NationStates' Transgender Thread

[Olthar]

The last thing i need is to get DEAT'd, i can't get DEAT'd...

If this is your first offense, then you won't get DEAT'd. Just calm down, Bailey. This will likely be alright.

Well, Nathi might have DEAT'd someone for a first offense...

[Renewed Imperial Germany]

If this is your first offense, then you won't get DEAT'd. Just calm down, Bailey. This will likely be alright.

Well, Nathi might have DEAT'd someone for a first offense...

Huh? What? I didn't know DLN was like that before she quit being a mod.

[Arcturus Novus]

Well, Nathi might have DEAT'd someone for a first offense...

Huh? What? I didn't know DLN was like that before she quit being a mod.

Nathi quit being a mod? What when why?

[Olthar]

Well, Nathi might have DEAT'd someone for a first offense...

Huh? What? I didn't know DLN was like that before she quit being a mod.

"Quit."

[Grenartia]

Huh? What? I didn't know DLN was like that before she quit being a mod.

Nathi quit being a mod? What when why?

From her announcement post, it seemed like it was internal seekrit 4um bullshit.

Also, Nathi was a really good mod in the year or so prior to her retirement.

[Olthar]

Nathi quit being a mod? What when why?

From her announcement post, it seemed like it was internal seekrit 4um bullshit.

Also, Nathi was a really good mod in the year or so prior to her retirement.

She banned me for telling a joke that had already been deemed not actionable and then completely ignored my claim for an appeal. She was a terrible mod, and the site is better off without her in power.

[Nature-Spirits]

Well today is the day. I suppose considering my incredibly low expectations I can only be pleasantly surprised

Hooray!

OK, so I didn't go through with the plan to go to class wearing stuff under my normal clothes.

I know it can be hard. Hell, the first time I wore nail polish to school I was freaking out each time I had to enter a new classroom, and had put together a speech in my head about how gender expression is protected under the provincial human rights code. And the first time I wore a choker to school I was on the verge of having an anxiety attack and felt like I should hide my neck for the first few hours. And when I wore an empty bra under my shirt to school, I was constantly worried about someone finding out. All of these times everything worked out fine, but I totally understand how nerve-wracking things like that can be.

Yeah. They only give out blockers which are kinda useless to me

Hormone blockers? Why don't they work for you?
I wonder if we were on the same one (Me for very different reasons.

Young trans people in transition are given GnRH inhibitors, which is the same thing used for precocious puberty etc., so I would imagine so.

May a thousand rusty cactuses be shoved up each of their asses.

Because that'll solve it.

OK. They were patronising, gave useless advice, said they can't help, ignored what I said...

The only thing they got right was that dad's behaviour is OK and fully understandable

What the fuck? That's bullshit.

And your dad's behaviour? Understandable, yes (in that the reasons for which parents react in that way to their trans children are known). Acceptable? Fuck no.

OK, so I ordered the strawberry blonde wig. And a pair of shorts to wear over my tights in place of the skirt.

Nice.

I love how even tiny little things can make me feel like complete and utter shit now a days.

I get that. I've been having lots of anxiety attacks and short depressive episodes lately. It totally sucks.

The last thing i need is to get DEAT'd, i can't get DEAT'd...

It'll be okay. Most long-time users (especially on NSG) have gotten at least one warning, tbh. It's not that big a deal.

From her announcement post, it seemed like it was internal seekrit 4um bullshit.

Also, Nathi was a really good mod in the year or so prior to her retirement.

She banned me for telling a joke that had already been deemed not actionable and then completely ignored my claim for an appeal. She was a terrible mod, and the site is better off without her in power.

She had her issues, to be sure. She was really great at dealing with all the trolls who came to this thread, though.

[Val Halla]

Well today is the day. I suppose considering my incredibly low expectations I can only be pleasantly surprised

Hooray!

OK, so I didn't go through with the plan to go to class wearing stuff under my normal clothes.

I know it can be hard. Hell, the first time I wore nail polish to school I was freaking out each time I had to enter a new classroom, and had put together a speech in my head about how gender expression is protected under the provincial human rights code. And the first time I wore a choker to school I was on the verge of having an anxiety attack and felt like I should hide my neck for the first few hours. And when I wore an empty bra under my shirt to school, I was constantly worried about someone finding out. All of these times everything worked out fine, but I totally understand how nerve-wracking things like that can be.

Hormone blockers? Why don't they work for you?
I wonder if we were on the same one (Me for very different reasons.

Young trans people in transition are given GnRH inhibitors, which is the same thing used for precocious puberty etc., so I would imagine so.

