filled with this type of preachiness, but people say that "all x are y" when they're angry. This manifests into all people who practice Islam are:
1. Terrorists
2. Bombmakers
3. Illegal Immigrants
4. People who should be banned.
They are people too. There are more white people that kill others in hate crimes, than Muslims killing people in acts of terrorism. The few incidents, and the number killed in those few, make Muslims seem demonic, so whites get on their case. blaming them for this nation's problems.
Some people say this because they actually truly do believe it.

by El-Amin Caliphate » Fri Mar 23, 2018 5:03 pm
https://americanvision.org/948/theonomy-vs-theocracy/ wrote:God’s law cannot govern a nation where God’s law does not rule in the hearts of the people
Plaetopia wrote:Partly Free / Hybrid regime (score 4-6) El-Amin Caliphate (5.33)

by Unit 23 » Fri Mar 23, 2018 5:27 pm

by El-Amin Caliphate » Fri Mar 23, 2018 5:35 pm
Unit 23 wrote:I'd like to know what "galvanizes" the Islamic belief. As far as I know it's due to the concept that Allah is part of everyone. If I believed this I would probably feel like my actions were validated by a higher order.
https://americanvision.org/948/theonomy-vs-theocracy/ wrote:God’s law cannot govern a nation where God’s law does not rule in the hearts of the people
Plaetopia wrote:Partly Free / Hybrid regime (score 4-6) El-Amin Caliphate (5.33)

by Unit 23 » Fri Mar 23, 2018 5:45 pm

by El-Amin Caliphate » Fri Mar 23, 2018 5:47 pm
Unit 23 wrote:But that's not true.
The early Islamic teachers reconciled Aritotle's logic by assuming that the One was also the human, that the two are indistinct, being that in order for something to be caused it requires a causer, and that Allah is the cause. Because Allah is the cause, he is therefore also part of humanity, meaning our actions are also the cause of Allah, by distinction of causal ontology. Metaphysically, it's a monistic position. There is one substance, and it is Allah, the one eternal and universal truth, and we are children of Allah.
Am I mistaken?
https://americanvision.org/948/theonomy-vs-theocracy/ wrote:God’s law cannot govern a nation where God’s law does not rule in the hearts of the people
Plaetopia wrote:Partly Free / Hybrid regime (score 4-6) El-Amin Caliphate (5.33)

by El-Amin Caliphate » Fri Mar 23, 2018 5:51 pm
Unit 23 wrote:The "Will of the Creator", which made the world, wasn't part of Allah?
Where else was he?
https://americanvision.org/948/theonomy-vs-theocracy/ wrote:God’s law cannot govern a nation where God’s law does not rule in the hearts of the people
Plaetopia wrote:Partly Free / Hybrid regime (score 4-6) El-Amin Caliphate (5.33)

by El-Amin Caliphate » Fri Mar 23, 2018 5:51 pm
https://americanvision.org/948/theonomy-vs-theocracy/ wrote:God’s law cannot govern a nation where God’s law does not rule in the hearts of the people
Plaetopia wrote:Partly Free / Hybrid regime (score 4-6) El-Amin Caliphate (5.33)

by El-Amin Caliphate » Fri Mar 23, 2018 5:53 pm
Painisia wrote:What do you all think about the Boko Haram?
https://americanvision.org/948/theonomy-vs-theocracy/ wrote:God’s law cannot govern a nation where God’s law does not rule in the hearts of the people
Plaetopia wrote:Partly Free / Hybrid regime (score 4-6) El-Amin Caliphate (5.33)
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