Relationship and getting one thread

[Sjovenia]

20 year old single male currently overseas
been single for a little over a year now
tired of this whole 2016 mannerisms and bullshit
seems I cant find anybody or when I do it doesn't last long probably due to the fact that I'm just your average everday normal guy "nothing special bout me Mutha ****as"
and I'm almost positive the ladies think I'm a KGB spy

tip/advice/further enquiries?

Where are you from and where are you?

Dual National English/American and England

[Socialist Tera]

Where are you from and where are you?

Dual National English/American and England

If you have an English accent that may help you.

[Cannot think of a name]

20 year old single male currently overseas
been single for a little over a year now
tired of this whole 2016 mannerisms and bullshit
seems I cant find anybody or when I do it doesn't last long probably due to the fact that I'm

20. Because you're 20. That's perfectly fine. Just enjoy the ride and learn whatever you can from each go around.

[Trotskylvania]

If you want a more romantic relationship with someone, starting with finding shared interests is usually a good starting point.

And it seemed to be working... Until it wasn't.

Well yeah, that sort of thing happens. Most of the time, people will want different things from a relationship. One person will end up feeling like there's more chemistry between them than the other. For the most part, dating isn't easy, and it really shouldn't be, because you're intimately intertwining your lives, all your emotional baggage, with one another. When it's bad, it can be really bad.

[Lancaster of Wessex]

There are no universally applicable tips save for: be yourself. Someone, somewhere, will find you (whomever) attractive.

[The East Marches]

Where are you from and where are you?

Dual National English/American and England

Good luck with that. Its a bit different being an American abroad. You ought to try finding your local baygoyle hangout and work your way up from there. I was stuck in Italy/Germany for a bit and had to figure that out myself.

[Mike the Progressive]

Yah, don't pour out your heart and soul.

already learned that one my friend, still doesn't help

Then just keep playing the field. Trust me man there are lots and lots of girls. I use to be overweight in middle school and I was with girls. Just listen, try not to be weird (socialize with girls and without), be a little cocky without being cunty and you'll be ok. Don't act desperate and make any discussion you have about her and whatever she cares about. I know it sounds simple and hard at the same time, but keep working on it and keep trying. You'll fail and that's part of life, but get back up. Don't get hung up on a girl, on a failure.

[Sjovenia]

Dual National English/American and England

If you have an English accent that may help you.

Numerous reasons I hate this answer

1) then that would make them the "gold digger" of accents

2) do they really like me or just the accent?

and no I don't, I do many accents to include English but no I have a flat American accent, one that can not be pin pointed because AYOOO I'm not really from the US. And I'm living in England so American accent helps out big time but what ive experienced so far is just flings and nothing more.

[Strathenia]

And it seemed to be working... Until it wasn't.

Do you have oneitis?

?

[The East Marches]

Do you have oneitis?

?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=oneitis

[Mike the Progressive]

Do you have oneitis?

?

That one girl you're fixated on. Trust me man. I've been there a couple of times. Move. The. Fuck. On.

[Imperializt Russia]

I realised last March that I'm going to die alone and my life has been ruined ever since.

[The East Marches]

I realised last March that I'm going to die alone and my life has been ruined ever since.

Don't say that, I'm sure there is a nice ugly girl waiting just for you.

[Mike the Progressive]

I realised last March that I'm going to die alone and my life has been ruined ever since.

Yah. Most likely.

[Sjovenia]

already learned that one my friend, still doesn't help

Then just keep playing the field. Trust me man there are lots and lots of girls. I use to be overweight in middle school and I was with girls. Just listen, try not to be weird (socialize with girls and without), be a little cocky without being cunty and you'll be ok. Don't act desperate and make any discussion you have about her and whatever she cares about. I know it sounds simple and hard at the same time, but keep working on it and keep trying. You'll fail and that's part of life, but get back up. Don't get hung up on a girl, on a failure.

I over analyze way too much shit and so I pretty much the KGB/CIA of social means. This is taking in to fact context, body language, actions, expressions, and history. Which is good and bad. Good because I can read some one like a book and be right about them. Bad because it can cause paranoia which I haven't had when it comes to relationships in a long time

[Socialist Tera]

I realised last March that I'm going to die alone and my life has been ruined ever since.

Dude, I doubt it, you are an intelligent guy with a good personality, you will find someone. I respect you a lot dude.

[Valaran]

What are mere relationships compared with the glory of inciting political revolution?

pls halp, being single suxxx

[Imperializt Russia]

I realised last March that I'm going to die alone and my life has been ruined ever since.

Dude, I doubt it, you are an intelligent guy with a good personality, you will find someone. I respect you a lot dude.

I certainly don't have a good personality, and it's rather the central problem.

[Strathenia]

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That one girl you're fixated on. Trust me man. I've been there a couple of times. Move. The. Fuck. On.

Easy for you to say, Mr. Fuckem.

[Socialist Tera]

Dude, I doubt it, you are an intelligent guy with a good personality, you will find someone. I respect you a lot dude.

I certainly don't have a good personality, and it's rather the central problem.

Seriously, you seem to be one of the most reasonable people I ever met on the forums.

That one girl you're fixated on. Trust me man. I've been there a couple of times. Move. The. Fuck. On.

Easy for you to say, Mr. Fuckem.

I had to do that when I broke up with my ex, it was hard but it's a learning experience, trust me there are better girls than what you think you have dude.

[Cannot think of a name]

I realised last March that I'm going to die alone and my life has been ruined ever since.

That can be self fulfilling. Also there seems to be this undertone in the geeky or awkward that is somehow convinced that tragic is sexy or maybe it will be and it's an easy card to play since you can always assert your sincerity and insist that it really is because no one will ever love you.

It's not a good look but if you're convinced it's true it will be.

[Old Tyrannia]

If I want to make someone like me, I generally give them something. Brownies are a good one. If you know they're dieting, though, oatmeal cookies are an alternative that can be marketed as "more healthy." Admittedly I have only ever utilised this technique to make and maintain friendships, not romantic relationships, but I don't see why it wouldn't work for both. People can be surprisingly easy to bribe into liking you even when you're awkward, aloof, snobbish and anti-social.

[Jumhuriyah Hindustan]

There's this really cute girl I like. I gave her a flower on her birthday, she smiled but didn't say anything. What are my chances of getting in?

[Valaran]

There's this really cute girl I like. I gave her a flower on her birthday, she smiled but didn't say anything. What are my chances of getting in?

nil.

Nah, I have no clue tbh. A smile literally means anything.

[Socialist Tera]

There's this really cute girl I like. I gave her a flower on her birthday, she smiled but didn't say anything. What are my chances of getting in?

Get to know her better when you know her ask her out.