Relationship and getting one thread

[Black Mars]

So I'm in love with a transgender person.
Sexually female, but gender is male, and wants to get surgery to be a guy eventually, and while I'm quite Pro-LGBT, I'm still very straight.. He's in his early teens(Early High School), but I'm still worried. We broke up over this(It was mutual though), but we're still obsessed with each other and talk to each other constantly.
He messages me a lot, and I message him back a lot and say "I love you" and we both mention that we're soul mates a lot and act somewhat romantic despite having officially broken up. He may also be getting a boyfriend soon, so I'm worried about that. though I'm sure if I was gay, there'd be no contest of who he'd choose.
I know this may be bordering the line between girl and guy advice, but, it's a rock solid obstacle in an otherwise perfect relationship.
So...advice?

Cut contact. You two made a decision to break contact for a reason, the only reason you two communicate is because you two are obsessed rather than in love with each other.

EDIT: Now I see you ninja edited your post before I replied; if she's getting a boyfriend and chooses him above you then it says enough for me. Sounds like she's playing around.

[Ethel mermania]

There is one thing I've found that I am nit-picky about. Proper table etiquette when eating in public. *sighs* the world would be much better off if more people knew what it was or how to follow it.

You say this as if getting in a pot sticker fight isn't awesome.

You could put someone's eye out with one of those things.

[The East Marches]

So I'm in love with a transgender person.
Sexually female, but gender is male, and wants to get surgery to be a guy eventually, and while I'm quite Pro-LGBT, I'm still very straight.. He's in his early teens(Early High School), but I'm still worried. We broke up over this(It was mutual though), but we're still obsessed with each other and talk to each other constantly.
He messages me a lot, and I message him back a lot and say "I love you" and we both mention that we're soul mates a lot and act somewhat romantic despite having officially broken up. He may also be getting a boyfriend soon, so I'm worried about that. though I'm sure if I was gay, there'd be no contest of who he'd choose.
I know this may be bordering the line between girl and guy advice, but, it's a rock solid obstacle in an otherwise perfect relationship.
So...advice?

You should not post personal things like this in a public space. I would recommend against it in the future. I can't offer any constructive advice on your situation other than that.

[Cannot think of a name]

You say this as if getting in a pot sticker fight isn't awesome.

You could put someone's eye out with one of those things.

Worth it.

[Ethel mermania]

You could put someone's eye out with one of those things.

Worth it.

More than 2 dates though, you are screwed.

[Great Feng]

So I'm in love with a transgender person.
Sexually female, but gender is male, and wants to get surgery to be a guy eventually, and while I'm quite Pro-LGBT, I'm still very straight.. He's in his early teens(Early High School), but I'm still worried. We broke up over this(It was mutual though), but we're still obsessed with each other and talk to each other constantly.
He messages me a lot, and I message him back a lot and say "I love you" and we both mention that we're soul mates a lot and act somewhat romantic despite having officially broken up. He may also be getting a boyfriend soon, so I'm worried about that. though I'm sure if I was gay, there'd be no contest of who he'd choose.
I know this may be bordering the line between girl and guy advice, but, it's a rock solid obstacle in an otherwise perfect relationship.
So...advice?

You should not post personal things like this in a public space. I would recommend against it in the future. I can't offer any constructive advice on your situation other than that.

Oh....I thought it was an advice thread. So I went and posted it. Sorry.

[United Marxist Nations]

You should not post personal things like this in a public space. I would recommend against it in the future. I can't offer any constructive advice on your situation other than that.

Oh....I thought it was an advice thread. So I went and posted it. Sorry.

It is an advice thread, but you gave way more information than is really good to give away.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Read Cosmopolitan.

[New Elesar]

So I'm in love with a transgender person.
Sexually female, but gender is male, and wants to get surgery to be a guy eventually, and while I'm quite Pro-LGBT, I'm still very straight.. He's in his early teens(Early High School), but I'm still worried. We broke up over this(It was mutual though), but we're still obsessed with each other and talk to each other constantly.
He messages me a lot, and I message him back a lot and say "I love you" and we both mention that we're soul mates a lot and act somewhat romantic despite having officially broken up. He may also be getting a boyfriend soon, so I'm worried about that. though I'm sure if I was gay, there'd be no contest of who he'd choose.
I know this may be bordering the line between girl and guy advice, but, it's a rock solid obstacle in an otherwise perfect relationship.
So...advice?

Wow, long time no see Deian. Glad to see you've found someone. Hope it works out for you this time.

My advice as a straight, non-trans, non-anything other than straight tbh man is to do this: just treat it like any other relationship. Would I get into this kind of relationship? No, because of both personal and religious objections. Just not my cup of tea. But if you're happy, go for it. If you really love them, I suppose it should be a non-issue, right?

[Socialist Mercanda]

It's just like the sims! Talk, hug, play, gesture, and you'll be married with kids on the way before the next morning.

So... Unprotected one night stand with the worlds clingiest person?

Read Cosmopolitan.

cosmopolitan is truly the best for relationship advice

[Ashmoria]

What is a pot sticker?

Delicious Chinese food that makes me pray to the porcelain God when I'm finished.

I never take girls to expensive restaurants, and in regards to restaurants, I really couldn't care less about the table manners of the girl, so long as she is polite to the waiters/waitresses, not a glutton, and isn't obnoxious towards the people around us.

That said, I did have a prom date in April, and it was a double date. The other guy decided to take us to some fancy ass place at a country club, with $55 meals and $20 desserts. My date and I just found a kid's menu and split some chicken tenders, since neither of us wanted to pay more than 20 bucks haha.

ohmygod I thought you were old enough to have seen the breakfast club in a movie theater!

