Dread Lady Nathicana wrote:Look. Women are not 'sluts' just because they got pregnant any more than some guy is a 'stud' for having knocked 'em up. So can we kindly leave off all that bullshit. Yes, I know, aside from the one serious post I made, that I've been silly, but really ... some of you are acting ridiculously with the namecalling and claims that aren't backed up with anything more than 'because I believe it to be so'.
I never saw myself as some 'incubator', nor my babies at any stage being 'parasites', so I'm not a great choice to argue a woman's standpoint in all of this - simply /my/ standpoint. And yes, it is rather personal. Like I said before, I cannot support it. But as Gallo has rather succinctly pointed out, neither can I say another woman does not have the right to make those choices herself. She'll have to live with those choices, after all. I won't. There is a whole lot more to this than simply who has what organs and at what point does one consider a fetus another 'life' - and that right there can be complex enough on its own.
You can't argue from a point of feelings or emotions. You have to go from a legality stance. If you cannot have proof that a fetus is capable of making those choices, communicating those choices, or even being considered another sentient life as opposed to a group of cells (see back to complex argument bit there - this one's a doozy), then you can't really say it has any 'rights'. Whereas the woman does have certain rights, whether one likes it, approves of it, or not. One cannot force a person to donate an organ, blood, or to receive a transplant, or other life-saving measures if they are clearly in their right mind, and of an age they can consent. You cannot force a woman to carry a pregnancy to term, either. Not legally. We aren't talking about what you think is right, or feel ought to be done. What's at issue is what is legal, and what is not.
It's legal for consenting adults to have sex. It's legal for them to use contraceptives. It's legal for them to get pregnant. It's legal for them to choose to abort the pregnancy, or carry to term. It's legal to give up parental rights after birth. It is not legal to rape someone and purposefully get them pregnant. It is not legal to coerce or force a person to abort, OR to carry to term. It is not legal to kill a baby after live delivery.
Nowhere do any of those things involve feelings or emotions or calls to a higher authority, or a religious backing. You don't have to like it or approve of it. Neither do I. But those are, unless I'm greatly mistaken, fairly standard facts. Some of y'all may need to check yourselves, just a bit before digging those holes any deeper, neh?
I am not arguing the legality of abortion, I'm arguing the morality behind it. I don't really care whether it's legal or not, because I can't change that. All I can do is demonstrate why one may think, based on morality, that it shouldn't be.