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Mike the Progressive
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Postby Mike the Progressive » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:11 am

Sangaku wrote:
Mike the Progressive wrote:The secret is to listen and make a girl laugh. Once you get her to laugh, you're in. Get it? You're in.

Edit: Also take girls to Olive Garden. For whatever unholy reason, they love that shit. And be a bit of a jerk. A bit. Don't go crazy with it. You want to come off as cocky, even a little douchey, but not too much.


To be honest that doesn't sound attractive at all.
I wouldn't want a guy to act like a douche, that's really off-putting.
Confidence is good, cockiness is not.


Meh. If you encounter somebody like this, move on.

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Postby America-Shuruppak Xul » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:12 am

Just watch Family Guy and see how Quagmire acts. That guy is a true Casanova.

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Postby Mike the Progressive » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:13 am

Risottia wrote:
Mike the Progressive wrote:Lots of fish in the sea, just waiting to get fucked.

Let's remind that this thread isn't supposed to be about bestiality.


I just... I just love that species, man. Not the gender, er I mean species... uh #tolerance

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Postby Strathenia » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:14 am

This thread seems to have turned into a joke really quickly.
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Postby Ashmoria » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:14 am

Strathenia wrote:
Ashmoria wrote:big mistake

a relationship is a relationship. that means that it cant just be what YOU want. if she isn't interested you have to move on not fixate on someone who doesn't want what you want.

I don't even care about getting that close to her anymore. I just want her to not be an ass.

still a big mistake.
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Postby Mike the Progressive » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:15 am

Strathenia wrote:This thread seems to have turned into a joke really quickly.


It is a bit, but I'm sincere (and right) in my advice even though a little crass.

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Postby The East Marches » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:15 am

Strathenia wrote:This thread seems to have turned into a joke really quickly.


The joke m8, the joke is how awful people handle things. If you aren't careful, somebody might go crazy and stab you.
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Postby Strathenia » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:16 am

The East Marches wrote:
Strathenia wrote:This thread seems to have turned into a joke really quickly.


The joke m8, the joke is how awful people handle things. If you aren't careful, somebody might go crazy and stab you.

So are you not supposed to be attached to the other person? Are you supposed to not care?
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Postby Socialist Tera » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:16 am

I can easily become friends with benefits with girls but I always have a problem getting an actual relationship... Weird problem than most men, I know but still a problem. :P

Strathenia wrote:
The East Marches wrote:
The joke m8, the joke is how awful people handle things. If you aren't careful, somebody might go crazy and stab you.

So are you not supposed to be attached to the other person? Are you supposed to not care?

Realize when she doesn't want and when she does, if she wants you go for it, DO IT DO IT MAKE YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE, if not, then move on.
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Postby Strathenia » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:17 am

Socialist Tera wrote:I can easily become friends with benefits with girls but I always have a problem getting an actual relationship... Weird problem than most men, I know but still a problem. :P

A problem I don't have, because I can't become a 'friend with benefits'. Even if I could, I really don't think I would.
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Postby Ashmoria » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:18 am

Socialist Tera wrote:I can easily become friends with benefits with girls but I always have a problem getting an actual relationship... Weird problem than most men, I know but still a problem. :P

Strathenia wrote:So are you not supposed to be attached to the other person? Are you supposed to not care?

Realize when she doesn't want and when she does, if she wants you go for it, DO IT DO IT MAKE YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE, if not, then move on.

gee ST if you find that a problem why not ASK these friends what it is about you that isn't actual boyfriend material.
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Postby The East Marches » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:19 am

Strathenia wrote:
The East Marches wrote:
The joke m8, the joke is how awful people handle things. If you aren't careful, somebody might go crazy and stab you.

So are you not supposed to be attached to the other person? Are you supposed to not care?


You can be attached them. However, you gotta learn how to let go. Nobody said that part is easy, however it is important. That is a talent that most people are sorely lacking.
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Postby Socialist Tera » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:20 am

Ashmoria wrote:
Socialist Tera wrote:I can easily become friends with benefits with girls but I always have a problem getting an actual relationship... Weird problem than most men, I know but still a problem. :P


Realize when she doesn't want and when she does, if she wants you go for it, DO IT DO IT MAKE YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE, if not, then move on.

gee ST if you find that a problem why not ASK these friends what it is about you that isn't actual boyfriend material.

