Luminesa wrote:Soldati senza confini wrote:
Why should I have a say on a woman's decisions? As in, you're saying it, but you're not giving any reasons for it. Why should I know better than she does about her health when it comes to a pregnancy?
Yes, congratulations in demonstrating people are self-interested by catching that up. Why should it be a responsibility they have to take upon simply because you say so?
No, it definitely is. Here's a hypothetical: you are pregnant but the only way a child can come out is through your urethra (assuming we retain our current anatomy for some reason) would you do it and "take responsibility"?
And thank you for proving not all lives are equal.
After a long absence, I have returned!
Well, think about it this way: it takes two to tango. If you don't want the child in the first place, don't have sex. This country has a MAJOR problem with dads walking out on their kids, and it has effected the culture at large dramatically. The idea that a dude can leave a girl with the baby and just...walk out...is very selfish.
Why should you have a say on a woman's decision? Because it wasn't just the woman's decision to have sex in the first place. Not to mention you have just created a life, when you have created a baby. Creating a human being is a pretty big thing, and abandoning it is, again, a tragedy.
And I saw "quality of life", and here's my thought: my little sister is disabled. She has cerebral palsy. Many people would say her "quality of life" is very small, and that she will never be capable of anything. Maybe she won't graduate from Harvard or send a rocket to the moon, but I can say that she is at the center of our family, and without her our family would have broken apart a long time ago. She is awesome, I don't care what anyone says.
1. Because Abstinence Only totally works for everyone ever... hold on have to replace my 'sploded sarcasmometer again.
2. Just because a guy boinked you does not give him permission to yammer in your face about what you do with your own body. If the woman wishes for the father's input, she can ask for it, otherwise... stfu. The man isn't the one carrying the pregnancy
3. Nice story. Irrelevant.


