Dating Ideals

[The Alexanderians]

I just saw a thread talking about dating deal breakers, so I figured I'd do the opposite. There's no poll for this one as I figure that a persons preferences would be hard to cover with a simple poll. Keep in mind these are ideals as in perfect not realistic/likely

My Ideal would be:

Physical:
Female (MtF isn't much of an issue for me, "if it's pretty, there is no gay" and all that)
Irish decent
Red-head with green eyes
Taller than I am
Freckles are a plus
I'm fond of breasts especially larger ones C and larger (it's a fetish sue me)
Cute faces as opposed to seductive ones though I'm good for either



Personality:
Gentle but not a push over
Sporty
Ideally an Orthodox Christian (same as me, it makes things less awkward. I don't have to explain anything to them and I'm not looked down on for it) but really I'll take anyone not anti-theist.
Bi-sexual (I for what ever reason get along really well with bi-sexual women and lesbians...common topic of interest perhaps?)
Bit of a tomboy (I want someone that's both a girlfriend and a best friend)
Plays video games (if she can keep up or kick my ass at my games I certainly won't be complaining)
Likes guns (I'm no redneck by any stretch of the imagination but I do appreciate a quality firearm -alternatively- some guys have their cars I have firearms)
Is respectful of my choice to wait before having sex in a relationship (not till marriage but just not right away either)
Is ok with passive birth controls like pills and condoms
And at the end of the day I want to be able to fall asleep holding her and her holding me (Is that corny?)

[MERIZoC]

A face is a must.

[Zottistan]

Independent, non-monogamous, non-demanding.
And a nice ass.

[Conserative Morality]

Intelligent
Shared interests
Not terribly shockingly larger or smaller than me
Pretty (But in my experience, most people are)
Must be somewhat aggressive in the same vein I am. I wouldn't be able to deal with someone who doesn't step up to an argument with a bit of foam around their mouth.

Oh, and a beautiful nose.

[Mike the Progressive]

Face and body, everything else is meh.

[United Marxist Nations]

I prefer that my lovers not be sheep, for I despise the Welsh.

[Kelinfort]

Ideal:

Intelligent, articulate, attractive...


And that's all. Basically my current partner.

[Conserative Morality]

I prefer that my lovers not be sheep, for I despise the Welsh.

Why do I love you more with every post you make?

[United Marxist Nations]

I prefer that my lovers not be sheep, for I despise the Welsh.

Why do I love you more with every post you make?

Presumably my lack of sheep-buggering.

[Alcase]

1. She must either play a sport or work out regularly
2. She must be interesting and funny when talking to
3. She must have a nice ass and a pretty face.

EDIT: If she runs track or plays soccer +99

[Jatekia]

Smart. Preferably very smart
Now, of course, I would lie saying I don't care about beauty.

[Fremskrittspartiet]

As for looks I don't really care, the only criteria is that you are a humanoid.

Personality wise there's a lot more. Like the ability to notice when some kind of food changes their recipe, so that we can complain and grieve together. Same political opinions, they have to like at least some of the music I like and don't be that kind who is so pretenisous about liking English better than Norwegian (This, of course, doesn't apply to you if you don't speak Norwegian), they will "fight" me when I say "Do you want to fight?" and just don't be problematic.

[Scepez]

She should breathe, I reckon.

[Udinia]

Socialist
Sexually Reserved
Not white (sry my white peeps, just my preference)
Not skinny
Not fat
Not blonde
Car fanatic
Linguistics lover

[The Nokos]

-Man
-early 20's
-American (I don't know why...shut up)
-White
-Must be submissive in bed

[Soldati Senza Confini]

Mmmm am I one of those people who's got no ideals in here? *sigh* I'll post what I look always when I consider dating instead:

Open minded
Knows how to dress appropriately
Can talk, good communication skills.
Somewhere in the center of the political spectrum
Well kept hair and body, or trying to
Health conscious
Can take herself not seriously and enjoys a good laugh
Likes to get physical (sensually or in sports)
Enjoys sex. Or at least knows how to be sensual/sexual and is not afraid of the word "fuck", " dick, "pussy", etc.
Has a diverse sense of humor
Submissive in bed
Is independent out of the bedroom.
Can appreciate me for who I am.
A good taste in music and literature.
Knows how to cook and do house chores as well as being a career woman (I know how to cook and do house chores, I sorta expect the same from my partner)
A strong, vocal sense of right and wrong and can be loyal to someone/something.
Can confront me and joke at my expense when I'm on a jolly mood.
Is kinky. Being polygamous/polyamorous or monogamous/monoamorous is not a bother, as long as we keep things equal (wanna sleep with other people? Fine, just don't go off on me if I do)

That's all I can think for now

[Arkolon]

Oh, and a beautiful nose.

+1, cannot agree more.

[Threlizdun]

Ideally a radical leftist, though just being able to respect such views is fine. Similar interests and a similar sense of humor should be rather obvious. Able to support me but at the same time needs some support themselves, since otherwise I would feel like I was taking from them without being able to give anything in return. They would absolutely have to be polyamorous. They would need to be kink-friendly though ideally would be kinky themselves. I usually get along better and feel more attracted to people that don't identify entirely as cisgender or heterosexual. I would prefer that they weren't religious, since even though I wouldn't have problems with it if they don't force it on me I don't personally know how to really respond to religion in people's lives. Vegetarianism or veganism is preferred and would make meals easier. Fortunately, I've found someone with all of these traits, with the only exception being that they're a pescetarian rather a vegetarian, though this is for health reasons.

[Sebastianbourg]

• Preferably white although I don't mind exceptionally-attractive East Asians or Bollywood actress lookalikes. Arabs and Jews would be included in the white category for simplicity's sake;
• Submissive;
• Long legs;
• Medium-sized breasts;
• Introverted;
• Well-read;
• Catholic, Anglican, Orthodox, agnostic or respectfully atheist;
• Can cook and maintain a household;
• Attractive face.

[The New Sea Territory]

Someone who knows what they are talking about. They don't have to be talking about anarchism, like me, because that would be too much to ask for. Just someone who is knowledgeable in some way, not an idiot. Liking some kind of music that isn't pop, because, again, finding someone who likes powerviolence and post-black metal like me is simply too specific, and very few people like it.

Um. For men, I like a guy who is taller than me. It's the opposite for women. I like black or unnatural hair colors.

[Sebastianbourg]

I like black or unnatural hair colors.

It's exactly the opposite for me; I don't really care for hair colour as long as it is not obvious you've dyed your hair.

[The New Sea Territory]

I like black or unnatural hair colors.

It's exactly the opposite for me; I don't really care for hair colour as long as it is not obvious you've dyed your hair.

...well, there's more to dyed hair than just splattering color on. If it looks like plastic, then it's gross. But dyed hair can look good. Specifically darker colors, like purple or blue.

[Sebastianbourg]

It's exactly the opposite for me; I don't really care for hair colour as long as it is not obvious you've dyed your hair.

...well, there's more to dyed hair than just splattering color on. If it looks like plastic, then it's gross. But dyed hair can look good. Specifically darker colors, like purple or blue.

To each his own.

[Lordieth]

A face is a must.

Pfft. So picky.

[Jamjai]

Phew, I was kinda having a hard time with the thread opposite of this

my ideals
- being tall
-having good hair
-being mature(not being embarrassment to myself)
-pale person

hmm..the only things I can come with right now