Because that'll solve it.

OK. They were patronising, gave useless advice, said they can't help, ignored what I said...

The only thing they got right was that dad's behaviour is OK and fully understandable

What the fuck? That's bullshit.

And your dad's behaviour? Understandable, yes (in that the reasons for which parents react in that way to their trans children are known). Acceptable? Fuck no.

OK, so I ordered the strawberry blonde wig. And a pair of shorts to wear over my tights in place of the skirt.

Nice.

I love how even tiny little things can make me feel like complete and utter shit now a days.

I get that. I've been having lots of anxiety attacks and short depressive episodes lately. It totally sucks.

The last thing i need is to get DEAT'd, i can't get DEAT'd...

It'll be okay. Most long-time users (especially on NSG) have gotten at least one warning, tbh. It's not that big a deal.

She banned me for telling a joke that had already been deemed not actionable and then completely ignored my claim for an appeal. She was a terrible mod, and the site is better off without her in power.

She had her issues, to be sure. She was really great at dealing with all the trolls who came to this thread, though.

It failed to meet my low expectations. I guess being a girl will have to wait

[Arcturus Novus]

It failed to meet my low expectations. I guess being a girl will have to wait

Well, transition will have to wait. You're already a girl.

[The Serbian Empire]

Because that'll solve it.

OK. They were patronising, gave useless advice, said they can't help, ignored what I said...

The only thing they got right was that dad's behaviour is OK and fully understandable

Hardly. Based on that, they're entirely incompetent, and deserve rusty cacti.

With additional TET-anus!

The last thing i need is to get DEAT'd, i can't get DEAT'd...

And it takes two or three DEATings to become banned from the forum.

[Val Halla]

It failed to meet my low expectations. I guess being a girl will have to wait

Well, transition will have to wait. You're already a girl.

For all intents and purposes I am not

[The Serbian Empire]

Well, transition will have to wait. You're already a girl.

For all intents and purposes I am not

At least in the exterior. But what your brain signals is a different story.

[Val Halla]

For all intents and purposes I am not

At least in the exterior. But what your brain signals is a different story.

Which is all negative. I find my body repulsive

[Nature-Spirits]

Well, transition will have to wait. You're already a girl.

For all intents and purposes I am not

Your identity is that of a girl, so you're a girl, even if you don't live as one. Because if you're not a girl, then what are you? A man? I don't think so. I mean, if you're a man, I'm a man, and I am most decidedly not a man.

[Val Halla]

For all intents and purposes I am not

Your identity is that of a girl, so you're a girl, even if you don't live as one. Because if you're not a girl, then what are you? A man? I don't think so. I mean, if you're a man, I'm a man, and I am most decidedly not a man.

You live as how you feel. I live as how I was born. And I'm not an adult either

[The Serbian Empire]

At least in the exterior. But what your brain signals is a different story.

Which is all negative. I find my body repulsive

That tells me you're a girl in the brain. Now making the body match the mental image...

[Heidenheim]

Tag.

[Val Halla]

Which is all negative. I find my body repulsive

That tells me you're a girl in the brain. Now making the body match the mental image...

... Is not going to happen any time soon.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Which is all negative. I find my body repulsive

That tells me you're a girl in the brain. Now making the body match the mental image...

That may be trickier, sadly.

For whatever's worth, the last photo I saw of you on WDYLL? Your features look soft and rather girly, Callie.

[Val Halla]

That tells me you're a girl in the brain. Now making the body match the mental image...

That may be trickier, sadly.

For whatever's worth, the last photo I saw of you on WDYLL? Your features look soft and rather girly, Callie.

My jawline isn't. It's just bone.

[Vassenor]

I know I'm certainly never going to match up.

[The Serbian Empire]

That may be trickier, sadly.

For whatever's worth, the last photo I saw of you on WDYLL? Your features look soft and rather girly, Callie.

My jawline isn't. It's just bone.

Something that occurs even in women when they're 20 pounds underweight. Trust me, you need a bit more body mass to make yourself look more feminine.

[Val Halla]

My jawline isn't. It's just bone.

Something that occurs even in women when they're 20 pounds underweight. Trust me, you need a bit more body mass to make yourself look more feminine.

I don't want to get over weight

[The Serbian Empire]

Something that occurs even in women when they're 20 pounds underweight. Trust me, you need a bit more body mass to make yourself look more feminine.

I don't want to get over weight

You're some 60 pounds from overweight.

[Val Halla]

I don't want to get over weight

You're some 60 pounds from overweight.

If I stat putting on weight I won't be able to stop