What is your ideal romantic partner?

[Soldati Senza Confini]

I don't know about you, but I'd never hit my children with a stick.

Yeah, if there was any doubt before, its all erased now. TRollsevelt is fucking with us.

If you can't accomplish corporal discipline with a belt (no, not excessive use, but reasonable and appropriate use), then you're either too fucking strict, or your kid has a psychological issue that needs to be looked into.

My dad just had to hit me three times across the bum with a belt. Not the "evilla" (or the metal part) but the leather and a light touch on the bum just to make me cry without leaving marks. This just happened around 3 times in my lifetime.

[Firsthome]

How about instead of canning them, we can people who say they should be canned?



As somebody who was spanked by both parents, I can assure you that is utter bullmooseshit.

no, we need to teach children how to behave, they would go running around have sex, get into relationships

when what they ought to be doing is studying

THats bull, I'm Still a virgin to relationships and sex

[T Roosevelt]

How about instead of canning them, we can people who say they should be canned?



As somebody who was spanked by both parents, I can assure you that is utter bullmooseshit.

no, we need to teach children how to behave, they would go running around have sex, get into relationships

when what they ought to be doing is studying

Children should play outside too, studying is important but it's not as important as developing social skills and making friends.

[The Flood]

Related questions: have your preferences on "ideal" partner changed much or are they still the same of, say, 5 years ago? If they've changed, what has?

5 years ago I was 15, I think my ideal then was the same back then, minus wanting a specific religion, as I was not yet Catholic and was religiously pretty apathetic. But my moral expectations were roughly the same, I was still not into premarital sex or pro-choicers and whatnot.

[Firsthome]

Yeah, if there was any doubt before, its all erased now. TRollsevelt is fucking with us.

If you can't accomplish corporal discipline with a belt (no, not excessive use, but reasonable and appropriate use), then you're either too fucking strict, or your kid has a psychological issue that needs to be looked into.

My dad just had to hit me three times across the bum with a belt. Not the "evilla" (or the metal part) but the leather and a light touch on the bum just to make me cry without leaving marks. This just happened around 3 times in my lifetime.

My dad got reported to the police last time he slammed me into the stairs

I went for his throat when he did thT

[The Flood]

Short shorts a minus

Are you more conservative then me or something? Even I dig short shorts. Well, certain kinds. Not spandex ones or ripped up ones. More like the kind that can sort of look classy still.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

I would not want it because then life would be too boring and people would be out of a job.
The reason why we have a job is because someone else needs us, the reason why we struggle and we feel happy when we accomplish something is because of the fact we busted our ass to do it.
Why would you want an ideal life if it means not challenging yourself and your perceptions of the world?

The only way I wish to be challenged is at my own discretion. I don't want to be challenged by external factors I have no control of. It's not a good challenge if it is unpleasant and contrary to my desires, then it's a bad challenge.

Eh, we all have different perceptions I suppose.

I didn't grow up in a very unified household with a normal life. In fact my life was pretty fucking abnormal even though it had a facade of normality.

It's perhaps why I don't mind challenges coming to me so much.

[Firsthome]

Short shorts a minus

Are you more conservative then me or something? Even I dig short shorts. Well, certain kinds. Not spandex ones or ripped up ones. More like the kind that can sort of look classy still.

Nah, I like my girls not looking for attention

[Soldati Senza Confini]

My dad just had to hit me three times across the bum with a belt. Not the "evilla" (or the metal part) but the leather and a light touch on the bum just to make me cry without leaving marks. This just happened around 3 times in my lifetime.

My dad got reported to the police last time he slammed me into the stairs

I went for his throat when he did thT

Slamming a child into the stairs?

[The Flood]

Related questions: have your preferences on "ideal" partner changed much or are they still the same of, say, 5 years ago? If they've changed, what has?

Mine has, definitely.
5 years ago I could have told you I wanted a deeply religious girl who I would wait for marriage and she'd be hyper-feminine/a gamer and smart and a wonderful person to me. Much like Flood's ideal partner.
Nowadays, I just want someone to appreciate me the way I am and accepts me the way I am, flaws and all. It's why I am with who I am right now.

I'm not sure if you're taking a dig at me with this post. Are you implying my ideal is immature or something? Or just using it for an incidental comparison?

[Manisdog]

We need to get back corporal punishment, you know kids these days arent good, they have no sense of anythng, by not doing so we are harming kids

[Spoder]

Are you more conservative then me or something? Even I dig short shorts. Well, certain kinds. Not spandex ones or ripped up ones. More like the kind that can sort of look classy still.

Nah, I like my girls not looking for attention

I say good for her.

It makes me happy when a woman is perfectly comfortable with herself and doesn't feel the need to appease the system.

