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by New Edom » Wed Jul 20, 2016 2:46 am

by Wolfmanne2 » Wed Jul 20, 2016 3:43 am
New Edom wrote:I repeat, why should a man support feminism--on what ethical principles or what moral basis? I don't mean "because it's right" or "out of empathy" but according to what ethical principles?
Mad hatters in jeans wrote:Yeah precipitating on everyone doesn't go down well usually. You seem patient enough to chat to us, i'm willing to count that as nice.

by New Edom » Wed Jul 20, 2016 3:53 am
Wolfmanne2 wrote:New Edom wrote:I repeat, why should a man support feminism--on what ethical principles or what moral basis? I don't mean "because it's right" or "out of empathy" but according to what ethical principles?
What ethical principle or moral basis stops me from answering 'because it's right'?

by Wolfmanne2 » Wed Jul 20, 2016 4:01 am
New Edom wrote:Wolfmanne2 wrote:What ethical principle or moral basis stops me from answering 'because it's right'?
Why should we obey traffic laws? Because they create safer roads. A combination of support for infrastructure, maintenance of a police force to maintain the rules, training drivers, etc makes it make sense. So that's a social agreement that I accept.
Why did William Wilberforce fight slavery? He believed that it was a Christian principle that all men were created in the image of God.
So what are feminists appealing to the average man about?
Mad hatters in jeans wrote:Yeah precipitating on everyone doesn't go down well usually. You seem patient enough to chat to us, i'm willing to count that as nice.

by New Edom » Wed Jul 20, 2016 4:11 am
Wolfmanne2 wrote:New Edom wrote:
Why should we obey traffic laws? Because they create safer roads. A combination of support for infrastructure, maintenance of a police force to maintain the rules, training drivers, etc makes it make sense. So that's a social agreement that I accept.
Why did William Wilberforce fight slavery? He believed that it was a Christian principle that all men were created in the image of God.
So what are feminists appealing to the average man about?
One could argue that it does not matter as that is not their job to do. Does Black Lives Matters (not that I agree with them) have to 'be consistent' and also protest the deaths of white people killed by the police? No, but one can be from a different background and hold solidarity with their aims, something that is extremely beneficial because often various oppressed groups (i.e. women, minority groups) often do this in order to strengthen the politics of liberation. LGBT Labour, BAME Labour and Labour Women's Network all work very closely together internally within the structure of the Labour Party to ensure better representation in the party of oppressed groups.
So yeah, for me self-interest as someone from a minority background is a Quaternary factor, but annoyingly for you, I primarily support it because it is the right thing to do.

by Arachno-Satinism » Wed Jul 20, 2016 4:14 am
New Edom wrote:I repeat, why should a man support feminism--on what ethical principles or what moral basis? I don't mean "because it's right" or "out of empathy" but according to what ethical principles?

by The Archregimancy » Wed Jul 20, 2016 4:15 am
Costa Fierro wrote:"Enlightened self-interest" being what? Accepting the day when women decide to castrate me because my penis is a "rape weapon"? I prefer aggression because that is all men receive these days. Men have to fight because society treats them like shit. Women complain about being objectified in a sexual manner but willingly treat men as objects for their own use, as pawns. Men are seen as disposable, as simply a walking sack of semen. Men are only valued as something that can be used and disposed of. That's it. Society is hostile against men so what else do you expect men to do?
Costa Fierro wrote:My point, ladies and gentlemen. See, back when feminism was actually about equality for women, feminists like Anita Sarkeesian would have been considered "radical feminists" and been relegated to the fringes of the movement. Now, she is mainstream and so are her views.
Liberal feminism doesn't exist anymore and those who do call themselves "liberal feminists" are only considered such because they don't harbour any castration fantasies.

by Wolfmanne2 » Wed Jul 20, 2016 4:18 am
New Edom wrote:Wolfmanne2 wrote:One could argue that it does not matter as that is not their job to do. Does Black Lives Matters (not that I agree with them) have to 'be consistent' and also protest the deaths of white people killed by the police? No, but one can be from a different background and hold solidarity with their aims, something that is extremely beneficial because often various oppressed groups (i.e. women, minority groups) often do this in order to strengthen the politics of liberation. LGBT Labour, BAME Labour and Labour Women's Network all work very closely together internally within the structure of the Labour Party to ensure better representation in the party of oppressed groups.
So yeah, for me self-interest as someone from a minority background is a Quaternary factor, but annoyingly for you, I primarily support it because it is the right thing to do.
So they don't want to convince people then? Then why should people support them?
Mad hatters in jeans wrote:Yeah precipitating on everyone doesn't go down well usually. You seem patient enough to chat to us, i'm willing to count that as nice.