[Ashmoria]

So I'm in love with a transgender person.
Sexually female, but gender is male, and wants to get surgery to be a guy eventually, and while I'm quite Pro-LGBT, I'm still very straight.. He's in his early teens(Early High School), but I'm still worried. We broke up over this(It was mutual though), but we're still obsessed with each other and talk to each other constantly.
He messages me a lot, and I message him back a lot and say "I love you" and we both mention that we're soul mates a lot and act somewhat romantic despite having officially broken up. He may also be getting a boyfriend soon, so I'm worried about that. though I'm sure if I was gay, there'd be no contest of who he'd choose.
I know this may be bordering the line between girl and guy advice, but, it's a rock solid obstacle in an otherwise perfect relationship.
So...advice?

Wow, long time no see Deian. Glad to see you've found someone. Hope it works out for you this time.

My advice as a straight, non-trans, non-anything other than straight tbh man is to do this: just treat it like any other relationship. Would I get into this kind of relationship? No, because of both personal and religious objections. Just not my cup of tea. But if you're happy, go for it. If you really love them, I suppose it should be a non-issue, right?

good advice

take it slow, see what happens.

[Great Feng]

So I'm in love with a transgender person.
Sexually female, but gender is male, and wants to get surgery to be a guy eventually, and while I'm quite Pro-LGBT, I'm still very straight.. He's in his early teens(Early High School), but I'm still worried. We broke up over this(It was mutual though), but we're still obsessed with each other and talk to each other constantly.
He messages me a lot, and I message him back a lot and say "I love you" and we both mention that we're soul mates a lot and act somewhat romantic despite having officially broken up. He may also be getting a boyfriend soon, so I'm worried about that. though I'm sure if I was gay, there'd be no contest of who he'd choose.
I know this may be bordering the line between girl and guy advice, but, it's a rock solid obstacle in an otherwise perfect relationship.
So...advice?

Wow, long time no see Deian. Glad to see you've found someone. Hope it works out for you this time.

My advice as a straight, non-trans, non-anything other than straight tbh man is to do this: just treat it like any other relationship. Would I get into this kind of relationship? No, because of both personal and religious objections. Just not my cup of tea. But if you're happy, go for it. If you really love them, I suppose it should be a non-issue, right?

Alright, will do it. Though it's weird due to my "straightness" and religious views on the subject...eh, it'll work itself out(hopefully).
The biggest obstacle is the lack of physical attraction to males, but meh. I mean when I was interested in You-Know-Who it wasn't due to looks(Not saying she was ugly at all, don't misread me, I am just saying I didn't have an overattraction based on looks alone).



In other news, if someone needs advice, I'll be here. I've saved two relationships(Though at one point they collapsed afterwards, not because of me though), so, I'll probably help people in this thread. So I'll be helping people but occasionally need advice of my own, cuz hey we're all human.

[Great Feng]

Wow, long time no see Deian. Glad to see you've found someone. Hope it works out for you this time.

My advice as a straight, non-trans, non-anything other than straight tbh man is to do this: just treat it like any other relationship. Would I get into this kind of relationship? No, because of both personal and religious objections. Just not my cup of tea. But if you're happy, go for it. If you really love them, I suppose it should be a non-issue, right?

good advice

take it slow, see what happens.

>Take it slow
I'm mostly joking(truthfully though), but if you've met me, you'd realize that I'm all speed. My mind, my body, everything. I may be even faster than ACS.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

It's just like the sims! Talk, hug, play, gesture, and you'll be married with kids on the way before the next morning.

So... Unprotected one night stand with the worlds clingiest person?

Read Cosmopolitan.

cosmopolitan is truly the best for relationship advice

The best relationship advice is not to ask for relationship advice from the internet. *nod*

[Great Feng]

So... Unprotected one night stand with the worlds clingiest person?



cosmopolitan is truly the best for relationship advice

The best relationship advice is not to ask for relationship advice from the internet. *nod*

Not ask for help on the Internet? HERESY! BURN THE WITCH!

[Ashmoria]

good advice

take it slow, see what happens.

>Take it slow
I'm mostly joking(truthfully though), but if you've met me, you'd realize that I'm all speed. My mind, my body, everything. I may be even faster than ACS.

y'all are young and in unusual circumstances. slow is best.

[Great Feng]

>Take it slow
I'm mostly joking(truthfully though), but if you've met me, you'd realize that I'm all speed. My mind, my body, everything. I may be even faster than ACS.

y'all are young and in unusual circumstances. slow is best.

Tell that to my NS Military(no joke).

[Valaran]

The best relationship advice is not to ask for relationship advice from the internet. *nod*

What could wrong.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

The best relationship advice is not to ask for relationship advice from the internet. *nod*

What could wrong.

Hilarity ensues: https://pervocracy.blogspot.com/search/label/cosmocking

[Great Feng]

The best relationship advice is not to ask for relationship advice from the internet. *nod*

What could go wrong.

True. It's better to ask your Extremely Religious Parents. *Nod*

[United Marxist Nations]

What could go wrong.

True. It's better to ask your Extremely Religious Parents. *Nod*

If something is going to interfere with family life, you probably ought to at least consider them. Typically, relationships where parents disapprove tend to go worse than those where they do.

[Gauliscia]

Be confident, slightly cocky yet funny too. And be a gentleman! Then some good looks...

[United Marxist Nations]

Be confident, slightly cocky yet funny too. And be a gentleman! Then some good looks...

How does one "be confident"?

[Major-Tom]

Be confident, slightly cocky yet funny too. And be a gentleman! Then some good looks...

How does one "be confident"?

Don't stutter, fidget, say um, or act like anybody other than yourself when you're presenting yourself to a woman.