Cekoviu wrote:Khasinkonia wrote:After much emotional bludgeoning I’ve been able to just start seeing a psychiatrist but I still feel like my father’s just “humouring” me while my mother has, according to my brother(who I recently came out to), prayed to “cure” me and does not believe I’m trans but rather corrupted by my supportive friends. I just pray my psychiatrist will understand what’s going on and help me out.
Oh, so at least you're
out at home. That's a thing.
Some psychiatrists with whom I've interacted have been supportive, but clumsy because they haven't interacted with many trans people in the past. Does it feel that way with your current psychiatrist, or do they have experience with trans people (or a holistic give-and-take practice, where the psychiatrist tries to learn from you as well even if they're unfamiliar)?
She specialises in dealing with trans people, although usually her patients are 17-18 and “sure”. I think she’ll be more firmly supportive when we’ve met more and she understands that saying I’m “as certain as I can possibly be” is a scientific yes. She’s fairly no-nonsense so hopefully once I get my mother more out of the way we can try and move forward, as she did mention going to see an endocrinologist as a possibility in the future.
Thuzbekistan wrote:Western Vale Confederacy wrote:How the hell does one believe that it is a "corruption"?
"He was a good boy! Now hes an evil person just wanting to be happy in his own skin! The devil has risen! Lord help us all!"
Edit: I havent read enough of the thread to know if they are a MTF or otherwise, so I dont mean to misgender. I do apologize if it comes off that way.
I’m MtF, but gendering when I’m only partially out is such a mess at this point anything will suffice as long as it’s subject to become she/her in the future.
Grenartia wrote:Western Vale Confederacy wrote:How the hell does one believe that it is a "corruption"?
Its a pretty recent, but shockingly common belief, especially in religious and TERF circles. I believe the term is "social contagion", at least in the more secular circles, but the more fundamentalist ones probably chalk it up to demonic possession.
Basically, I have supportive friends, therefore I’m being pressured into being trans.
Western Vale Confederacy wrote:Grenartia wrote:Its a pretty recent, but shockingly common belief, especially in religious and TERF circles. I believe the term is "social contagion", at least in the more secular circles, but the more fundamentalist ones probably chalk it up to demonic possession.
We are all influenced by our family, friends and trends to an extent, but they are usually never the cause.
Bingo. Supportive friends were a pleasant surprise that have helped me advocate for myself; not the cause of my desire to advocate for myself.