Dating: What are your deal-breakers?

[Puryong]

I hate people that smoke and if a girl is known to party like every week it's a huge turn off (here in Norway most times partying everyweek = have banged half the city). I don't require her to be a virgin, but her sexual partners shouldn't be above 2-3 which is a reasonable number for girls my age (17).

She shouldn't be mean to other people and should be kind too. My mother isn't a kind person when talking about other people or talking behind others back for example, which I hate with passion. For me, a kind girl is a big turn on.

You people who have big mouths to judge others about their promiscuity remembered to take your three anti-HPV shots before losing your own virginity? It catches everybody, is carcinogenic and has no cure, condoms are little effective.

^ preach

[Furry Alairia and Algeria]

I wouldn't date someone who is:

A hunter
Against vegetanarism
Racist
Sexist
Homophobic
Unwilling to have children
Libertarian
Mean to animals, especially mines
Against Hugs
Clingy
Somewhat unfaithful, unless it's a polyamorous
Forces their religion on me
Forces their morals on me
Unwilling to have sex
Doesn't drink
Hates Music
Pro-Life
Against Cookies
Not Caring

... You wouldn't date someone because they don't drink? O.o

I like a person who drinks, but that one does get twisted a lot.

[Grad Duchy of Luxembourg]

... You wouldn't date someone because they don't drink? O.o

I like a person who drinks, but that one does get twisted a lot.

What's your choice of poison, mate?

[Furry Alairia and Algeria]

I like a person who drinks, but that one does get twisted a lot.

What's your choice of poison, mate?

If we're talking about poison now, then Cyanide.
Or nothing could work

[Puryong]

What's your choice of poison, mate?

If we're talking about poison now, then Cyanide.
Or nothing could work

Poison in that context means alcoholic beverage.

[Grad Duchy of Luxembourg]

What's your choice of poison, mate?

If we're talking about poison now, then Cyanide.
Or nothing could work

drink, i meant. Funny though.

[Memell]

I find myself generally not attracted to people that aren´t European/ don´t have European ethnicity, with few exceptions.

[Furry Alairia and Algeria]

If we're talking about poison now, then Cyanide.
Or nothing could work

Poison in that context means alcoholic beverage.

I misinterpretate deliberately sometimes, when we're not in a serious argument.

If we're talking about poison now, then Cyanide.
Or nothing could work

drink, i meant. Funny though.

I can't be sure of that.

[Genivaria]

I don't mind if their religious, but being very preachy and having a need to convert me is very much a deal breaker.

Thankfully my Samantha has never been anything but respectful whenever we disagree and I love her for that.

[Thermodolia]

I wouldn't date someone who is:

A hunter
Against vegetanarism
Racist
Sexist
Homophobic
Unwilling to have children
Libertarian
Mean to animals, especially mines
Against Hugs
Clingy
Somewhat unfaithful, unless it's a polyamorous
Forces their religion on me
Forces their morals on me
Unwilling to have sex
Doesn't drink
Hates Music
Pro-Life
Against Cookies
Not Caring

Well it looks like according to the ones I highlighted I couldn't date you. Also what is it with everyone hating on libertarians!
Though I do love to drink!

[Furry Alairia and Algeria]

I wouldn't date someone who is:

A hunter
Against vegetanarism
Racist
Sexist
Homophobic
Unwilling to have children
Libertarian
Mean to animals, especially mines
Against Hugs
Clingy
Somewhat unfaithful, unless it's a polyamorous
Forces their religion on me
Forces their morals on me
Unwilling to have sex
Doesn't drink
Hates Music
Pro-Life
Against Cookies
Not Caring

Well it looks like according to the ones I highlighted I couldn't date you. Also what is it with everyone hating on libertarians!
Though I do love to drink!

And thus the drinking portion has been overruled in your case.

[-Ebola-]

Someone asked me that on the 2nd date once. The relationship didn't last long. (Obviously, this post is OOC, not my Ebola schtick. Ebola doesn't go on dates unless someone has a really fucked up fetish or something.)

I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about heritage, if that's a direction in which the conversation is going then you might as well explore it. Unless you randomly burst out "what's your heritage" but then the problem is more a lack of social skills rather than a desire to know about somebody's heritage.

In the case I was talking about, the guy was racist and wanted to make sure I was really white.

