Dating: What are your deal-breakers?

[Kazarogkai]

I personally am a Spiritual person overall but am not religious, I do have a belief in the supernatural and the occult to one degree or another. But I am not apart of any organized religion like say Christianity or Islam, nor do I ever intend on being with one for I see them as truly negative and damaging influences on society that must be eradicated in the name of national unity and stability and the overall greater good of all. I wouldn't be able to stand living with anyone who is actually a professed member of honestly any organized religion for the most part, I can handle a belief in god or heck even witchcraft or whatever but wouldn't wish to have a partner who was a member of any of the organized religious groups.

If I can say I don't want to date atheists, I guess, fair enough.

Agread I don't like religious people you don't like atheist, It is a free country choose what you like.

[Threlizdun]

I know. You're still pretty old fashioned in dating tho.
Open minded? Yes. But not necessarily in everything.

Old fashioned? Perhaps. I have nothing but disdain for the way dating is handled in our culture today. It's all about sex sex sex, nothing else.

Interesting, as I honestly have yet to have talked with a friend who dated for sex rather than the desire to develop a meaningful emotional attachment to someone.

No, the vast majority don't forbid divorce, though it's charming that you believe you get to decide what the true Christian churches are.

Catholicism is by far the largest Christian sect, having a billion followers. The second biggest is Orthodoxy, which is also, as far as I know, against divorce.

We weren't discussing what the largest sect was, but if most sects allowed divorce. Two sects are not most sects.

And no, I don't get to decide which Christian sects are the true ones, history does. Christ founded one Apostolic Church, and that Church fragmented into several legitimate parts. Protestants rebelled, left the true Church, and lost Apostolic Succession, and with it, any validity.

Interesting, since historians identify this as an attempt to reform the Catholic Church that resulted in the creation of new sects, not a movement in which people ceased to be Christians. Not even the Catholic Church argues such nonsense as the claim that Protestants aren't Christians. They will argue they they are missing part of how Christ wanted them to live and worship, but they are not identified as Non-Christians.

[Imyoji]

I would definitely not date someone who wants me for the sex alone, an ultra conservative nutter, or an abject racist.

Eh. I dunno.

[New haven america]

So I shouldn't have divorced my husband when he began abusing me?

No, you would be correct to have separated yourself from him, for your own well being. In such a situation, I would never remarry, because I do not believe in such. I cannot remarry, if I am still married in the eyes of God.

... You do know marriage existed before Christianity, right...?

[Volbach]

Anyone who isn't a white European. I have never found attraction towards anyone who isn't a white European.
Politically, liberals and neo-cons are a big no. Libcons I'd be fine with.
Religiously, if they're Muslim, then its an even bigger no.

[Saiwania]

I believe in remarriage. I mean my dad has been married 3 times already.

Hmm, he must've lost up to half of his material wealth each time.

[Thermodolia]

No, you would be correct to have separated yourself from him, for your own well being. In such a situation, I would never remarry, because I do not believe in such. I cannot remarry, if I am still married in the eyes of God.

... You do know marriage existed before Christianity, right...?

Don't tell him that, his brain might explode!

[Thermodolia]

Anyone who isn't a white European. I have never found attraction towards anyone who isn't a white European.
Politically, liberals and neo-cons are a big no. Libcons I'd be fine with.
Religiously, if they're Muslim, then its an even bigger no.

So a white Australian or Asian is a big no-no?

[Volbach]

Anyone who isn't a white European. I have never found attraction towards anyone who isn't a white European.
Politically, liberals and neo-cons are a big no. Libcons I'd be fine with.
Religiously, if they're Muslim, then its an even bigger no.

So a white Australian or Asian is a big no-no?

Yup. If it isn't European I wouldn't be attracted to them.

[Thermodolia]

Old fashioned? Perhaps. I have nothing but disdain for the way dating is handled in our culture today. It's all about sex sex sex, nothing else.

Interesting, as I honestly have yet to have talked with a friend who dated for sex rather than the desire to develop a meaningful emotional attachment to someone.

