Dating: What are your deal-breakers?

[Soldati Senza Confini]

As long as she is not a murdering psychopath who'd enjoy to flay me alive I am generally okay with it.

Aww damn, I'll have to cancel the birthday present I bought you then.

Oh joy, is it a yandere waifu?

[Mike the Progressive]

So right hand? Or left hand when you're feeling adventurous?

It's not that hard to find someone like she describes.

Shit. I'm more picky than she is when I'm looking for something serious.

my point is were all racist and sexist, even if we push poistive atributes or steresotypes. remember absolutely not racist an dsexist is absolute egalitarian and equal in views and treatment and thats not simpy true. we all have biases, subconsciously not subconsciencely

[Brydog]

Racist, thats the only thing I can think of at the moment.

[Coffee Cakes]

Cheers! :3

\o/

[Stagnant Axon Terminal]

So right hand? Or left hand when you're feeling adventurous?

It's not that hard to find someone like she describes.

Shit. I'm more picky than she is when I'm looking for something serious.

Well those are the "deal breakers," everything else is on a case by case basis.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

As long as she is not a murdering psychopath who'd enjoy to flay me alive I am generally okay with it.

Cheers! :3

[Coffee Cakes]

Aww damn, I'll have to cancel the birthday present I bought you then.

Oh joy, is it a yandere waifu?

Why would I tell you?

[The Princes of the Universe]

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The devil made me do it!

[Coffee Cakes]

\o/

I've always loved that drinking smiley.
Now I can log off and sleep hapy tonight.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

It's not that hard to find someone like she describes.

Shit. I'm more picky than she is when I'm looking for something serious.

my point is were all racist and sexist, even if we push poistive atributes or steresotypes. remember absolutely not racist an dsexist is absolute egalitarian and equal in views and treatment and thats not simpy true. we all have biases, subconsciously not subconsciencely

Depends the tolerance we give to these things based on your aristotelian approach.

I mean, for me being racist for instance is ascribing to stereotypes of other people not their own (instance a girl saying all X are Y) but other people may have other complaints.

[The Princes of the Universe]

I've always loved that drinking smiley.
Now I can log off and sleep hapy tonight.

Yush!

[Soldati Senza Confini]

Oh joy, is it a yandere waifu?

Why would I tell you?

Because then I won't fuck your shit up as much in BGO?

[Soldati Senza Confini]

So if you got serious with someone and found out somewhere down the line they were mixed race, it'd be over? What if they didn't know? Or is your first question on a date "How pure is your bloodline?"

Well given that nobody is 100% pure, (race is a continuum, not separate levels), unlikely . I'm not going to care if a distant ancestor was an Arab (as is the case with many Spaniards) or a Turk (like with Greeks). I'd draw the line at 80%, and even then, separation is a very hard decision that involves a number of factors, and to assume that'd be the only one is just ignorant. And frankly, it's none of your business.

And what? No, I don't think anybody ever asks that. Do you not know how to socialize with people?

I've never gotten this while bloodline purity.

Must we now brand everyone at birth or within 24 hours with something like "race: 80 proof" to satisfy the racists?

[Oceasia]

I never had a date before, for a number of reasons, including the fact that I'm the "Other" one at my class, introverted, and really isn't looking for a girlfriend at the moment.
Nevertheless, i have some criterias for dating girls.

1. Don't be a jerk.
2. Don't be racist.
3. Don't use swear words excessively.
4. Don't smoke.
5. Don't be a feminazi.
6. Don't be ultraconservative.

Having similar movies tastes will be a big help. Movie Night will be a thing.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

It's really terrible, you know. Nowadays you can hardly tell who's mixed race and who isn't. Quelle horreur.

Yes you can. Usually when you are getting serious with someone, to the point where you will have kids, you will know a lot about them, such as their ancestry, as people love to talk about their heritage.

In my years of dating not once has it come the conversation of "what's your heritage?"

And even then all I could say is "fucked if I know".

[Shakyamunicipality]

Having a penis.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

With these circumstances laid out, would you date a non-white?

Depends. I will probably never, ever do anything remotely sexual or romantic with a black girl.

But the real question is: why does it matter to anyone who I'm in to?

Eh, that's your prerogative.

Like we say in El Salvador "entre menos burro mas olote"

[The United Neptumousian Empire]

Being an atheist, being sexually / socially liberal, and most of all, being pro-choice. The sole moral purpose of dating is to find a spouse, I do not want anything to do with someone who thinks otherwise, romantically. And if I marry somebody, they better not believe in divorce because I won't consent to or acknowledge one as long as I live. Marriage is an insoluble vow before God.