[T Roosevelt]

We need to get back corporal punishment, you know kids these days arent good, they have no sense of anythng, by not doing so we are harming kids

I agree with you, I don't think we should use a swagger stick every time though, a belt is usually enough.

[New England and The Maritimes]

I have changed a lot. I used to have a whole "type" but now I just want someone thinner than she is wide and genuinely interested in me and open to a genuine emotional connection.

[Grenartia]

How about instead of canning them, we can people who say they should be canned?



As somebody who was spanked by both parents, I can assure you that is utter bullmooseshit.

1. no, we need to teach children how to behave, they would go running around have sex, get into relationships

2. when what they ought to be doing is studying

3. my mother never canned me, I was in boarding school and I used to get canned all the time, I hated it then but now i thank them

1. I mean, its not something to encourage, but there's nothing inherently wrong with it. That's what teenagers do. Torturing them isn't going to change that. All you can hope to do is teach them how to do it safely, and give them a slap on the wrist.

2. Implying they can't do both. I did both.

3. Its fucking torture.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

Mine has, definitely.
5 years ago I could have told you I wanted a deeply religious girl who I would wait for marriage and she'd be hyper-feminine/a gamer and smart and a wonderful person to me. Much like Flood's ideal partner.
Nowadays, I just want someone to appreciate me the way I am and accepts me the way I am, flaws and all. It's why I am with who I am right now.

I'm not sure if you're taking a dig at me with this post. Are you implying my ideal is immature or something? Or just using it for an incidental comparison?

I'm using it as an incidental comparison exclusively.

I'm not implying your ideal is immature or anything like that.

[T Roosevelt]

Short shorts a minus

Are you more conservative then me or something? Even I dig short shorts. Well, certain kinds. Not spandex ones or ripped up ones. More like the kind that can sort of look classy still.

Ideally, I don't like anything that goes over the knees.

[Spoder]

We need to get back corporal punishment, you know kids these days arent good, they have no sense of anythng, by not doing so we are harming kids

May God/Buddha/Whomever you believe in or do not believe in help us all.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

Are you more conservative then me or something? Even I dig short shorts. Well, certain kinds. Not spandex ones or ripped up ones. More like the kind that can sort of look classy still.

Nah, I like my girls not looking for attention

I like my women looking sexy, so of course I will say "bring on the short shorts and lingerie".

[T Roosevelt]

My dad just had to hit me three times across the bum with a belt. Not the "evilla" (or the metal part) but the leather and a light touch on the bum just to make me cry without leaving marks. This just happened around 3 times in my lifetime.

My dad got reported to the police last time he slammed me into the stairs

I went for his throat when he did thT

Were the stairs wooden or covered with a carpet? It's definitely child abuse if you were slammed into wooden stairs by your father.

[Spoder]

Nah, I like my girls not looking for attention

I like my women looking sexy, so of course I will say "bring on the short shorts and lingerie".

Again, I really don't believe "one size fits all".

It will look good on some, not so good on others.

[The Flood]

Are you more conservative then me or something? Even I dig short shorts. Well, certain kinds. Not spandex ones or ripped up ones. More like the kind that can sort of look classy still.

Nah, I like my girls not looking for attention

Short shorts aren't always worn for the purpose of sex appeal. Sometimes it's because it's just hot outside.

[Manisdog]

1. no, we need to teach children how to behave, they would go running around have sex, get into relationships

2. when what they ought to be doing is studying

3. my mother never canned me, I was in boarding school and I used to get canned all the time, I hated it then but now i thank them

1. I mean, its not something to encourage, but there's nothing inherently wrong with it. That's what teenagers do. Torturing them isn't going to change that. All you can hope to do is teach them how to do it safely, and give them a slap on the wrist.

2. Implying they can't do both. I did both.

3. Its fucking torture.

1) The only way to do something is to keep them occupied make them play golf,polo( i played this game), boxing, cricket, tennis,debate,music etc. Make them tired so they go to sleep

2) Make sure children study for atleast 8 hours everyday, we work for 8 hours and children should do the same

3) its not torture

[Soldati Senza Confini]

I like my women looking sexy, so of course I will say "bring on the short shorts and lingerie".

Again, I really don't believe "one size fits all".

It will look good on some, not so good on others.

Oh, of course.

I'm just saying that if "looking sexy" means "looking for attention" I guess I prefer my women getting the attention. It is a turn on to know I have a sexy partner and that she's with me and not with someone else.

[Spoder]

My dad got reported to the police last time he slammed me into the stairs

I went for his throat when he did thT

Were the stairs wooden or covered with a carpet? It's definitely child abuse if you were slammed into wooden stairs by your father.

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What even is this. I think I'm becoming more closed-minded and stupid just by reading your posts.

IT DOES NOT FUCKING MATTER WHAT THE STAIRS WERE COVERED WITH.