This brought what I will now call Shub-Niggurath's Paradox, or Cthulhu's Paradox for those of you not as fluent in the Cthulhu Mythos, to the forefront of my mind: is it worth turning people away from a religion if it means them loosing their moral inhibitions?
That is, is it worth having people finding their own grasp of morality without them breaking down along the way after having abandoned the baggage but cohesive former morals?
This is a common fallacy brought up by religious apologists: "morality is not possible without a God and/or religion". That's patently false, of course. If there is no God, and religion is false, we have indeed constructed a morality, just one muddied by superstition and gullibility. If there is a God, it's influence is rarely felt in the world anyway.
Religions rarely account for every single facet of reality and morality, from abortion to the consumption of drugs to euthanasia to murder in self-defense to bionics to cloning. What a lot of people don't realize is that it is ourselves that form a lot of the morality in our daily lives through our own personal feelings. Psychologists believe it is due to our maturation that our moral views change, and even that morals are an evolutionary adaptation that can be observed in other animals besides humans.
More disturbing than even my parents loosing their religion, literally and figuratively, is the horror stories I hear of desperate apologists claiming that, if their God were proven to not exist, they would indeed become murderers, rapists, thieves, or some abomination they can think of.
In my opinion... I suppose I'm a big fat baby, but I have avoided becoming a moral monster due to my atheism. If anything, I was more of a moral monster when I was a God-fearing Catholic. I was confused, desperate, depressed, accepting of my consignment to damnation... Until the logic bomb fell on me and I decided that I wasn't going to let my express ticket to afterlife Hell or current life Hell affect my behavior. My taste for violence, drugs and destruction dissipated around the same time, which also coincided with my arrival on NationStates. Which is why people who find hope in religion baffle me, especially considering that they often seem the least in need of a religion to keep their secret aspirations towards genocide and human intestine sampling in check.
So, to clarify the point of this thread: do religions control people? And if so, should they continue to be allowed to control people? Are some people just monsters that must be observed by an omnipotent bro-dude while bribed with eternal happiness and coerced with eternal punishment? Or do religions simply give people a purpose and hope where they would seen neither otherwise in this crazy universe of ours?
Also, is this thread too meta-religious? Also, is being meta-religious possible/intellectually disingenuous/hypocritical?
The latter is rhetorical.