I have asked girls, apparently I am "cute" but too immature.
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Postby Trotskylvania » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:20 am

If you want a more romantic relationship with someone, starting with finding shared interests is usually a good starting point.
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Postby Ashmoria » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:21 am

Socialist Tera wrote:
Ashmoria wrote:gee ST if you find that a problem why not ASK these friends what it is about you that isn't actual boyfriend material.

I have asked girls, apparently I am "cute" but too immature.

so work on it.

or maybe start dating less sophisticated girls.
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Postby Mike the Progressive » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:21 am

Socialist Tera wrote:
Ashmoria wrote:gee ST if you find that a problem why not ASK these friends what it is about you that isn't actual boyfriend material.

I have asked girls, apparently I am "cute" but too immature.


I could see that. You're a socialist after all. Very immature.

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Postby Sjovenia » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:22 am

20 year old single male currently overseas
been single for a little over a year now
tired of this whole 2016 mannerisms and bullshit
seems I cant find anybody or when I do it doesn't last long probably due to the fact that I'm just your average everday normal guy "nothing special bout me Mutha ****as"
and I'm almost positive the ladies think I'm a KGB spy

tip/advice/further enquiries?
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Postby Socialist Tera » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:23 am

Mike the Progressive wrote:
Socialist Tera wrote:I have asked girls, apparently I am "cute" but too immature.


I could see that. You're a socialist after all. Very immature.

It's not my beliefs, it's my attitude towards life.
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Postby Mike the Progressive » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:23 am

Sjovenia wrote:20 year old single male currently overseas
been single for a little over a year now
tired of this whole 2016 mannerisms and bullshit
seems I cant find anybody or when I do it doesn't last long probably due to the fact that I'm just your average everday normal guy "nothing special bout me Mutha ****as"
and I'm almost positive the ladies think I'm a KGB spy

tip/advice/further enquiries?


Yah, don't pour out your heart and soul.

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Postby The East Marches » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:23 am

Sjovenia wrote:20 year old single male currently overseas
been single for a little over a year now
tired of this whole 2016 mannerisms and bullshit
seems I cant find anybody or when I do it doesn't last long probably due to the fact that I'm just your average everday normal guy "nothing special bout me Mutha ****as"
and I'm almost positive the ladies think I'm a KGB spy

tip/advice/further enquiries?


Where are you from and where are you?
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Novus America wrote:But yes, I would say the mere existence of Illinois proves this is hell. Chicago the 9th circle.

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Postby Mike the Progressive » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:23 am

Socialist Tera wrote:
Mike the Progressive wrote:
I could see that. You're a socialist after all. Very immature.

It's not my beliefs, it's my attitude towards life.


Exactly.

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Postby Ashmoria » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:23 am

Sjovenia wrote:20 year old single male currently overseas
been single for a little over a year now
tired of this whole 2016 mannerisms and bullshit
seems I cant find anybody or when I do it doesn't last long probably due to the fact that I'm just your average everday normal guy "nothing special bout me Mutha ****as"
and I'm almost positive the ladies think I'm a KGB spy

tip/advice/further enquiries?

its probably not due to the fact that you are just an average every day normal guy.
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Postby Strathenia » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:24 am

Trotskylvania wrote:If you want a more romantic relationship with someone, starting with finding shared interests is usually a good starting point.

And it seemed to be working... Until it wasn't.
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Postby The East Marches » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:25 am

Strathenia wrote:
Trotskylvania wrote:If you want a more romantic relationship with someone, starting with finding shared interests is usually a good starting point.

And it seemed to be working... Until it wasn't.


Do you have oneitis?
Conserative Morality wrote:Move to a real state bud instead of a third-world country that inexplicably votes in American elections.


Novus America wrote:But yes, I would say the mere existence of Illinois proves this is hell. Chicago the 9th circle.

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Postby Sjovenia » Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:25 am

Mike the Progressive wrote:
Sjovenia wrote:20 year old single male currently overseas
been single for a little over a year now
tired of this whole 2016 mannerisms and bullshit
seems I cant find anybody or when I do it doesn't last long probably due to the fact that I'm just your average everday normal guy "nothing special bout me Mutha ****as"
and I'm almost positive the ladies think I'm a KGB spy

tip/advice/further enquiries?


Yah, don't pour out your heart and soul.

already learned that one my friend, still doesn't help
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