Also has to be willing to raise kids Catholic. I don't care if they're a different religion, as long as they meet the above criteria, are willing to have a Catholic wedding ceremony, and raise any children as Catholics.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

Being an atheist, being sexually / socially liberal, and most of all, being pro-choice. The sole moral purpose of dating is to find a spouse, I do not want anything to do with someone who thinks otherwise, romantically. And if I marry somebody, they better not believe in divorce because I won't consent to or acknowledge one as long as I live. Marriage is an insoluble vow before God.

Also has to be willing to raise kids Catholic. I don't care if they're a different religion, as long as they meet the above criteria, are willing to have a Catholic wedding ceremony, and raise any children as Catholics.

Might as well marry a Catholic woman then.

Most interfaith marriages deal with that by raising the child in both religions but letting the child decide which religion is right for them or support them if they choose another one.

I'm also okay with divorce, coming from a family who clearly needed one. For instance, say your spouse committed incest or cheated on you, would you then still remain with them?

[The United Neptumousian Empire]

Being an atheist, being sexually / socially liberal, and most of all, being pro-choice. The sole moral purpose of dating is to find a spouse, I do not want anything to do with someone who thinks otherwise, romantically. And if I marry somebody, they better not believe in divorce because I won't consent to or acknowledge one as long as I live. Marriage is an insoluble vow before God.

Also has to be willing to raise kids Catholic. I don't care if they're a different religion, as long as they meet the above criteria, are willing to have a Catholic wedding ceremony, and raise any children as Catholics.

Might as well marry a Catholic woman then.

Most interfaith marriages deal with that by raising the child in both religions but letting the child decide which religion is right for them or support them if they choose another one.

I'm also okay with divorce, coming from a family who clearly needed one. For instance, say your spouse committed incest or cheated on you, would you then still remain with them?

Yes. I would be obligated to, in the eyes of God. Marriage isn't 'until I feel like it', it's until death do us part.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

Might as well marry a Catholic woman then.

Most interfaith marriages deal with that by raising the child in both religions but letting the child decide which religion is right for them or support them if they choose another one.

I'm also okay with divorce, coming from a family who clearly needed one. For instance, say your spouse committed incest or cheated on you, would you then still remain with them?

Yes. I would be obligated to, in the eyes of God. Marriage isn't 'until I feel like it', it's until death do us part.

You're stronger than I, I suppose.

I couldn't stay with someone who did that.

[Threlizdun]

Being an atheist, being sexually / socially liberal, and most of all, being pro-choice. The sole moral purpose of dating is to find a spouse, I do not want anything to do with someone who thinks otherwise, romantically. And if I marry somebody, they better not believe in divorce because I won't consent to or acknowledge one as long as I live. Marriage is an insoluble vow before God.

Also has to be willing to raise kids Catholic. I don't care if they're a different religion, as long as they meet the above criteria, are willing to have a Catholic wedding ceremony, and raise any children as Catholics.

You sound like a barrel of fun

Yes. I would be obligated to, in the eyes of God. Marriage isn't 'until I feel like it', it's until death do us part.

You're stronger than I, I suppose.

I couldn't stay with someone who did that.

There's nothing strong about failing to end an unhealthy relationship.

[Jamjai]

Having a penis.

exact opposite of what you said on the other thread

[-Ebola-]

Yes you can. Usually when you are getting serious with someone, to the point where you will have kids, you will know a lot about them, such as their ancestry, as people love to talk about their heritage.

In my years of dating not once has it come the conversation of "what's your heritage?"

And even then all I could say is "fucked if I know".

Someone asked me that on the 2nd date once. The relationship didn't last long. (Obviously, this post is OOC, not my Ebola schtick. Ebola doesn't go on dates unless someone has a really fucked up fetish or something.)

[Keyboard Warriors]

In my years of dating not once has it come the conversation of "what's your heritage?"

And even then all I could say is "fucked if I know".

Someone asked me that on the 2nd date once. The relationship didn't last long. (Obviously, this post is OOC, not my Ebola schtick. Ebola doesn't go on dates unless someone has a really fucked up fetish or something.)

I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about heritage, if that's a direction in which the conversation is going then you might as well explore it. Unless you randomly burst out "what's your heritage" but then the problem is more a lack of social skills rather than a desire to know about somebody's heritage.