Ethel mermania wrote:Barboneia wrote:I don't even remember now. I knew the concepts of cremation and burying. They never told me anything, so I really don't know. The thing is, I wasn't even told how he died. I don't want to live the rest of my life knowing my father died without even finding out how. Even if it was something embarrassing like genital mutilation I'd still want to know.
It's hard to know what to tell a kid, if it turns oUT they lied to you about it, just know it was to protect you. even if they were wrong, they were trying to do the right thing.
I know. I suprisingly got over his death rather quickly. I was an emotional wreck for about a week, and then I just went back to normal.





