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Transgender Discussion Thread III: Vote in our poll!

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Trans Men Are Not Women
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24%
Anti-Cistamines
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10%
Please Don't Deadnaming Eve
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3%
Is This Destroying My Free Speech
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8%
We Know More About This Than You
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11%
HRT And Crumpets
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27%
Pro-Nouns & Anti-Verbs
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16%
 
Total votes : 97

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Postby Farnhamia » Mon Mar 11, 2019 7:52 pm

Nagatar Karumuttu Chettiar wrote:Transgender is a disease called Gender Dysphoria. Transgender suicide rates are 36% higher than normal suicide rates, and that doesn't change even in communities which are open to people inflicted by it. It is a mental disorder just like being born a hermaphrodite is a physical deformity.

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Postby Auzkhia » Mon Mar 11, 2019 7:55 pm

Anyway, I bought some clothes, a dress, some skirts, and an undershirt. I'm adding feminine clothes to my mix, yet my mother is expecting I perform some strict androgyny and gender neutrality. It's like some cis people hold trans people to some strict conformity and be hyper conforming and doubt you if you play around with gender expression like I do, and it really says when most people imagine gender neutral as something that's a bit masculine.
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Postby Western Vale Confederacy » Mon Mar 11, 2019 7:55 pm

Y’know, even in the event that transgenderism was a mental condition...

Wouldn’t transition be the cure to it? Why deny it?

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Postby Auzkhia » Mon Mar 11, 2019 7:58 pm

Western Vale Confederacy wrote:Y’know, even in the event that transgenderism was a mental condition...

Wouldn’t transition be the cure to it? Why deny it?

DSM-V says gender dysphoria, not being trans, is the mental condition, and it is broadly defined, not 100% of trans people have it, it's not a requirement, I was not aware of what I feel until started transitioning, it's hard to tell in most cases.

And yes, the best way to relieve gender dysphoria is to transition, any credible therapist will tell you that. Only reason not to? They're cranks trying to continue the repression of trans people, especially kids and youth.
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Postby Nagatar Karumuttu Chettiar » Mon Mar 11, 2019 8:58 pm

Valrifell wrote:
Nagatar Karumuttu Chettiar wrote:Transgender is a disease called Gender Dysphoria. Transgender suicide rates are 36% higher than normal suicide rates, and that doesn't change even in communities which are open to people inflicted by it. It is a mental disorder just like being born a hermaphrodite is a physical deformity.


The suicide rate is significantly higher for trans folk because they often deal with intense social pressure due to a part of themselves they could never really help. Quite frankly, it's people with mindsets not dissimilar to yours that are perpetuating the atmosphere that leads to trans people not feeling safe and secure emotionally or physically.

I care tremendously about trans people. I want them to get the help they need to sort out and resolve their gender dysphoria.
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Postby Valrifell » Mon Mar 11, 2019 9:00 pm

Nagatar Karumuttu Chettiar wrote:
Valrifell wrote:
The suicide rate is significantly higher for trans folk because they often deal with intense social pressure due to a part of themselves they could never really help. Quite frankly, it's people with mindsets not dissimilar to yours that are perpetuating the atmosphere that leads to trans people not feeling safe and secure emotionally or physically.

I care tremendously about trans people. I want them to get the help they need to sort out and resolve their gender dysphoria.


Then you ought to support and accept their transition since it's the best treatment as others have noted.
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Postby Nagatar Karumuttu Chettiar » Mon Mar 11, 2019 9:15 pm

Valrifell wrote:
Nagatar Karumuttu Chettiar wrote:I care tremendously about trans people. I want them to get the help they need to sort out and resolve their gender dysphoria.


Then you ought to support and accept their transition since it's the best treatment as others have noted.

Accepting them as outside the gender binary has been proven to change nothing about suicide rates and there are multiple examples of counseling solving Gender Dysphoria.
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Postby Kowani » Mon Mar 11, 2019 9:18 pm

Nagatar Karumuttu Chettiar wrote:
Valrifell wrote:
Then you ought to support and accept their transition since it's the best treatment as others have noted.

Accepting them as outside the gender binary has been proven to change nothing about suicide rates and there are multiple examples of counseling solving Gender Dysphoria.

Citation needed.
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Postby WENDIP SHIPPER » Mon Mar 11, 2019 10:10 pm

There are some transgender men and women who freeze their eggs and sperm before transitioning. It's a hard decision to make because insurance companies often don't cover these types of things and the trans men and women who undergo such things end up having to pay teens of thousands of dollars out of pocket.

I know that not every trans person wants to start a family but I thougt it was worth mentioning as another example of anti trans discrimination.

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Postby Western Vale Confederacy » Mon Mar 11, 2019 11:43 pm

WENDIP SHIPPER wrote:There are some transgender men and women who freeze their eggs and sperm before transitioning. It's a hard decision to make because insurance companies often don't cover these types of things and the trans men and women who undergo such things end up having to pay teens of thousands of dollars out of pocket.

I know that not every trans person wants to start a family but I thougt it was worth mentioning as another example of anti trans discrimination.


Insurance companies screws us all equally, to be frank.

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Postby Vassenor » Tue Mar 12, 2019 12:44 am

Nagatar Karumuttu Chettiar wrote:
Valrifell wrote:
Then you ought to support and accept their transition since it's the best treatment as others have noted.

Accepting them as outside the gender binary has been proven to change nothing about suicide rates and there are multiple examples of counseling solving Gender Dysphoria.


Science disagrees with you there.
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Postby Western Vale Confederacy » Tue Mar 12, 2019 12:50 am

Vassenor wrote:
Nagatar Karumuttu Chettiar wrote:Accepting them as outside the gender binary has been proven to change nothing about suicide rates and there are multiple examples of counseling solving Gender Dysphoria.


