♫ Am I only dreaming, is this burning.. the eternal thread ♫

[Val Halla]

Cooties
*nods*

All I can come up with is "they're for girls, so if you buy it you're a girl"...

That's the shittiest logic I've ever heard.

People have shitty logic? *shrugs*

[Kannap]

Either you're a terrible dirty joke teller or this is an inside joke between you and friends 2-4. I fail to understand either

Cunning linguist. Say it ten times fast.

All I've got is somebody who's smart and can speak a few languages

[Gallade]

I still fail to see the issue. What's the difference in buying tampons or buying anything else?

Cooties
*nods*

All I can come up with is "they're for girls, so if you buy it you're a girl"...

Seems to be some in-built fear of being seen with anything remotely related to women's crotches. Same level of awkward shuffling when I'm with him in a lingerie section.

[Dyakovo]

Heh, I don't hid my feelings because of male pride. I hide them because I'm an ENTJ and that's what we do.

Is that a good thing, really?

No, hiding your feelings because you think you should based on a bad personality classification system is not a good thing.

[Kannap]

Cooties
*nods*

All I can come up with is "they're for girls, so if you buy it you're a girl"...

Seems to be some in-built fear of being seen with anything remotely related to women's crotches. Same level of awkward shuffling when I'm with him in a lingerie section.

I've no problem going into Victoria's secret with female friends. Nothing in there turns me on and I've no problem seeing it. I also fail to see how straight guys fear that store

[Liberonscien]

Cooties
*nods*

All I can come up with is "they're for girls, so if you buy it you're a girl"...

Seems to be some in-built fear of being seen with anything remotely related to women's crotches. Same level of awkward shuffling when I'm with him in a lingerie section.

I think it might be a fear of being seen as perverted.

[Valloria]

Cunning linguist. Say it ten times fast.

All I've got is somebody who's smart and can speak a few languages

<sigh>
I don't think I can make it any more clearer, aside from shouting it from the rooftops. But if you don't get it, that's perfectly okay.

[Kannap]

Seems to be some in-built fear of being seen with anything remotely related to women's crotches. Same level of awkward shuffling when I'm with him in a lingerie section.

I think it might be a fear of being seen as perverted.

Buying tampons or lingerie for your partner is perverted? How so?

[Liberonscien]

Seems to be some in-built fear of being seen with anything remotely related to women's crotches. Same level of awkward shuffling when I'm with him in a lingerie section.

I've no problem going into Victoria's secret with female friends. Nothing in there turns me on and I've no problem seeing it. I also fail to see how straight guys fear that store

Afraid of being seen turned on and seen as perverts?

[Jute]

Cunning linguist. Say it ten times fast.

All I've got is somebody who's smart and can speak a few languages

Hey, did you see my post at the top of the page? I actually am in a somewhat similar situation as you, as in I might share your wish, although I'm not sure yet It's interesting to meet other people with similar feelings to you when these are kinda uncommon.

[Valloria]

Is that a good thing, really?

No, hiding your feelings because you think you should based on a bad personality classification system is not a good thing.

I've been hiding my feelings long before I discovered MBTI. I was bullied severely as a child for being emotionally "available" (a.k.a. effeminate), and so I developed it as a shield.

[Liberonscien]

I think it might be a fear of being seen as perverted.

Buying tampons or lingerie for your partner is perverted? How so?

For looking at it and possibly getting turned on.

[Jute]

I think it might be a fear of being seen as perverted.

Buying tampons or lingerie for your partner is perverted? How so?

No, but that somehow it'll be assumed that they want it for themselves.

[Gallade]

Seems to be some in-built fear of being seen with anything remotely related to women's crotches. Same level of awkward shuffling when I'm with him in a lingerie section.

I've no problem going into Victoria's secret with female friends. Nothing in there turns me on and I've no problem seeing it. I also fail to see how straight guys fear that store

What Lib said about being seen as perverted, probably. Which is stupid, he's clearly with me.

[Liberonscien]

Buying tampons or lingerie for your partner is perverted? How so?

No, but that somehow it'll be assumed that they want it for themselves.

Murphy's law.

[Liberonscien]

I've no problem going into Victoria's secret with female friends. Nothing in there turns me on and I've no problem seeing it. I also fail to see how straight guys fear that store

What Lib said about being seen as perverted, probably. Which is stupid, he's clearly with me.

Agreed.

[Kannap]

Buying tampons or lingerie for your partner is perverted? How so?

For looking at it and possibly getting turned on.

It's not publicly announced when you're turned on, only the penis owner knows. People don't assume you're in a lingerie store to masturbate, they assume you're there shopping for a gal

[Jute]

No, hiding your feelings because you think you should based on a bad personality classification system is not a good thing.

I've been hiding my feelings long before I discovered MBTI. I was bullied severely as a child for being emotionally "available" (a.k.a. effeminate), and so I developed it as a shield.

Maybe it's time you let go of it and try to accept who you are? Not that I'd pressure you into doing so, but you might turn out to be happier if you're no longer hiding your personality. This seems rather universal among most people, and I think I myself would belong there as well.

[Barboneia]

I'm honestly surprised that I was so far able to get, like, 5 people onboard already with my new RP.

[Jute]

I'm honestly surprised that I was so far able to get, like, 5 people onboard already with my new RP.

See, there was no need to question your abilities as rp operator

[Val Halla]

Buying tampons or lingerie for your partner is perverted? How so?

For looking at it and possibly getting turned on.

Clothes can do that?

[Jute]

For looking at it and possibly getting turned on.

Clothes can do that?

Yes, it's one of the reasons cross-dressing exists, for example.

[Gallade]

No, hiding your feelings because you think you should based on a bad personality classification system is not a good thing.

I've been hiding my feelings long before I discovered MBTI. I was bullied severely as a child for being emotionally "available" (a.k.a. effeminate), and so I developed it as a shield.

You're 14, right? I know it sounds terribly dismissive to say you'll grow out of it, but you will. I've seen this behaviour dozens of times at work; as the years between the bullying years and your current state widen you'll start opening up. No need to obsess over it, just let it happen.

And report any future bullying, of course.

[Barboneia]

I'm honestly surprised that I was so far able to get, like, 5 people onboard already with my new RP.

See, there was no need to question your abilities as rp operator

Indeed. Im planning on making a spiritual successor to my first RP in a month or two.

[Jute]

I've been hiding my feelings long before I discovered MBTI. I was bullied severely as a child for being emotionally "available" (a.k.a. effeminate), and so I developed it as a shield.

You're 14, right? I know it sounds terribly dismissive to say you'll grow out of it, but you will. I've seen this behaviour dozens of times at work; as the years between the bullying years and your current state widen you'll start opening up. No need to obsess over it, just let it happen.

And report any future bullying, of course.

I think I can somewhat confirm this