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by Khasinkonia » Tue Feb 26, 2019 2:31 pm
by DiscussionPuppet » Tue Feb 26, 2019 7:53 pm
by Cekoviu » Tue Feb 26, 2019 8:13 pm
Khasinkonia wrote:Frankly, I despise being closeted above all things. I just need to vent some, but it’s been over 2 years that I’ve been trying to wriggle out from this bloody closet and there’s no escape until college at this rate. I want this puberty to stop now, and I want to at least grasp at something more than a pathetic reflection of my true self in my social presentation and interaction. This is a vent but still, I’m frankly getting rather desperate, and very impatient.
by Khasinkonia » Tue Feb 26, 2019 8:55 pm
Cekoviu wrote:Khasinkonia wrote:Frankly, I despise being closeted above all things. I just need to vent some, but it’s been over 2 years that I’ve been trying to wriggle out from this bloody closet and there’s no escape until college at this rate. I want this puberty to stop now, and I want to at least grasp at something more than a pathetic reflection of my true self in my social presentation and interaction. This is a vent but still, I’m frankly getting rather desperate, and very impatient.
I get that. I spent several years in the closet and then started spiraling until I ended up revealing it after a ton of prodding. But the problem is that you aren't in a supportive environment IIRC, which really sucks. I can't offer you any advice really, I can just sympathize.
by Cekoviu » Tue Feb 26, 2019 9:31 pm
Khasinkonia wrote:Cekoviu wrote:I get that. I spent several years in the closet and then started spiraling until I ended up revealing it after a ton of prodding. But the problem is that you aren't in a supportive environment IIRC, which really sucks. I can't offer you any advice really, I can just sympathize.
After much emotional bludgeoning I’ve been able to just start seeing a psychiatrist but I still feel like my father’s just “humouring” me while my mother has, according to my brother(who I recently came out to), prayed to “cure” me and does not believe I’m trans but rather corrupted by my supportive friends. I just pray my psychiatrist will understand what’s going on and help me out.
by Grenartia » Tue Feb 26, 2019 10:37 pm
DiscussionPuppet wrote:How can I get the courage to email my teacher and tell my friend? I keep running away from it even though I really do want to tell them.
by Western Vale Confederacy » Tue Feb 26, 2019 10:42 pm
Khasinkonia wrote:Cekoviu wrote:I get that. I spent several years in the closet and then started spiraling until I ended up revealing it after a ton of prodding. But the problem is that you aren't in a supportive environment IIRC, which really sucks. I can't offer you any advice really, I can just sympathize.
After much emotional bludgeoning I’ve been able to just start seeing a psychiatrist but I still feel like my father’s just “humouring” me while my mother has, according to my brother(who I recently came out to), prayed to “cure” me and does not believe I’m trans but rather corrupted by my supportive friends. I just pray my psychiatrist will understand what’s going on and help me out.
by Thuzbekistan » Tue Feb 26, 2019 10:44 pm
Grenartia wrote:DiscussionPuppet wrote:How can I get the courage to email my teacher and tell my friend? I keep running away from it even though I really do want to tell them.
That's difficult to answer, honestly.
In all honesty, short of getting somebody to blackmail you or something, you've gotta just do it (if it helps, watch the Shia LaBoeuf (spelling?) thign where he just says that over and over again) on your own accord.
by Grenartia » Tue Feb 26, 2019 10:44 pm
Western Vale Confederacy wrote:Khasinkonia wrote:After much emotional bludgeoning I’ve been able to just start seeing a psychiatrist but I still feel like my father’s just “humouring” me while my mother has, according to my brother(who I recently came out to), prayed to “cure” me and does not believe I’m trans but rather corrupted by my supportive friends. I just pray my psychiatrist will understand what’s going on and help me out.
How the hell does one believe that it is a "corruption"?
by Grenartia » Tue Feb 26, 2019 10:45 pm
Thuzbekistan wrote:Grenartia wrote:
That's difficult to answer, honestly.
In all honesty, short of getting somebody to blackmail you or something, you've gotta just do it (if it helps, watch the Shia LaBoeuf (spelling?) thign where he just says that over and over again) on your own accord.
I just noticed your sig. Really good play on the "only two genders" crowd
by Western Vale Confederacy » Tue Feb 26, 2019 10:45 pm
Grenartia wrote:Western Vale Confederacy wrote:
How the hell does one believe that it is a "corruption"?
Its a pretty recent, but shockingly common belief, especially in religious and TERF circles. I believe the term is "social contagion", at least in the more secular circles, but the more fundamentalist ones probably chalk it up to demonic possession.
by Thuzbekistan » Tue Feb 26, 2019 10:45 pm
Western Vale Confederacy wrote:Khasinkonia wrote:After much emotional bludgeoning I’ve been able to just start seeing a psychiatrist but I still feel like my father’s just “humouring” me while my mother has, according to my brother(who I recently came out to), prayed to “cure” me and does not believe I’m trans but rather corrupted by my supportive friends. I just pray my psychiatrist will understand what’s going on and help me out.
How the hell does one believe that it is a "corruption"?
by Khasinkonia » Wed Feb 27, 2019 8:29 am
Cekoviu wrote:Khasinkonia wrote:After much emotional bludgeoning I’ve been able to just start seeing a psychiatrist but I still feel like my father’s just “humouring” me while my mother has, according to my brother(who I recently came out to), prayed to “cure” me and does not believe I’m trans but rather corrupted by my supportive friends. I just pray my psychiatrist will understand what’s going on and help me out.
Oh, so at least you're out at home. That's a thing.
