The Flutterlands wrote:Luminesa wrote:
Just because I'm not having sex doesn't mean I'm "sexually repressing" myself. I'm a virgin. I've never had sex ever. But I still have totally embraced my femininity. I love being a girl, I love who I am as an individual, I am fearfully and wonderfully made, and that's how it should be.
That's the difference between sexual repression and...well, Theology of the Body. Understanding
the latter brings one fulfillment and peace in life, knowing that I can totally and happily be a girl-sexual being-and I can express my sexuality in ways besides hopping in bed with people. The former indeed brings pain and confusion, but if we take the time to learn who we are and how beautiful our bodies are, we don't have to live and to be afraid of ourselves.
I'm a cisgender guy and I'll most likely never have sex in my life. Not because of some desire to remain celibate, but because I consider myself asexual and I'm okay with that. So, another difference from 'sexual repression' is just a lack of interest in having sex in the first place.
I am also asexual... sort of. I am attracted to women, but I've never had any desire to have sex, not even in a dream.






