Natapoc wrote:Des-Bal wrote:
Definitions are for dictionaries. As a matter of simple realities feminism just doesn't work the way you're claiming it does.
Feminism is an idea. Feminists try, with varying degrees of success, to actualize that idea in the real world. Feminists are always talking about how we can try to do better at that.
Constructive criticism is always welcome within feminism (sometimes overly so... some feminists seem to spend all their time criticizing other feminists rather than confronting systematic sexism... but that's another topic)
Then why is it that feminists seem categorically unwilling to abandon their gynocentric lens of the situation, and instead adopt an approach that women are privileged in some spheres, men are privielged in some spheres, and in areas where one lags behind the other, we should raise them to equalize.
That both men and women oppress eachother and are oppressed by this system.
As you said, you don't believe there are any issues where men need to be raised to womens level.
I would argue this is sexism. It also happened to you because of feminist ideology.
It is precisely as sexist as thinking there are no issues where women need to be raised to mens level.