Some psychiatrists with whom I've interacted have been supportive, but clumsy because they haven't interacted with many trans people in the past. Does it feel that way with your current psychiatrist, or do they have experience with trans people (or a holistic give-and-take practice, where the psychiatrist tries to learn from you as well even if they're unfamiliar)?
Thuzbekistan wrote:Western Vale Confederacy wrote:
How the hell does one believe that it is a "corruption"?
"He was a good boy! Now hes an evil person just wanting to be happy in his own skin! The devil has risen! Lord help us all!"
Edit: I havent read enough of the thread to know if they are a MTF or otherwise, so I dont mean to misgender. I do apologize if it comes off that way.
Grenartia wrote:Western Vale Confederacy wrote:
How the hell does one believe that it is a "corruption"?
Its a pretty recent, but shockingly common belief, especially in religious and TERF circles. I believe the term is "social contagion", at least in the more secular circles, but the more fundamentalist ones probably chalk it up to demonic possession.
Western Vale Confederacy wrote:Grenartia wrote:
Its a pretty recent, but shockingly common belief, especially in religious and TERF circles. I believe the term is "social contagion", at least in the more secular circles, but the more fundamentalist ones probably chalk it up to demonic possession.
We are all influenced by our family, friends and trends to an extent, but they are usually never the cause.
by Grenartia » Wed Feb 27, 2019 3:45 pm
Khasinkonia wrote:Grenartia wrote:
Its a pretty recent, but shockingly common belief, especially in religious and TERF circles. I believe the term is "social contagion", at least in the more secular circles, but the more fundamentalist ones probably chalk it up to demonic possession.
Basically, I have supportive friends, therefore I’m being pressured into being trans.
by The New California Republic » Wed Feb 27, 2019 4:04 pm
by Auzkhia » Wed Feb 27, 2019 7:16 pm
by Khasinkonia » Wed Feb 27, 2019 8:24 pm
Auzkhia wrote:Grenartia wrote:
Essentially. People like that tend to view being trans as basically the 'pet rock' of our generation. A "hip" and "trendy" "fad".
Even some people within the trans community have the mindset, I never heard of anyone being trans or transitioning for shits and giggles. Gatekeeping is awful.
Although I remember my mom asking if I was trans because I appeared to be gender non-conforming and had trans friends.
by Liriena » Thu Feb 28, 2019 4:48 pm
Anarcho capitalist utopia wrote:Liriena wrote:https://savejames.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/Younger-VS-Georgulas.pdfSpecifically, James is a gender expasive or transgender child and, by choice, now goes
by the name Luna and is only known by her classmates as a girl.ln response to Luna's choices, the Father has engaged in increasingly aggressive behavior,
including physical force, toward the Mother. His actions are clearly intended to threaten and
intimidate the Mother. Further, the Father has engaged in emotionally abusive behavior toward the
child (as example only, haircutting and other non-affiming actions).
Welp, it looks to me like your original source is lying, Anarcho capitalist utopia. The child wasn't being "forced" to be trans, and it was the father who was acting abusively.
If you believe what the mother says. Just because the court sided with an abusive mother who wants to force her son to pretend to be female, doesnt justify her actions
Anarcho capitalist utopia wrote:James has been known to act as a girl only under his mother's precense. He has been pressured into saying those things by his mother. He did not act that way with anyone else, or at least until the mother got full custody and was able to enact her disturbing fantasies onto him
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by Grenartia » Sat Mar 02, 2019 3:13 am
Liriena wrote:Anarcho capitalist utopia wrote:James has been known to act as a girl only under his mother's precense. He has been pressured into saying those things by his mother. He did not act that way with anyone else, or at least until the mother got full custody and was able to enact her disturbing fantasies onto him
Alternative explanation: Luna presented as female under his mother's care because she's not a bigoted pile of shit like her father, who verbally and physically abused both Luna and her mother.
by Hanafuridake » Sat Mar 02, 2019 4:48 am
Liriena wrote:Anarcho capitalist utopia wrote:James has been known to act as a girl only under his mother's precense. He has been pressured into saying those things by his mother. He did not act that way with anyone else, or at least until the mother got full custody and was able to enact her disturbing fantasies onto him
Alternative explanation: Luna presented as female under his mother's care because she's not a bigoted pile of shit like her father, who verbally and physically abused both Luna and her mother.
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by Andsed » Sat Mar 02, 2019 5:30 am
Hanafuridake wrote:Liriena wrote:Alternative explanation: Luna presented as female under his mother's care because she's not a bigoted pile of shit like her father, who verbally and physically abused both Luna and her mother.
Shouldn't this be the default explanation? It makes much more sense than these pitiful attempts by the Right to portray Luna's mother as Norma Bates.
by Maxine IV » Sun Mar 03, 2019 10:23 pm
Maxine IV wrote:
I'm looking for information, resoutces, etc, on identifying as both male and female, if that's even a thing. I know I'm definitely feminine, but I don't think I'm trans because I don't reject my male self. I came here because I have no idea wherelse to go. Any advice would be helpful.
by Grenartia » Mon Mar 04, 2019 2:00 am
Maxine IV wrote:Maxine IV wrote:
I'm looking for information, resoutces, etc, on identifying as both male and female, if that's even a thing. I know I'm definitely feminine, but I don't think I'm trans because I don't reject my male self. I came here because I have no idea wherelse to go. Any advice would be helpful.
So, having done a little more research, I'll say that I'm genderqueer.
Guess I posted that here just so I can say it somewhere.
Anyone have any rsources available for genderqueer people (as opposed to full trans people?)
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