Science disagrees with you there.


I don’t think a study is necessary to figure out that acceptance usually leads to people not wanting to fucking kill themselves as much.

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Postby Vassenor » Tue Mar 12, 2019 12:59 am

Western Vale Confederacy wrote:


I don’t think a study is necessary to figure out that acceptance usually leads to people not wanting to fucking kill themselves as much.


When someone says that a thing has been proven, it's always nice to be able to show that what was actually proven was the exact opposite.
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Postby ELwurd » Tue Mar 12, 2019 11:19 am

Vassenor wrote:
Western Vale Confederacy wrote:
I don’t think a study is necessary to figure out that acceptance usually leads to people not wanting to fucking kill themselves as much.


When someone says that a thing has been proven, it's always nice to be able to show that what was actually proven was the exact opposite.


it's legitimately one of the most hilarious tropes on the internet and right-wingers keep falling into it

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Postby Imperio Centroamericano » Tue Mar 12, 2019 11:37 am

Hormone replacement therapy should be made as widely available and affordable as possible for all transgender people wishing to transition, and it should be a much simpler, faster process for trans people to change their names if they wish. Also, they should be able to use the restroom of the gender they identify as (not their assigned gender) if they so choose. Parents who intentionally deadname and/or misgender their children should be charged with child abuse.
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Postby Auzkhia » Tue Mar 12, 2019 3:06 pm

Imperio Centroamericano wrote:Hormone replacement therapy should be made as widely available and affordable as possible for all transgender people wishing to transition, and it should be a much simpler, faster process for trans people to change their names if they wish. Also, they should be able to use the restroom of the gender they identify as (not their assigned gender) if they so choose. Parents who intentionally deadname and/or misgender their children should be charged with child abuse.

100% agreed, friendo!
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Postby Vassenor » Tue Mar 12, 2019 3:09 pm

Meanwhile I'm trying to figure out exactly where my body confidence and positivity went today.

And yes I know I'm doing myself no favours.
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Postby Thuzbekistan » Tue Mar 12, 2019 5:11 pm

Vassenor wrote:Meanwhile I'm trying to figure out exactly where my body confidence and positivity went today.

And yes I know I'm doing myself no favours.


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Postby Neutraligon » Tue Mar 12, 2019 5:40 pm

Vassenor wrote:Meanwhile I'm trying to figure out exactly where my body confidence and positivity went today.

And yes I know I'm doing myself no favours.

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Postby Serrus » Tue Mar 12, 2019 6:35 pm

Neutraligon wrote:
Vassenor wrote:Meanwhile I'm trying to figure out exactly where my body confidence and positivity went today.

And yes I know I'm doing myself no favours.

...I want to have your butt.

If I had room I would sig that.
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Postby Khasinkonia » Tue Mar 12, 2019 6:54 pm

Vassenor wrote:Meanwhile I'm trying to figure out exactly where my body confidence and positivity went today.

And yes I know I'm doing myself no favours.

Aye, jumpsuits treat nobody well, but I think you managed to pull it off pretty well.

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Postby Cekoviu » Tue Mar 12, 2019 7:02 pm

Nagatar Karumuttu Chettiar wrote:
Valrifell wrote:
Then you ought to support and accept their transition since it's the best treatment as others have noted.

Accepting them as outside the gender binary has been proven to change nothing about suicide rates and there are multiple examples of counseling solving Gender Dysphoria.

If you think every trans person is nonbinary, you have zero credentials to be speaking here. It shows that you have no knowledge of what you're talking about.
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Postby Yagon » Tue Mar 12, 2019 7:07 pm

Nagatar Karumuttu Chettiar wrote:
Valrifell wrote:
Then you ought to support and accept their transition since it's the best treatment as others have noted.

Accepting them as outside the gender binary has been proven to change nothing about suicide rates and there are multiple examples of counseling solving Gender Dysphoria.


You sound like Admiral General Alladeen in Cohen's "The Dictator" when his friend explains in fact that some members of Menudo named him specifically in their suicide notes. "That's a rumor, you're being silly".

Many of the dead ones left posted indication that rejection by their families was a principal factor in their deaths.

I do not have the wisdom or life experience to judge the dead, but the pain and rejection and loss and sorrow and isolation of your own family considering you somehow abhorrent or "of the devil" makes it easier to hate yourself.

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Postby Khasinkonia » Tue Mar 12, 2019 7:16 pm

Yagon wrote:
Nagatar Karumuttu Chettiar wrote:Accepting them as outside the gender binary has been proven to change nothing about suicide rates and there are multiple examples of counseling solving Gender Dysphoria.


You sound like Admiral General Alladeen in Cohen's "The Dictator" when his friend explains in fact that some members of Menudo named him specifically in their suicide notes. "That's a rumor, you're being silly".

Many of the dead ones left posted indication that rejection by their families was a principal factor in their deaths.

I do not have the wisdom or life experience to judge the dead, but the pain and rejection and loss and sorrow and isolation of your own family considering you somehow abhorrent or "of the devil" makes it easier to hate yourself.

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Postby Auzkhia » Tue Mar 12, 2019 9:05 pm

Cekoviu wrote:
Nagatar Karumuttu Chettiar wrote:Accepting them as outside the gender binary has been proven to change nothing about suicide rates and there are multiple examples of counseling solving Gender Dysphoria.

If you think every trans person is nonbinary, you have zero credentials to be speaking here. It shows that you have no knowledge of what you're talking about.

A lot of people treat transgender like a third gender, it's weird, and it's not mutually exclusive with male or female.
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