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by Iniika » Tue Jan 19, 2010 2:49 pm
Imsogone wrote:
If you read the article, you know that more women are getting degrees than men - this is a worrying trend.
If you read the article, you know that men are getting laid off their jobs at a greater rate than women - this is a worrying trend.
You can't pick and choose the parts of the article that support your argument without looking at those that support mine.
Now, let's play nice. If you don't like the taste of the words I put in your mouth you can understand why I don't like the taste of the words you put in mine.
by Iron Chariots » Tue Jan 19, 2010 2:50 pm
Tradition is just a damn euphemism for "it's broken but we ain't fixin' it"
by The Parkus Empire » Tue Jan 19, 2010 2:52 pm
by Flameswroth » Tue Jan 19, 2010 2:52 pm
Iniika wrote: in the coming decades hoards of women brain surgeons are going to decend upon the male population and perform wide spread lobotomies so that the only purpose they would serve is as living sperm banks.
Czardas wrote:Why should we bail out climate change with billions of dollars, when lesbians are starving in the streets because they can't afford an abortion?
Reagan Clone wrote:What you are proposing is glorifying God by loving, respecting, or at least tolerating, his other creations.
That is the gayest fucking shit I've ever heard, and I had Barry Manilow perform at the White House in '82.
by Flameswroth » Tue Jan 19, 2010 2:54 pm
The Parkus Empire wrote:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRdfX7ut8gw
Czardas wrote:Why should we bail out climate change with billions of dollars, when lesbians are starving in the streets because they can't afford an abortion?
Reagan Clone wrote:What you are proposing is glorifying God by loving, respecting, or at least tolerating, his other creations.
That is the gayest fucking shit I've ever heard, and I had Barry Manilow perform at the White House in '82.
by Jello Biafra » Tue Jan 19, 2010 3:41 pm
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by The High Lizzleness » Tue Jan 19, 2010 4:03 pm
by Venetoland » Tue Jan 19, 2010 4:04 pm
by Flameswroth » Tue Jan 19, 2010 4:19 pm
UnhealthyTruthseeker wrote:FW, your framework is logically inconsistent.
Czardas wrote:Why should we bail out climate change with billions of dollars, when lesbians are starving in the streets because they can't afford an abortion?
Reagan Clone wrote:What you are proposing is glorifying God by loving, respecting, or at least tolerating, his other creations.
That is the gayest fucking shit I've ever heard, and I had Barry Manilow perform at the White House in '82.
by UnhealthyTruthseeker » Tue Jan 19, 2010 4:20 pm
Flameswroth wrote:Yeah, I got that impression. Don't really think that way because it's logical though.
by Barringtonia » Tue Jan 19, 2010 6:15 pm
by Cajunramfan » Tue Jan 19, 2010 6:18 pm
by Barringtonia » Tue Jan 19, 2010 6:23 pm
Cajunramfan wrote:In this day and age were lucky that people can decide what works best for them. im all for it as long as it doesnt harm the kids. i would love to have a husband who could cook (because i cant). just throwing that out there
by Cajunramfan » Tue Jan 19, 2010 6:24 pm
Barringtonia wrote:Cajunramfan wrote:In this day and age were lucky that people can decide what works best for them. im all for it as long as it doesnt harm the kids. i would love to have a husband who could cook (because i cant). just throwing that out there
I suspect the generation from 21-39 missed the boat in that respect, men will quickly have to realise that cooking is an accomplishment.
I almost suspect men would be more efficient and happier in housework and women would be happier working to some extent.
by The Congregationists » Tue Jan 19, 2010 6:49 pm
Iniika wrote:You're really going to have to explain to me how more women than men getting university degrees is a sign of the coming male supression because I'm just not seeing it. I'm seeing it (in the positive) as more women are being motivated toward education or (in the negative) less men are being motivated toward higher education. This speaks more to me of personal ambition, rather than gender supression. Men aren't being denied education or being charged more for education, so this argument seems to be a conspiracy theory in your own mind, ie in the coming decades hoards of women brain surgeons are going to decend upon the male population and perform wide spread lobotomies so that the only purpose they would serve is as living sperm banks. Or something.
by Callisdrun » Tue Jan 19, 2010 7:18 pm
Flameswroth wrote:
You know, I have sat back the past few minutes and taken the time to ponder this. At first I speculated regarding several men I know who are home husbands and are a far cry from what I'd classify as real men, but that's no basis for such 'evidence', since I could be making it up as far as you know, AND it may be a far too limited pool to draw from. Then I thought maybe I'd call on that biological inequity, citing that women simply have babies, and in response men simply must work. But really, that's a false analogy and not really compelling even if it weren't.
