MFrost wrote:I would just counsel the schools to shut down the bathrooms and bring in porta potties until such time the bathroom can be made to be single use.
1. No need for a gender identity crisis.
2. There is no sharing of facilities ,eliminating the fear of "my daughter is in the same restroom/shower as a what physically appears to be a boy.
--- I am assuming this extends to the usage of showers and girls locker room for any boy identifying themselves as a girl
3. It basically keeps the whole situation neutral and boys or girls identifying as the opposite sex can keep their own privacy without it being disclosed or becoming a gossip item for the whole school.
Since the fed is mandating this I would hope the fed is also funding the reconstruction of these facilities at the schools so they can easily comply with this order and avoid any potential class action lawsuits from parents should their daughter need therapy/psychiatric help due to being traumatized by being subjected to a loss of privacy and being forced to share facilities with what they perceive to be the opposite sex. Attorneys are going to have a field day with this one. 10-20K per parent in a semi-liberal state, if they get lucky, in a really conservative state down south x10 for this amount? Add in emotional distress, and a blatant disregard for the well being of a minor. will it be worth it?
So schools will need to weigh in the potential of law suits from parents who may have a phobia, warranted or not. and loss of federal funding. Sort of like a Cost risk analysis for the area the school is located in. Would they lose more thru lawsuits coming from parents or more if they lost federal funding. They would also need to weigh in the potential of a loss in students as more go to homeschooling therefore losing a portion of their state funding . What is the return on investment in complying vs. not complying. Do they want to wage the long legal battles against angry parents? Especially if they are in a district and state where they know a judge will side with the parents?
just some basic common sense being applied. my daughter has one more year of high school left and if they do this at her school and it stresses her or she comes home crying because of this i will not show mercy to the school district for subjecting her to conditions she did not agree to be subjected to. Under such circumstances I would reach out to just about every parent I could to join me in a multi-million if not billion dollar lawsuit. I would seek a lifetime worth of therapy to ensure her well being. Considering she is a minor and the depth and breath of the trauma caused is unknown. 1 mil x 2000 or so parents i do not know but this could get really expensive really fast. If they think they can just pay off and settle the state would still be looking at a few thousand schools. So how do you pay off a million angry parents demanding their children not be subjected to this?
Their best bet is to provide porta-potties and single person showers perhaps on a mobile trailer if need be. If they get state and federal funding then they can restructure and meet compliance with the law. i won't accept shortcuts and a statement of you will just have to live with it Hahahahahahaha too bad.
OR
we could stop worrying about it and let people self select what bathroom to use just like they have been with no trouble since we started having gender segregated public bathrooms.




everyone get to go home happy, so they spend a little extra for their own peace of mind. Would you still consider this discrimination as in omg the business or school went single occupancy to deny my right or my child's right to use a woman's restroom?