by New Edom » Wed Jul 20, 2016 4:26 am
Wolfmanne2 wrote:New Edom wrote:
So they don't want to convince people then? Then why should people support them?
Why do white people support civil rights groups? Why do non-LGBT people support LGBT rights activism? Why do men support feminist activism? Why do middle class people advocate for working class interests? There's more to life than 'what's in it for me'; there will always be sympathisers without a 'what's in it for me' mentality.

by Costa Fierro » Wed Jul 20, 2016 4:26 am
Wolfmanne2 wrote:So yeah, for me self-interest as someone from a minority background is a Quaternary factor, but annoyingly for you, I primarily support it because it is the right thing to do.

by Arachno-Satinism » Wed Jul 20, 2016 4:40 am
New Edom wrote:So what are feminists appealing to the average man about?

by New Edom » Wed Jul 20, 2016 4:44 am

by Wolfmanne2 » Wed Jul 20, 2016 5:08 am
New Edom wrote:Wolfmanne2 wrote:Why do white people support civil rights groups? Why do non-LGBT people support LGBT rights activism? Why do men support feminist activism? Why do middle class people advocate for working class interests? There's more to life than 'what's in it for me'; there will always be sympathisers without a 'what's in it for me' mentality.
So in other words you don't have a convincing argument, just more insistence that you're right 'because'? Imagine you need my vote for a feminist initiative of some kind. Let's say you represent BLM and you want me to support you in shutting down Gay Pride in my city til they meet your demands to make it more inclusive and focus more on Black LGBT people. . I'm not sure I agree. How would you convince me?
Mad hatters in jeans wrote:Yeah precipitating on everyone doesn't go down well usually. You seem patient enough to chat to us, i'm willing to count that as nice.

by New Edom » Wed Jul 20, 2016 5:16 am
Wolfmanne2 wrote:New Edom wrote:
So in other words you don't have a convincing argument, just more insistence that you're right 'because'? Imagine you need my vote for a feminist initiative of some kind. Let's say you represent BLM and you want me to support you in shutting down Gay Pride in my city til they meet your demands to make it more inclusive and focus more on Black LGBT people. . I'm not sure I agree. How would you convince me?
I'm not going to play hypothetical, especially one such as this which gives me a position I don't even agree with. I don't know why men's rights activists are obsessed with them; if we're going to talk, I'm not letting you stack the chessboard in your favour, or give you the perception that you've done so. The fact that you deny various facts such as the gender pay gap (which I'm sure you will happily debunk any moment) in itself makes it important to reason with you. Feel free to reinforce your own victim mentality, but it's just sad that you keep on doing this rather than acknowledge the fact that a lot of issues faced by men are related to other means of oppression other than gender, like class, race, sexual orientation, social status etc.

by Wolfmanne2 » Wed Jul 20, 2016 5:28 am
New Edom wrote:Wolfmanne2 wrote:I'm not going to play hypothetical, especially one such as this which gives me a position I don't even agree with. I don't know why men's rights activists are obsessed with them; if we're going to talk, I'm not letting you stack the chessboard in your favour, or give you the perception that you've done so. The fact that you deny various facts such as the gender pay gap (which I'm sure you will happily debunk any moment) in itself makes it important to reason with you. Feel free to reinforce your own victim mentality, but it's just sad that you keep on doing this rather than acknowledge the fact that a lot of issues faced by men are related to other means of oppression other than gender, like class, race, sexual orientation, social status etc.
My own victim mentality? About what?
And seriously--this is an ideology you clearly passionately believe in, and you can't offer anything persuasive?
However I'll throw you another bone. Demonstrate to me that there are feminists (and not that one book Feminism is for Everybody by bell hooks) who are concerned about women who are abusive towards others and do not pawn it off on "the patriarchy made them do it" but actually hold them responsible for their conduct towards other women, men, the elderly and children and I'll change my approach.
Mad hatters in jeans wrote:Yeah precipitating on everyone doesn't go down well usually. You seem patient enough to chat to us, i'm willing to count that as nice.

by Minzerland » Wed Jul 20, 2016 5:43 am
Wolfmanne2 wrote:
[...] You clearly have a victim mentality than men are oppressed and women are privileged. It's one thing to believe that 'feminism is redundant after the second wave', but to actively argue that men are oppressed in contrast to women or have issues that are gendered (which isn't the case; I have not been in a situation where I've felt 'I'm being unfairly discriminated against for being a man') seems a bit ridiculous.