[The Princes of the Universe]

Someone asked me that on the 2nd date once. The relationship didn't last long. (Obviously, this post is OOC, not my Ebola schtick. Ebola doesn't go on dates unless someone has a really fucked up fetish or something.)

One-night stands, right?

[Furry Alairia and Algeria]

In my years of dating not once has it come the conversation of "what's your heritage?"

And even then all I could say is "fucked if I know".

Someone asked me that on the 2nd date once. The relationship didn't last long. (Obviously, this post is OOC, not my Ebola schtick. Ebola doesn't go on dates unless someone has a really fucked up fetish or something.)

Define fucked up.

[Thermodolia]

Someone asked me that on the 2nd date once. The relationship didn't last long. (Obviously, this post is OOC, not my Ebola schtick. Ebola doesn't go on dates unless someone has a really fucked up fetish or something.)

One-night stands, right?

One-night stands is one of my favorite things to do.

[-Ebola-]

Someone asked me that on the 2nd date once. The relationship didn't last long. (Obviously, this post is OOC, not my Ebola schtick. Ebola doesn't go on dates unless someone has a really fucked up fetish or something.)

One-night stands, right?

More like just climbing in people's bodies without asking. Bodily sovereignty is less of a concern when you're dealing with different species.

[-Ebola-]

Someone asked me that on the 2nd date once. The relationship didn't last long. (Obviously, this post is OOC, not my Ebola schtick. Ebola doesn't go on dates unless someone has a really fucked up fetish or something.)

Define fucked up.

The kind of thing where someone thinks it's hot to be exposed to deadly viruses.

[The Princes of the Universe]

One-night stands, right?

More like just climbing in people's bodies without asking. Bodily sovereignty is less of a concern when you're dealing with different species.

Good point.

[Furry Alairia and Algeria]

Define fucked up.

The kind of thing where someone thinks it's hot to be exposed to deadly viruses.

I'm surprised that you haven't found someone like that

[The Grand World Order]

Deal-breakers?

Disloyal whores. Fatness. Drug addictions. Inability to withstand my humor. Rudeness. Any of a number of fetishes (e.g. scat, infantilism, extreme BDSM, and more) that turn me off. "Airheadedness," or when a woman is absolutely into party and club culture, celebrity news, et cetera, yet utterly clueless about actual world events. Psychotic tendencies. Extreme neuroticism. Mind games.

Ultimately, in a long term partner, I also want to make sure they're the kind of person I want taking care of my children. If they display traits of an abusive or uncaring parent, they don't have a future with me. They also have to be presentable to the public- I'm planning to be a politician after all, and I'll be working with the Federal government for the rest of my life.

[Mikeswill]

I wouldn't date someone who has the same genitalia as I do.

Sorry boys.

[The United Neptumousian Empire]

Being an atheist, being sexually / socially liberal, and most of all, being pro-choice. The sole moral purpose of dating is to find a spouse, I do not want anything to do with someone who thinks otherwise, romantically. And if I marry somebody, they better not believe in divorce because I won't consent to or acknowledge one as long as I live. Marriage is an insoluble vow before God.

Also has to be willing to raise kids Catholic. I don't care if they're a different religion, as long as they meet the above criteria, are willing to have a Catholic wedding ceremony, and raise any children as Catholics.

You sound like a barrel of fun

You're stronger than I, I suppose.

I couldn't stay with someone who did that.

There's nothing strong about failing to end an unhealthy relationship.

There's nothing strong about shirking sacred vows. Marriage is a life long contract. If you divorce, then you're an oathbreaker.

[The United Neptumousian Empire]

She is pro-choice or an atheist. Either one is a no go for me.

I would understand the pro-choice part, but the atheist part seems needlessly discriminator.

The first one is basically a given that comes in a bundle with the second.

[Furry Alairia and Algeria]

You sound like a barrel of fun
There's nothing strong about failing to end an unhealthy relationship.

There's nothing strong about shirking sacred vows. Marriage is a life long contract. If you divorce, then you're an oathbreaker.

And people like you really are my deal breakers.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

There's nothing strong about shirking sacred vows. Marriage is a life long contract. If you divorce, then you're an oathbreaker.

Nope. An act of disloyalty makes you an oathbreaker.

The person who did nothing wrong doesn't deserve further guilt because they want to divorce the disloyal person. Theres nothing to feel sorry about leaving a toxic marriage to preserve your self-respect.

I would love my wife, but I will always love myself a bit more.