I think dating for sex is called "Friends with benefits".

[Thermodolia]

So a white Australian or Asian is a big no-no?

Yup. If it isn't European I wouldn't be attracted to them.

Your kidding right?

[-Ebola-]

So a white Australian or Asian is a big no-no?

Yup. If it isn't European I wouldn't be attracted to them.

Why? Is it the accent or something about the culture or what?

[The Shoah]

A deal breaker for me would be anyone heavily in debt.

[Volbach]

Yup. If it isn't European I wouldn't be attracted to them.

Your kidding right?

Why would I be kidding?

Yup. If it isn't European I wouldn't be attracted to them.

Why? Is it the accent or something about the culture or what?

I find European Culture, especially Slavic culture, to be incredibly interesting. Shame the EU is letting Arabs try to turn Europe into Saudi Arabia 2.0 and erase our culture.

[Thermodolia]

Your kidding right?

Why would I be kidding?

Sometimes you can't tell if people are serious or not on the Internet

[-The West Coast-]

If she hates reading books, or has a gap in her teeth, its an immediate deal breaker.

[Master Shake]

Interesting, as I honestly have yet to have talked with a friend who dated for sex rather than the desire to develop a meaningful emotional attachment to someone.

I think dating for sex is called "Friends with benefits".

What? What other point is there to dating?

Friends with benefits is exactly as it sounds. You have numerous women who need sex and don't want a relationship. My dad has like 3 chicks he has sex with regularly, but they aren't his girlfriends. He is 65 years old too, so he ain't a kid.

[Volbach]

Why would I be kidding?

Sometimes you can't tell if people are serious or not on the Internet

Well, I'm dead serious.

[Asterdan]

Using anything that alters her state of mind (not including prescribed drugs or laughing gas at a dentist)... I try to stay away from those girls for the most part (in a dating scenario, they're awesome friends). Oh, having a penis is also a deal-breaker.

[Furry Alairia and Algeria]

If [s]he hunts
If [s]he's overly religious(explained)
If [s]he wears real animal fur
and if not a furry :>Then it's a no.

[Furry Alairia and Algeria]

I think dating for sex is called "Friends with benefits".

What? What other point is there to dating?

Friends with benefits is exactly as it sounds. You have numerous women who need sex and don't want a relationship. My dad has like 3 chicks he has sex with regularly, but they aren't his girlfriends. He is 65 years old too, so he ain't a kid.

Or men.

[Master Shake]

Using anything that alters her state of mind (not including prescribed drugs or laughing gas at a dentist)... I try to stay away from those girls for the most part (in a dating scenario, they're awesome friends). Oh, having a penis is also a deal-breaker.

prescribtion drugs like Prozac and Xanax turn you into a sexless zombie, but I guess since you agree with doctors "orders" then it is okay if you date someone who doesn't say anything and acts like she is drunk(xanax's buzz is similar to alcoholic intoxication). In other words avoid pill heads. They are bad news!

More of my beautiful trans sisters for me then...transophobe!

[Master Shake]

What? What other point is there to dating?

Friends with benefits is exactly as it sounds. You have numerous women who need sex and don't want a relationship. My dad has like 3 chicks he has sex with regularly, but they aren't his girlfriends. He is 65 years old too, so he ain't a kid.

Or men.

Esp if they are twinky or emo and have nice eyes....ohh now I gotta write my boy toy a letter/email...

[The Union of the West]

Let's see... Deal-breakers (in no particular order):

-Atheism
-Alcoholism
-Use of illegal drugs
-Political Apathy
-Lack of intelligence
-Bad hygiene
-Obsession with fictional characters
-Tumblr Feminism

[-Ebola-]

Why? Is it the accent or something about the culture or what?

I find European Culture, especially Slavic culture, to be incredibly interesting. Shame the EU is letting Arabs try to turn Europe into Saudi Arabia 2.0 and erase our culture.

European culture is cool, but I don't see how that makes Australians not attractive.