by Costa Fierro » Wed Jul 20, 2016 6:33 am
Wolfmanne2 wrote:You clearly have a victim mentality than men are oppressed and women are privileged. It's one thing to believe that 'feminism is redundant after the second wave', but to actively argue that men are oppressed in contrast to women or have issues that are gendered (which isn't the case; I have not been in a situation where I've felt 'I'm being unfairly discriminated against for being a man') seems a bit ridiculous.

by Dameth » Wed Jul 20, 2016 7:01 am
Costa Fierro wrote:Wolfmanne2 wrote:You clearly have a victim mentality than men are oppressed and women are privileged. It's one thing to believe that 'feminism is redundant after the second wave', but to actively argue that men are oppressed in contrast to women or have issues that are gendered (which isn't the case; I have not been in a situation where I've felt 'I'm being unfairly discriminated against for being a man') seems a bit ridiculous.
No, what's ridiculous is your refusal to even consider that men can be discriminated against in society by using the logic that "well I haven't experienced it so it does not exist". That is like saying "but I am not hungry, so there are no starving people".
Yes, men are discriminated against and men and said discrimination is unfair. It's a radical concept, but I'm sure you can come to grips with it.

by Wolfmanne2 » Wed Jul 20, 2016 7:23 am
Dameth wrote:Costa Fierro wrote:
No, what's ridiculous is your refusal to even consider that men can be discriminated against in society by using the logic that "well I haven't experienced it so it does not exist". That is like saying "but I am not hungry, so there are no starving people".
Yes, men are discriminated against and men and said discrimination is unfair. It's a radical concept, but I'm sure you can come to grips with it.
Court system, gender quotas,genital integrity, work fatalities, suicide rate, reproductive rights, work quotas, gender representation in political sphere.
Just a few occasions off the top of my head where men are at institutionalized and unfair disadvantage.
I propose we get rid of the word "oppression". That's feminist linguo and doesnt mean anything in gender context. Besides, discriminations against men are not to be experienced to be understood. They are in plain sight for everyone to see. But I guess no matter how bright the colors are, it's no use to discuss them with the blind.
Mad hatters in jeans wrote:Yeah precipitating on everyone doesn't go down well usually. You seem patient enough to chat to us, i'm willing to count that as nice.

by Wolfmanne2 » Wed Jul 20, 2016 7:26 am
Minzerland wrote:Wolfmanne2 wrote:
[...] You clearly have a victim mentality than men are oppressed and women are privileged. It's one thing to believe that 'feminism is redundant after the second wave', but to actively argue that men are oppressed in contrast to women or have issues that are gendered (which isn't the case; I have not been in a situation where I've felt 'I'm being unfairly discriminated against for being a man') seems a bit ridiculous.
Why is it such a ridiculous assertion that men are, in some shape or form, unfairly discriminated against or have issues that are gendered? Despite your anecdotes?
Costa Fierro wrote:Wolfmanne2 wrote:You clearly have a victim mentality than men are oppressed and women are privileged. It's one thing to believe that 'feminism is redundant after the second wave', but to actively argue that men are oppressed in contrast to women or have issues that are gendered (which isn't the case; I have not been in a situation where I've felt 'I'm being unfairly discriminated against for being a man') seems a bit ridiculous.
No, what's ridiculous is your refusal to even consider that men can be discriminated against in society by using the logic that "well I haven't experienced it so it does not exist". That is like saying "but I am not hungry, so there are no starving people".
Yes, men are discriminated against and men and said discrimination is unfair. It's a radical concept, but I'm sure you can come to grips with it.
Mad hatters in jeans wrote:Yeah precipitating on everyone doesn't go down well usually. You seem patient enough to chat to us, i'm willing to count that as nice.

by Dameth » Wed Jul 20, 2016 7:27 am
Wolfmanne2 wrote:The SWP leadership covered up instances of rape within their own party. Can I ask, what ever did happen to 'Comrade Delta'?

by Wolfmanne2 » Wed Jul 20, 2016 7:30 am
Dameth wrote:Wolfmanne2 wrote:The SWP leadership covered up instances of rape within their own party. Can I ask, what ever did happen to 'Comrade Delta'?
I have no idea, anyway. I'm a french anarchist to begin with.
But really if it's a "feminist rape", like it means sex she regretted or any variation on the "fart rape" (google it, hillarity garanteed), I'd say its no big deal
Mad hatters in jeans wrote:Yeah precipitating on everyone doesn't go down well usually. You seem patient enough to chat to us, i'm willing to count that as nice.

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