So I will withdraw my claim that I have seen evidence of men being less than men for choosing to not have jobs, on those grounds and on the grounds that the definition of 'manliness', especially in the upcoming generation, does not necessarily agree with my own.
Instead, I will say this much -- the traditions of gender roles in marriages/parenting that were ingrained in me have put me in a mindset where, if I do not have a job, I am a failure as a man. I feel this is proper, and would think less of myself otherwise. In that sense I have a habit of mirroring that personal standard onto other men, though they may not share that same mentality. However, I will continue to reflect that onto men in my immediate social circle and behave accordingly.
So to really answer your question, paraphrased as 'how can one hold such an illogical standpoint with no real world subject matter to back it up', I suppose my answer is that it's comfortable for me to do so, since I've had these feeling instilled in me from my youth, and I don't care to change them now. Throw in a little insecurity too, as I would certainly feel like less of a man without a job.
by Flameswroth » Wed Jan 20, 2010 8:48 am
Callisdrun wrote:Since the workplace is an invention of civilization, it's not down to biological inequalities.
As for a man earning less than his wife... I'm almost certain to. My ladyfriend of five years is going for her doctorate. I will probably get no more than a bachelor's, teaching credential or at most a master's. This doesn't really bother me. The money's all going the same place anyway.
I wouldn't mind being a househusband either. It was instilled in me when I was a kid that housework is important, especially with a high-maintenance house, and children. It isn't demeaning for women to stay at home or make less money than their husbands, so obviously it must not be demeaning for men to stay at home or make less money than their wives.
Czardas wrote:Why should we bail out climate change with billions of dollars, when lesbians are starving in the streets because they can't afford an abortion?
Reagan Clone wrote:What you are proposing is glorifying God by loving, respecting, or at least tolerating, his other creations.
That is the gayest fucking shit I've ever heard, and I had Barry Manilow perform at the White House in '82.
by Wallonochia » Wed Jan 20, 2010 8:51 am
Flameswroth wrote:Yeah, that's why I figured it wouldn't be a compelling argument. It'd be a desperate attempt at justification for a position I realize is not really, logically, supportable.
by Sun Aut Ex » Wed Jan 20, 2010 9:53 am
Smunkeeville wrote:Can you explain to me what is so degrading about staying home or making less money than your partner?
Strykyh wrote:I wasn't trying to be intelligent.
Keronians wrote:So you think it's ok to waste valuable police time and resources to pander to minority superstitions?
"All available officers, report downtown, armed suspected firing wildly into the public."
"I'll be about ten minutes, I have to go to ID a Muslim woman."
Yes.
Unless of course it's not OK for a woman to ask for a female to ask for a female officer to carry out body checks. In which case, the answer would be no.
"All available officers, report downtown, armed suspected firing wildly into the public."
"I'll be about then minutes, I have to go to carry out a body check on a woman."
by Flameswroth » Wed Jan 20, 2010 10:07 am
Sun Aut Ex wrote:Smunkeeville wrote:Can you explain to me what is so degrading about staying home or making less money than your partner?
There's actually been cases where the working wife lost so much respect for the stay at home husband that the marriage was destroyed. Think I actually read it that article on here, one upon a time.
Czardas wrote:Why should we bail out climate change with billions of dollars, when lesbians are starving in the streets because they can't afford an abortion?
Reagan Clone wrote:What you are proposing is glorifying God by loving, respecting, or at least tolerating, his other creations.
That is the gayest fucking shit I've ever heard, and I had Barry Manilow perform at the White House in '82.
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